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parvenu

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  1. I didnt meant to be philosophical with that title. I mean this new younger guy, very sexy, versatile, looking to fuck my ass, we have hung out several times and I really, really want it raw. I am clean and I am 99% sure he is telling the truth. The thing is he seems a bit shy - he hints about watersports and tonight we really kept joking he would fuck me raw. I absolutely hate condoms - I know, I know, i am NOT glamorising STD's. I just mean for the sheer horny meltdown it causes when a lad breeds me. I fucking want it. How do I take the joking that we do and ensure he doesnt become worried when we are in bed? I will leave out a condom as an option but I truly dont want it to be used. I wont force him but I really just want it fucking raw to be a pig (yeah, i'm new to these urges lol).
  2. It's my ass when I am just out with a guy having a drink - it's my pussy when i'm back with my legs spread like a hungry cunt
  3. Just to say if you are an open faggot I'm also eager to hear your view - both what goes on in your head and what rules you need to not get an attitude and keep coming back for more https://assets.s3xstatic.com/bz/uploads/emoticons/default_smile.png
  4. yeah using porn too much really affected me - i am reducing it but i seriously found that it stopped me from pursuing men and even having sex i would often go limp - my brain just wasnt used to the real thing - just the imaginary porn version lol. Try and clean out your laptop - genuinely delete things. if you use websites you can use apps to block when you go on. It's silly but a bit of structure to make you hopefully not jerk off means you can start pursuing people - but I know you said there arent a whole lot of gays around and tbh things like grindr are crap - it's still better than a life of just jerking off.
  5. So I found a faggot on a dating app who is basically what i want - great foot slave / obedient etc... I have made clear we wont be kissing and I wont be doing anything for him but I want to train him right and have boundaries etc... He is experienced and has a great attitude but any guys have experience with fags to give me a heads up etc? Like any problems that can occur. His main role will just be hours of foot worship and being ignored.
  6. I'm white but for as long as I can remember I have a not so nice looking darker pigment of skin where my ass cheeks rub together - despite being totally clean it doesnt look so nice. Does any one else have this? If so - what did you do?
  7. feet ( clean) / white socks / being dominated, called a faggot / alpha males / being used as a cumrag...
  8. Yeah once, they were of him BUT were like 6 - 8 years old - he still looked similar but hadn't aged so well. It annoyed me and we still went in for coffee but it ruined the experience. A big thing I notice now is not so much blatant catfish but more massive manipulation of photos - certain angles to clearly hide baldness or those filters that give them perfect skin or teeth. Why bother when you are going to meet IRL and look like a clown?
  9. I am 32 and have only recently started using dating apps ( was in LTR for years that went nowhere) but I find I am becoming more open with guys about my kinks. I mean once you are straight up and show you are not a freak (i.e. you can still chat and be a likeable person) then go for it. IF they say no then at least you can move on. I do believe that once you are friendly ( on apps or otherwise) people are normally open minded, if not then why waste your time. I used to be shy to tell guys i like face-fucking, feet, domination etc... but now I'm just going for it.
  10. I think their advice works.... You are being a bit clinical lol. I think I agree I need to just keep trying meeting guys and get over my anxiety so my dick wakes up. But I appreciate the Freudian moment lol https://assets.s3xstatic.com/bz/uploads/emoticons/default_tongue.png
  11. wah wah wah everything is racist - lets face it the cheap sugary drug of ''I'm offended!'' has taken over peoples sensibilities. If you come across porn you don't like - perhaps thou shalt choose another video?
  12. God damn... I read 'Fag' and it is literally me. Like 100% me... fuck lol, how to admit this to new men given the stigma of the word 'fag' lol
  13. parvenu

    Impotent

    Definitely agree - I am a total bottom and just put up a topic asking for advice on being soft when pleasuring a guy - I am loving it I just sometimes don't have it with my cock showing
  14. Hopefully I'm not entirely alone in this - I've started meeting guys after a long hiatus and find that the anxiety (shyness basically) is making my cock go to sleep. This evening I met a smoking hot guy and just couldnt - he was fine with it, he was quite dominant any way but it's really annoying me. I have no issue with getting erections ie. morning or when jerking off to porn or just thinking of guys. I know it is in my head so something like viagra is basically useless, I dont want pills anyway - I'm interested in any advice on how guys who have had this have mentally overcome it. It's embarrassing and leaves me with blue balls. Thanks for any advice, it's really appreciated.
  15. thanks guys! unfortunately some of them appear to be a bit more nasty/manipulative so things will need to go down the darker route hehe, but i like a challenge. god i hate controlling fag hags.
  16. I say go for trump, better him in a wig than maxine walters or wigwam Warren
  17. Yeah there are people with bad views - its called life - I am finding the perpetual fixation on being offended / triggered to simply make the gays look like a bunch of weak attention seekers. Lets ignore the genuine haters and not be so sensitive to some douchebags. Or as you put it: ''sigh...."
  18. Hey guys, I have come to have a big crush on a grindr date that started just as meeting for friends and is now stuck with me having to be around him AND his over-bearing fag hag friends. Basically all are female and i am getting the idea they dont like me as I refuse to go along with their fake attention seeking bullshit, I just want to get to know him and hopefully corrupt him as a fellow pig and have a relationship. How do I get around it? When it comes to socialising they are always there and i dont want to scare him off with a ''formal'' date as that seems to make many guys go into meltdown. Any one else have this issue?
  19. For me it was pretty natural progression, i started looking at more extreme tumblrs for submissive bottoms and came across cash masters. I showed it to my Top and he loved it. Its hard to describe the thrill of being a cash slave, it makes me rock hard yet nervous and is such a turn on to lose control. Whether following him around a shop to buy expensive gear or sucking cock for hours while he runs up a bill shopping online, its crazy but i love it. You need to be careful though, dont push too far too fast or u can end up too anxious which ruins the fun.
  20. not to be a geek but viruses and bacteria are needed as part of life ( bla bla evolution etc...), but for me the STD's like HIV and hepititis - the really nasty ones really need to be cured. That's why although i love the hot stuff on this site the guys who embrace infection from a deadly virus that kills people in such a horrible way, they really freak me out
  21. pretty straight forward q, looking for something that guys have found helps them to stay clean for multiple loads, any recommendations appreciated.
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