A question for bottoms on chastity

[CumBustion]

Was in a dom-sub relationship. Top was heavy into BDSM. Locked me in chastity for months. He had the filthiest mouth with an equally massive dick that utterly destroyed my insides. There were many times where I didn’t want to fuck because it just plain hurt. While fucking me (almost always from behind) he’d whisper in my ear that I’m just a worthless cunt and that my sissy boi-pussy is only good for emptying his balls and bladder in. He would often squeeze my balls to the point it felt like he was gonna crush them, or sometimes threatening to castrate me and he’d put rubber bands on my balls. 
 

But, he did teach me how to cum hands free thru p-spot orgasms. My prostate was constantly being stimulated with dildos, the fuck machine, p-spot stimulators, vibrating butt plugs, and of course his fingers and cock. In my head, I can still hear him growling at me, “Cum fo’ me, cum like a bitch! I wanna feel your pussy nut all over my dick! You ain’t a man no mo’, you a sissy ass boi with a busted up cunt!”

We did have our moments, though, usually after a marathon fuck session. We’d be spooning in bed, him slow fucking me, and he’d ask me if I was comfortable taking it to the next level (i.e. castration, feminization, becoming his CD/T-Girl). He eventually let me go, but we kept in touch. I was even invited to his wedding. He found his dream girl, a beautiful Filipina trans-woman with a smoking hot body that he funded. 

[Pozguyinchi]

I am in chastity almost 100% of the time. I take it off a couple of times a week to shower. My clit has become such a beautiful little nub that I’m afraid to keep my devise off for any length of time for fear that it will get bigger or even worse erect! To answer the main question on this topic, I feel it definitely has made a big difference in how I am bred. First your pussy is hungry all of the time. It hardly goes away. This has caused me to lower my standards and let any man breed me that is willing. It also really helps define the male sub roles. To my fortune I have learned how to orgasm without touching myself, but my ultimate goal while my man is in rut is to please him. Making sure he knows he is all man and his needs come first. Chastity helps me focus on the man and appreciate every part of his masculinity. Giving him soft kisses on the neck, giving him my full attention and staring into his eyes and smelling his pubic and pit hair help to take in his essence and know my role. I feel this is all possible because I am in chastity.

[Pozguyinchi]

On 5/6/2018 at 8:20 PM, BarebackFan said:

How messy does it get when you piss with a cage on?

Can you piss at a urinal or do you have to sit?

 

I always sit. 

[Hot2fuck]

I regularly lock myself in chastity, sometimes for up to a month. Makes me continuously horny and wanting to be fucked 24/7 which I’m happy to oblige. I wear it to nude beaches, regular beaches under speedo style swimsuit, saunas, bathhouses, etc. Make it clear that I’m btm and looking! 

[cori44]

Personally, as a top, a loose sloppy pussy and a cock locked in chastity are two of the hottest things a bottom can have.

[Guest]

As a bottom if my top requested or told me to put on a chastity device I would put it on with no questions. when i started to get fucked as a teen, my top never allowed me to cum or even play with myself, it was him who jerked me off if he wanted and it was all about him and his pleasure. if i wanted to get off, it would be after it was all done and i jerk myself off thinking of the events that had taken place. but it was and it as always been about my man, his pleasure and giving him what he wants and desires and pleasuring him completely, I am the slut so its not about me, but rather about my man who wants pleasure out of me.

[Guest]

Started recently and it feels totally like me and feels like part of me now.

Edited January 8, 2022 by Fistedslack

[gwmxyz]

Like everyone else, I agree, it's hot and a turn on.  It's about being submissive and controlled.  I've only had one on for short periods during play.  Would love to do it for longer in daily life - the challenge of, say, the swimming pool changing room would be hot.  Hard to know whether it would be a problem or an opportunity.

[TightBott7]

I haven’t tried it but it sounds hot. Alpha tops have already trained me to accept my dick as being totally superfluous and  have learned to keep it limp while getting my holes pounded so as not to risk cumming hands free. But wearing a chastise device while away would remind me of my role to please the top and enhance my submissiveness.

[alko]

I've already tried it and it helps me focus only on the passive side. I find that we have more sensations by excluding cock from the equation like that. For me it will make it easier to reach anal orgasm

[FallenLad]

I've used a chastity cage both for longer periods (I did Locktober, only removing it briefly to clean or exercise) and also during sex. For me it helps to take my cock out of the equation and just focus on the top and his pleasure. I always wore a jockstrap and kept my cock tucked away but a chastity cage makes a clear signal that I don't want it played with or even acknowledged.

I've had some exquisite orgasms while fully locked away as I've been able to focus entirely on the pleasure I'm getting in my hole.

The submissive side of longer chastity play is also intense. Giving up control of that part of you to someone else is the ultimate form of submission.

[Jay89]

question about Chasity cage sorry if wrong area put this in.  i am struggling to slide both my balls in to the ring i feel ring if  big enough but some help tips would be very much appreciated 

[Musclebot]

I am always in a cage whenever I am getting fucked, whether by a fuck buddy or as a cum dump. Firstly, it establishes the hierarchy and roles, my pleasure comes second to the top. It also puts me in a submissive headspace and reinforces my desires to provide the top with as much pleasure as possible. Secondly, it somehow shifts all of the sensations from my cock to my hole, and makes me more hungry for cock. I can take numerous poundings without a break once i am caged. Also, nothing makes me more satisfied than when i clench on a cock while it cums in me, and somehow i think having a cage enables me to do that consistently and repeatedly well (or maybe its the squats lol)

[tallslenderguy]

i own several cages, but for me, over time, they've become more accessories, sort of jewelry that accessorize. For me (and i suspect for many others), chastity is more than physical, though on the sexual spectrum, i figure chastity is still an individual experience. 

i see a "cock" as way more than a penis. Most of a "Cock" to me is the drive, desire, need, behind it, to penetrate, fuck, control, inseminate, impregnate, possess, mark, etc..  In that respect, i don't have a "cock," so caging it is a sort of false affirmation and can miss a true connection between me and the Top Who sees it. i've tried cages on, but i've never caged myself... to me (again, not making universal assertions), that feels contradictory.  In a sense, my 'cage' is already in place, it's natural. But i don't really see it like i have a cock in a cage, because i don't see myself as having a "cock" (as described above).

i don't really feel i have a word to describe what i have. Some call it a "clit," borrowing from heteronormative culture, but that isn't accurate. i'm not a woman, i'm not trans, i'm not effeminate (not saying anything wrong with those, but none describe me). On an infinite spectrum, i'm somewhere in between.

my penis is a sex organ that can derive physical pleasure from being used, but the typical ways our cultural conditioning has of relating to it don't fit for me, so while it may feel good to me physically to orgasm from having my penis used, does not feel good or fitting psychologically.  

Guys Who see and want my penis as it is are the most effective cage i have experienced. i find the only time i am tempted to masturbate in order to climax is when i have not been receiving enough cock. The only "cock" i have is the one a Man uses with me. The only orgasm i want is the orgasm a Man has inside of me. When i am getting that, i don't need or want a separate one of my own, my sexual energy is focused on His Cock and Orgasm as the connection that we share and bonds us. 

[VersGuyAnon]

On 3/4/2013 at 5:57 PM, eurotopnyc said:

I have quite limited experience with chastity (that is, using a chastity device on a bottom - I'm a top, as my moniker indicates). However, recently I had an experience that turned me on to chastity, to the point where it's become a fetish for me. I did a hookup with a visitor in his hotel room here in NYC. He was wearing a chastity device throughout. I can't begin to describe how good he was as a bottom - extremely hungry, attentive, affectionate. He was very verbal and horny to the point where he seemed, at least for that moment, to live for cock. At the same time, he was very affectionate in a way that I love (kissed me a lot, caressed my balls while I fucked him, tenderly cleaned my cock after I'd dumped my load). I wanted to fuck him again but he flew out the next morning. I don't have his contact information, but I've been thinking about him all the time.

For some reason, it was such a turnon to me that he would use a chastity device to give himself so completely to me. Of course, I have nothing to compare with, so I don't know if it was just that he was such a beautiful guy and great sex partner but I know the chastity device enhanced the experience for me at a mental level at least.

For a while I I've tried to find bottoms who are specifically into chastity but they seem surprisingly rare. So my question for bottoms here is: if a top asked you to strap on a chastity device before sex, would you refuse him, would you reluctantly go along with it, or is this something that could enhance the experience for you as well?

It would depend on the situation, the location and what was on offer. I never touch my cock while I'm being fucked and I discourage others from touching it. My focus is the top's cock and doing what i can to maximise HIS pleasure so I ultimately get his load. 

If we're talking about a bigger fetish scenario (e.g. where the top would then maybe open me up with a speculum and do other stuff), then I'd very possibly be up for it. I've never worn a chastity device, but I'm always open to new ideas.