FallenLad
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I'm almost a total bottom, and I'll always wear a jock (or something assless) when meeting. But day to day I'll wear hipsters as they're just more practical.
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I can't imagine a point where I'll ever stop wanting to get filled with cum. Whether that's from random hookups or a regular partner. But I also don't want that to be the only thing that defines me. While I'd love to be getting 20 loads a week I simply don't have the time required to get that (might be easier if I lived in a larger city). I can spend hours on a Friday night just trying to hookup a few times. Doing that every night would be exhausting and more often frustrating.
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While I'll usually start on all fours and prefer that, I've got no issues if the guy wants to turn me over. Obviously that's going to takeaway any anonymity from things but I don't really mind at that point. My 'role' as a cumdump is to get fucked and bred. If the guy wants me on my back to accomplish that then I'm not going to complain.
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Love verbal tops, but the caveat being they have to be good at it. Saying "you like that?" for the hundredth time just gets annoying. Also being 'clinical' in your dirty talk is a huge turn off. I once had a guy say "you like my penis in your rectum" and honestly it killed the moment for me.
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Just want to say that as someone who's been getting fisted for 10 years or so, EuRawBull's advice is perfect. His points about being sober are worth stressing. Plenty of people fist on chems, but fisting has such a potential for serious injury when not done properly that both parties need to be aware of what they're doing. I'll have a couple of drinks beforehand and use poppers. But I don't get drunk and I won't get fisted by someone who's clearly wasted or high. Getting experience with being fisted is a slow journey, and it's definitely best to take your time and learn gradually.
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For what to wear it helps to be a bit practical. While the idea of being encased in latex might be hot, you'll probably be a sweaty mess after 30mins. Just stick with a jockstrap and maybe a simple harness if that's your thing. If you're at bathhouse then they'll be showers so cleaning up isn't really going to be a challenge. And in regards to not picking up any other bugs.. well that's just goes with the territory of being a cumdump. You could look into DoxyPEP (see the sexual health forum here) which would reduce the risk of getting some STIs.
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I love the small Boss Hogg from MrHankey, smooth and widest in the middle and I can just ride it for hours. The Asmodeus from Twisted Beast (long red tentacle looking one at top left) gets deep in my guts and I can feel it bulging past my belly button. The OxBalls Pigholes (bottom left) are great fun to play with. So many tops love being able to see right inside me while it holds my gape. Bael by Twisted Beast (dark red in the middle) stretches me open and has lovely bumps and curves. Delicious as it slides in. And lastly the Grip plug by ToppedToys (bottom more triangular plug) is perfect for really working on my stretch. Takes time to build up to taking it all but I know I'm properly ruined when I do. They're all fun in different ways though.
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I've got a small army of silicone friends.
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I've had it happen from playing with huge toys but never an actual cock. I'd imagine the bottom would need to be tiny and skinny, with a >10" top for you to be able to see a bulge in their stomach.
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With toys it needs to be something soft and flexible and ideally tapered or narrow. The second ring is the entrance to the sigmoid colon, which then takes a turn to the left of your body. Anyway rigid that tries to just go straight ahead is going to hit the wall of your intestine, and it's that which hurts.
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I find it makes it clear that you're not interested in that part of your body being played with. Even though I don't get hard when being fucked, some guys would want to play with me or suck me. Being caged sets a clear boundary that I'm just there to please them, I'm not interested in cumming unless it's from getting fucked.
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I'm a lot more focused on a guy's attitude and how he acts, than his looks these days. I've had incredibly hot guys who can barely string a sentence together, flake or can't even fuck. Whereas plenty of average or less attractive guys have been funny, turned up when they said and fucked my brains out. -
Do you like Watersports/piss play?
FallenLad replied to Pig Bottom's topic in Watersports Discussion
Ages ago a local sauna used to have a watersports night. A room had a small inflatable pool in it and guys were encouraged to piss on anyone in it. I have the hottest memory of getting fucked by a guy, while another 2 pissed all over me. I was in piggy heaven being drenched in piss (and drinking it up) while getting bred. It's a shame they don't do it anymore. -
Warming up with some toys and then properly gaped.
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I once went to the sauna with a temporary tattoo saying "Bareback Fuck Hole" on my lower back. Got bred a few times and one top mentioned that he'd never fucked a guy that came with instructions 😅
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This is my favourite way to be used. 🐷
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A good trick is putting small blobs/spheres of SlamDunk in the freezer. You can then push them deep in yourself and have them melt in your hole. I find this is really good for depth play where I want to greese things up much further inside.
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Anonymous sex - what are your thoughts?
FallenLad replied to Musclebot's topic in General Discussion
I love anonymous sex. The anticipation as I'm waiting face down, ass up on my bed, while some guy I've only been chatting to on Grindr for 10 minutes walks in, is delicious. I know he's just there to use me, neither of us cares what the other looks like. We both get what we need, they get a cumdump to unload in, and I get a good hard fuck and a load pumped into my greedy hole. -
I've used online pharmacies to buy antibiotics to use as DoxyPEP (I'm in the UK). No video call, just a questionnaire. However if you think you might have an STD then the issue is that the treatment is usually specific to which one (e.g. what they prescribe for Chlamydia is going to be different to that for syphilis). I've never heard of anything in the UK that diagnoses STDs via online video calls.
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It's usually kept trimmed and shaved. I just find it more comfortable and everything slides in easier.
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If I'm really horny or it's a ridiculously hot top then I'll consider using condoms, but otherwise it's always raw. I just find getting fucked by a condomed cock uncomfortable. Thankfully most guys are happy to fuck bare these days.
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X-lube is soooo much better than j-lube. Far easier to mix, and cleans up a hell of a lot easier. I find using some Slam Dunk fisting grease on my hole as well makes everything slide in.
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There are a few podcasts that focus on HIV but I doubt any hosting network is going to allow one that talks about deliberately passing it on. You have to remember that is illegal in quite a few countries.
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Depression & Barebacking/bug Chasing
FallenLad replied to cheatingjock's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I know a lot of my anxiety stems from the need for approval and to please others (likely due to my childhood). Being a cumdump slut let's me entirely focus on pleasuring someone else, I'm there purely for them to use and enjoy. Getting fucked and bred is a way for me to get that in a simple way. -
"You're a good little slut" I love it when a top acknowledges and compliments my fundamental need to be used.
