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PozBearWI

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About PozBearWI

  • Birthday March 5

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  • Gender
    Male
  • Location
    SE Wisconsin
  • Interests
    Sex with men. I try to not box myself in with one or another exact sex play; although as ED tends to interrupt me more often than I desire; cock sucking seems to be my dominate activity recently. Pre ED flip fucking was my most frequent play. I am not a fan of pain. Have played scat stuff and don't find it appealing. Being the one to have to clean it all up after; it is more chore than pleasure for me.

    Our men who enjoy sex with men part of our community; I have enjoyed lots of conversations here on BZ that are not sex based. In those circumstances I feel more part of a community. I don't have a hard and fast "type"; definitely willing to try once at least and we'll know how we clicked sexually. And even if we don't click much sexually; I am happy when those develop into friendships.

    As a group here, now, in 2023; my sense is our rather open social acceptance is at risk of moving back to fantasy based decisions. Facts and "I don't like" (aka; opinion or thougths about) are often at odds.

    WRT DADT; in part poz social acceptance in the coming years might very well get pretty vicious. I don't know that it will, but my observations of social (fueled by political) tolerance is that we're moving away from it while talking a good game. I am a fan of social tolerance about things we do to ourselves. I am not a fan of tolerance about prohibiting others rights to what happens within their own body. In my opinion each of us should have decision domain over our body. And for me there is a big difference between that and restrictions about where I can put my body. While a flawed system; restricting a social abusers contact with others makes sense. Sentencing seems deeply flawed; fueled also more by religion than risk mitigation.

    I also realize that while I will always find it interesting to discuss the above matters; I fall strongly in the "you do you" camp. Whether it is in opinion or our varied and rather widely differing abilities and talents. The why behind disagreements is often interesting to me; even if the founding principle. I am rather startled at the claims "it's worth any amount of money if we can save just one child"... We each have a time living; some quite short, some quite long, most somewhere in the middle. Perhaps it is simply my stage in life; 3/4 of a century. Being out and gay for half a century now has exposed me to quite a bit of change in public and private opinion. Experiencing a new fatal illness in my communities mix has our recently ended COVID pandemic a relative "walk in the park".

    Jim 7/4/23
  • HIV Status
    Poz, Not On Meds
  • Role
    Versatile
  • Background
    Been out and active since the mid 1970s. My pozzing was by choice to see if I could counteract my genetic resistance to HIV infection. And it wasn't a guarantee. But five months of monthly testing after my exposures I finally tested reactive in 2023. Twelve years ago I would never have done it; and I am certainly cognizant that HIV is not a trivial disease. However it is mostly controllable with a lower side effect profile. I already have diseases for life. I have too many dead friends and I only have a comparitively few years to "walk in their shoes". It is an experience I most definitely am grateful to be experiencing. Will it be much like other stuff I have, not terribly invasive to my ability to self care, get around, experience other facets of living.
  • Porn Experience
    None; save for home videos.
  • Looking For
    Primarily a happy exchange of energy. Raw only though. Might be my place in rural America but the majority of my play buds just want my talented oral skills. I definitely enjoy that and would never say no to sucking a guy off. I would like to redevelop a good topping/bottoming reputation again. It is perhaps excellent that u=u has taken hold somewhat. But largely guys in my area seem to want to avoid poz guys.

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  • BarebackRT Profile Name
    jizzdumpwi
  • Adam4Adam Profile Name
    JustJim

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  • Website URL
    pozbearwi@curiouschaser.com

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  1. all five
  2. Jay have you the next part?
  3. Sure, ok. But what if he finds you attractive? What if you find him attractive? What if every day you saw a guy on your train you found particularly "your cup of tea". But you didn't know how to approach him as he seemed to put out a "stay away" vibe on the train? What might you try to get to know him?
  4. Indeed. And a burner phone is cheap if you're that afraid.
  5. It seems the essential question, will, for example Survivors of the holocaust, or Veterans of one of our many wars be remembered? And to that end, will they be remembered authentically or through a distorted lens?
  6. 🙂 Hmmm I didn't know there was a "best way" to get pozzed. We get pozzed the way we did....
  7. My stuff is in my dungeon. I can close the door and with guests, I just tell them it's my pantry and tool bin. I don't have to open it for viewing. A closed door should give the message well enough. And if they go snoopin, best they don't hold judgements about me. Snoop at your own risk. 🙂
  8. Indeed, we are the reason others decide to be gay. Kinsey showed us that most of us are at least a little interested in same gender sex. And some of us find same gender relationships more fulfilling. Thankfully not all as our species would cease. But we can stand a bit of a slowdown in population growth.
  9. Sounds like a great evolution Phil. One less from your older friend (being a senior myself), practise not performing around others and like with her, just be your authentic self. Lovely how your thinking progressed from "I like this person, let me buy him flowers" to "who would benefit from flowers that last?". And when the tasks which bring us pleasure bring others pleasure too (and often that's the case) that is a big step towards social progress. We are, after all, connected.
  10. Thanks. Hmmm, I'll ask dreamhost if they have a way to block certain global regions.
  11. CRAP. How is this being enforced by the states @rawTOP. I need to assess my own risk with my site....
  12. A turkey baster works. But those sharp edges (if it is a stainless steel one) aren't so great. I am a bit surprised that lube shooters seem to be the same 4" or so length. An 8 incher to me would be better.
  13. I think because we aren't focused on just one thing. I love sex, but I also love a comfortable home and regular good meals. And so there were competing desires as I entered adulthood. Plus, I was so good at fucking up. Getting married at 23 set me back a decade on being able to buy a house and build for my own future. I'm at the back end of a lifespan now. And yet, evolution continues. I don't think any of us was meant to be a certain "thing" every day of our life...
  14. @hntnhole I'm there with you in reflection. But, in addition; Netty has taken eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth to "and eye for decimation". His aggression is beyond reasonable. Now, to be clear, that is his aggression, not the US. Man, the idea of Gaza Riveria is a rather mind boggling result. A POV of "as long as it is good for me, it is the right thing to do.".
  15. I was more like you @Iker80. 23 first fucking in my first brief marriage. I was 28 first time I got fucked. It was still pre AIDS so didn't even consider condoms. First guy I sucked off was a few years before that. Hopefully for most of us our sex life evolves. It isn't a contest. 🙂
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