I’m a white btm. I tend to be more attracted to people of color across the board. I’ve struggled to determine whether my attraction stems from:
-Fetishizing the features that are different from my own
-Appreciating the dichotomy between appearances
-There are truly features about white guys I find less attractive
Despite me being more attracted to non-whites I’m always blindfolded in a sling when I am bottoming. I have a strict ‘no dick or load refused’ policy (unless someone walks up with a condom). For me, the appearance of the cock and the guy doesn’t matter. I will beg for cum from whoever is willing to give me more. A load is a load.
Rarely due I top. It is at the end of the night when I’m throughly loaded and looking to leave the bathhouse. I’ll seek some other btm to fuck after digging out some of the loads churning deep in my hole to use as lube. I do not recall a time when I chose a white hole to use.
I was aware of bias and conscious to avoid stereotypes before I was sexually active. By no means am I perfect but regardless of color, race, ethnicity, age, etc. I do seek to find similarities between myself and others before I examine differences. I also choose to view others in an optimistic manner rather than degrade.
Communitycundump, thanks for opening the discussion. Certainty room for a lot of gray area between fetishes, racism, and stereotyping. I often cringe when I read related posts or app profiles in the online gay community.
Dick diversity is one of the reasons I moved away from the Midwest. I definitely appreciate my bottom (and top) bros of color.