Bottoms - What Do You Look For In A Top?

[evilqueerpig]

My ultimate top is Black or Latin, hairy, with facial hair, sweaty and funky, nothing like having my face shoved into ripe pits while getting fucked, also love it when a top spits into my mouth and he tells me my ass is meant to be fucked, cock size is unimportant, if the top is skilled at fucking and has the stamina to cum multiple times, a PA can enhance the fucking too...last, but not least, he'll be skilled at kissing.....if this describes any of you, hit me up thru my profile.

[HotSeed]

I look for a top who is masculine, hairy, dominant, and in decent shape. I look for guys who approach me, tell me what they want and take control of me. Kissing a guy with a beard or stubble is a real turn on for me. I want a top who will force his cock down my throat, then fuck my ass hard and cum in me multiple times. I love a top who plays with my cock and makes me cum when he is fucking me. If he uses my cum to lube my hole as he fucks me or feeds me my cum that is the best. It is great when a top approaches me in a public place , like an after hours party or bathhouse, and strips and fucks me when everyone is watching.

[Guest Matias47]

Generally, handsome, rugged's a plus, decent shape -- though a six pack isn't required, the chest measurement needs to outsize the waist. Sorry bears and chubs, just my taste. I also like it if the guy is my around my size or bigger (5'9", 185 is me -- see pic) Though one of the best tops I ever had was good 3 inches shorter than me, but holy shit could he fuck. Cock average to hung. Like a lot of bottoms I do like a big cock, but, the only times I've cum just from being fucked were by average cocks. And let me tell you, popping like that is intense. For personality, just be a nice guy. Confidence is great, arrogance is nonsense. I'm not the kind of bottom that only cares for the top's pleasure. I'm there for my pleasure as well. That said, fucking my face and and smacking my ass when you fuck me is something I like -- so if you like that, too ...

[Fucksurrey]

Fuck I'm shallow - looking for cock about 9 inches and v thick to fuck me raw. Don't care what it attached to as long as he can fuck.

[tallslenderguy]

cum, and lots of it. when I'm not in heat, looks matter a little more. I'm pretty slender and generally like a slender guy. i think sooth is hot, and I'm one of those guys that likes a nice ass on a top, love to grab it and shove if I'm on my back. but if I'm in heat, a lot of that goes out the window. i have one regular guy who is pretty completely anonymous, (i.e., i'm naked and ass up whenever he comes over). he's pretty big bodied, not someone I would normally look at and want, and he also has a small cock... but his loads are usually big and that keeps me inviting him back... plus he's kind of a sweet guy in his communications via email. I like a sweet guy.

[cam1972]

Confident, masculine man. I don't mind a bit of a gut. Just want him to care about his health and hygiene. Someone that is a few years older than me is a plus but definitely not necessary. The "must have" is respect.

[Snarkybitch]

Someone who's confident and masculine, clean and well-groomed, likes to kiss, and who cares about making me cum.

[sentry75]

What I look for in a top:

Uncut. Love the skin.

Big cock. Ideally at least 8 inches.

Total Top. Avoid the awkward "wanna fuck me?" moments.

Clean. I mainly have sex at the baths. Bums me out if my buddy couldn't even shower.

Bit of a preference for black guys. Not anything obsessive or anything, maybe it is just that there seems to be a prevalence of the factors above in that demographic.

those are the big things. I don't care that much about looks or age or body type as long as the guy's shape doesn't get in the way.

[robi1972]

As long as its around 8" & thick & he fucks raw n hard, that'll do nicely, if his cock aint big enough, then will get him to use his fist

[DarkroomTaker]

Any, although i like hairy and Thick legs go to my front.

[very evil slut]

That is quite a question. If we talk about physics-yes good build is a big plus(especially arms & shoulders and yes butt,despite the fact that i am a 100% -NON versatile- bottom), no need to be ripped or some giant gorilla, but simply manly stature. I find dick size mostly irrelevant(except for really,really tiny that keep getting out with each movement)-like them in every shape and form and besides it is mostly about thickness and technique anyway. Now, to 'masculinity'-the thing that really makes a man interesting,desirable and 'sexy' and makes you want to experience,feel & taste him. For me that is: self confidence, assertiveness, perseverance, some mettle, wit, good amount of persistence and tenacity and sometimes patience. Wow-that was a long list. People I can't stand are drama queens and they are a LOT of tops like that-we bottoms are more dramatic by genetic design, but I can't stand that in bottoms either. I just find cold,steely,solid & balanced people more attractive, regardless if it is for a ONS or a relationship or 'friends with benefits'. I am aggressive and direct and naturally find this a good feature-not to be misunderstood with arrogance! As I said, I like self confidence but I am going nuclear on people who think the rest is blessed with the simple fact, that they are around and give 'meaning' to our existence. So, for me there is more to a top than pure physics and great package.

[btm2bbred]

I like a Top who can get hard quickly and maintain his hard on thru multiple fucks. If he is into long power drilling sessions with multiple cum loads over several hours, I'd be happiest. But I'll take what I can get, so a pump-n-dump is better than no sex.

A hard cock and a dominant, controlling attitude trumps looks, body build, age, cock size, etc.

[bjbottom]

I like tops you look like they can throw me around like a rag doll but doesn't. Ideally, they are 40+, hairy, and know how to use their cock to maximize their pleasure as well as my own - I enjoy being fucked roughly.

[btm2bbred]

In addition to what I said above in 06/12, I look for a Top whose main (or even better, sole) mission is to breed his seed in as many holes as he can.

While I like any dominant man, my ideal Top would be someone late 30's to early 40's with a 6" to 8" rock hard cock who enjoys breeding a tight ass.

[fuckboy20]

It was getting to a point where I was willing to let any man with a dick fuck me. Or just the size and look of a cock.

But after numerous hook ups, escorting, and meeting enough people I know that there are times when it's not about me it's about the other person. So this gives me the freedom to get what I want out of hook ups and having sex with people who I choose.

I have to say when I think of all the hook ups I've had that ones that stand out the most were the leather experiences. Especially from 3 men I remember strongly. One unfortunately was condom, the other was bareback, and the one after him was bareback. But the attitude that these leathermen had, the respect but control over a boy they have and the fact that they just oozed, dominance, sex, and masculinity. Just looking at these men made me feel so much smaller and without verbal command puts me in my place. Height isn't as important but usually men who have some kind of build, beefy, bearish, muscular, and furry always helps. Always been a lover of facial hair but not a requirement. Hair doesn't matter to me either. I'll take a top with a shaved head or a full set of hair. It's just also something about the look that these men give you and how it sends all kinds of shocks, electricity, and power through your body. And then a hot masculine or dominant voice. These are the men that I will give complete control over to.

I might give up my ass to hookups and men I meet if I'm horny. But just because I'm giving up my ass doesn't mean I'm giving up myself completely and that's all I have to offer. These three men knew that this boy had a hell of a lot more to give and they gave more as well.

But another type of man I get into are just natural, laid back, low key, and horny as fuck regular guys. I have a fuck bud or two like this. Sometimes we'll make out, I'll suck him, but it always ends with him fucking me how he wants. He's not really verbal or commanding it's just the force of his will and physically. It's just obvious to tell he's a horny fucker who wants some ass and will take it how he wants. That's also hot. He's fucked me dry, spit, lube, and in several positions. Sometimes I go over there and I am on all fours in a jock waiting for him. It's just the natural, raw, and animistic, behaviors of men like this that are a real turn on. He's furry as fuck too and has a great cock so complete package. I'm just a fuck bud and a piece of ass to him though. But just to experience everything he has to offer and to be used by a man like that. I'll always be more then happy to be his piece of ass and take his load.