Letting another guy control who fucks you

[Guest]

During my Hetero days I always barebacked, there is no stigma if straights do it 

[downtownswallow]

I enjoy being in a submissive role BUT I’d be very uncomfortable letting someone else choose who gets to breed me UNLESS it’s a Top I trust AND we’ve discussed it prior and I’ve given a  “Yes/OK to a list of guys from which he can select. 

[ErosWired]

3 hours ago, downtownswallow said:

I enjoy being in a submissive role BUT I’d be very uncomfortable letting someone else choose who gets to breed me UNLESS it’s a Top I trust AND we’ve discussed it prior and I’ve given a  “Yes/OK to a list of guys from which he can select. 

That’s a quite different dynamic than what most of us are talking about here, or have practiced. As a trained sexual service submissive, I might even  -respectfully - question whether one is actually in a submissive role if one controls the list of potential Tops. The Top choosing from such a list isn’t expressing his desire or his discretion - he’s simply implementing the bottom’s, and that’s not the same thing at all. 

That’s not intended as any sort of critique of your choice, by the way. Good for you for knowing your limits and sticking to them.

[headnurse20]

I would love this! I'm getting turned on at the thought of it!

[HardOneLA]

The answer is "yes".  At some point in our lives we realize what our true purpose and role is.  I was a top for 30 years but always wanted to be fucked, just couldn't be.  Then at 50 I flipped (for a variety of reasons) and have never looked back.  I realize now that my purpose is to accept cocks to perform their natural manimal function and breed me.  As a top the big thing was cumming and the feeling it gave.  As a bottom it's the entire process - the top 'gentling' me, exerting his control, bringing me into heat by working my tits, rimming me, etc; by mounting me and showing his dominance by getting his cock into an always tight hole; then fucking me in a variety of positions which give me feelings that I'd never had before.  And finally the ultimate - breeding me and letting me know about it.  Love verbal tops, which is the biggest turnon and motivator.  And then when they breed it's practically a sacred rite of accepting their seed.  

Once I've been fucked and bred it only makes me hungrier for another cock as I don't allow myself to cum.  So having someone control me  and arrange cocks to breed me would bring this pig into hog heaven.  Oink!

[Guest RawCunt]

The only real dom guy I served did this.  But he expected me to take any cock, and insisted I whore it up at beats and clubs when he wasn't around, so it was a win win situation.

[wonderfulwoof]

I am a Bitch for any top.  Sunglasses sling poppers at your location n do to me what u want

[Qban]

Back when I was at university I had an older bf/fb who used to do exactly this sort of thing.  He’d take me to a cruisy restroom or tearoom on campus or nearby (DC was supercruisy back in those days and nearly every office building in the city had a tearoom), have me go into a stall, strip and hand him my clothes.  Then he’d have me out on the floor on my knees servicing whoever he directed me to.  He was very dominant and really got off on controlling the whole scene - who touched me and where, who I sucked, who fucked me and for how long, who was only allowed to watch, etc. - and surprisingly (or not) the other men in the tearoom always complied.  When the place was empty, he’d go into a stall, sit on the toilet with his feet up on the stall walls, and have me crawl under the wall from the next stall, lie on my back on the stall floor and eat his ass while he talked filth to me until someone else came in.  I was only about 19-20 and he was probably 28 or maybe 30, and no matter where we were or what we were doing I knew he was in control of the situation so I felt safe knowing he wouldn’t let anything bad happen to me - in fact, I found out running into him years later that he was actually in law enforcement.  Anyway, it was a HUGE turnon for me and I’ve been a fan of tearooms and public sex ever since.  

Edited May 30, 2019 by Qban

[rawsatyr]

That whole concept of 'BEING WHORED OUT' makes me tingle. Had it happen a few time with my 'slut mentors' who just directed the action and next thing I know, some hot stranger's cock is up my ass with a whole crew of spectators watching. Spectators definitely add to the rush! Add randoms strangers groping me!

[BttmBoy4Men]

I experienced this, but it wasn't exactly my choice.  My current boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now.  When we first started dating, I noticed he definitely had some alpha-type tendencies (several times, he literally ripped my underwear open to get to my hole).  Our sex was definitely some of the best I've ever had.  We ended up moving in together, and we would fuck nonstop.  I was still a hungry cumdump sometimes though, and one day my boyfriend found out.  Long story short, my hole was already filled with someone's load one time when he went to fuck me.  He laughed it off and said he thought it was really hot.  Over the next few days, he started talking about how we should open up our sex life and have threesomes, etc.  We had been getting kinky in the bedroom already and this seemed really hot.

We had a really hot friend who was a hung dominant top kinda guy, so we hit him up.  My boyfriend had the idea of getting a hotel room, and they could just hang out and fuck me all day.  We got the room, and the other guy met up with us.  We played around for a bit, when my BF pulled out some rope and said it would be even hotter if they tied me up - and it was.  I was on my knees, hands tied, feet spread, as they went back and forth between using my holes.  I was sucking my boyfriend's big cock as he watched our friend pound my hole, telling me how hot it was to see other guys use my cunt.  Eventually, they both blew their loads and sat in the chairs drinking beers, leaving me tied up on the bed as they bro'd out. 

Then, after a few drinks, my boyfriend laughs and says to me "So, you wanna be a cumdump huh?  Going around my back getting fucked by god knows how many dudes?  Such a cock hungry faggot, can't go a few hours without a man's cock in your little pussy.  Well, let's make you a real cumdump haha."  I was facing the opposite direction from them, unable to see their faces, my cum soaked ass pointed towards them.  Then, I hear them get up and then the door close.  They left.  I laid there for almost 30 minutes wondering what they were doing, when they were coming back, when the door opened.  It wasn't them.  Some random guy just walks in, rubs his cock along my already cum covered hole, and started pounding me.  He blew his load in my hole, pulled up his pants, and left.  This went on all night, random guys just walking in, making comments about my hole or whatever, and breeding me.  Sometimes it would be 2-3 guys at a time.  One of them had what had to have been an 11" cock, and he pounded out my hole relentlessly.  It became harder and harder to even feel each subsequent cock, and they began commenting on my "sloppy loose pussy".  I didn't know how to feel, but a part of me was enjoying every second.  Eventually, after probably 6 hours, my boyfriend and our friend returned.  They laughed and made some remarks about the condition of my hole at that point.  Although I didn't know what to think at first, my boyfriend knew I learned to love it.  He even started fisting me (something he'd never been able to do before), just to prove a point.  And that was the night.  True story.  My boyfriend has become even more of an alpha top kinda guy, and it's amazing.

[gangbangsuperstar]

i have always done that.from my uncle to a few boyfriends, a few daddies and of course my owner.had a boyfriend in highschool that loved taking me to porntheatres and strip me naked and get me fucked by as many guys as he could.he's the first boyfriend to take me to the bathhouse to watch me take loads and he really got off on watching daddies and nasty guys fuck me

[Guest gwmcatcher]

The only guy to control my hole is my husband. Either he fucks me or a guy of his choosing. 

[Guest]

My husband controls who fucks me.  Either I find someone and he says yes or no, or he finds someone for me.  It’s for safety mostly, but he is ultimately the one who makes the decision.  I love that.

[Teeslad70]

For the past 6 months I've been meeting semi regularly with an older man who decides who I fuck.

He's introduced me to 2 other men so far and he promises more.

I can't even begin to describe how exciting I find it.

[Njn0mc]

2 hours ago, Teeslad70 said:

For the past 6 months I've been meeting semi regularly with an older man who decides who I fuck.

He's introduced me to 2 other men so far and he promises more.

I can't even begin to describe how exciting I find it.

I so love when im told who and how im going to play with.. its so hot