Do any tops use condoms anymore?

[wood]

IMO the number of guys actually using them is falling. 
 

I am usually very upfront about wanting bb, but I was chatting with a guy yesterday who I was really into, and wanted to play ASAP. He also said safe only and he asked lots of health questions first.  For many that’s a turn off but after doing outreach and sexual health work for years I don’t care and just answered. He comes over, and is way sexier than his pics, and with a giant dick. We get to playing and the next thing I know he’s pushing in me bare. We have an amazing time, and are chatting after and he just said yeah I like bare, but can’t stand when people can’t answer his questions. So it seems even ardent condom users like it raw too. 😂

[blackrobe]

1 hour ago, wood said:

IMO the number of guys actually using them is falling. 
 

I am usually very upfront about wanting bb, but I was chatting with a guy yesterday who I was really into, and wanted to play ASAP. He also said safe only and he asked lots of health questions first.  For many that’s a turn off but after doing outreach and sexual health work for years I don’t care and just answered. He comes over, and is way sexier than his pics, and with a giant dick. We get to playing and the next thing I know he’s pushing in me bare. We have an amazing time, and are chatting after and he just said yeah I like bare, but can’t stand when people can’t answer his questions. So it seems even ardent condom users like it raw too. 😂

The numbers on condom use are smaller than I expected (my emphasis below):

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"Of course, the real question is: will people use condoms? When it comes to gay men, the answer seems to be “no”. Smith’s study found that “only 16% of MSM reported consistent condom use during anal sex with male partners of any HIV status over the entire observation period.” Other studies have also found low rates of consistent use – an internet survey conducted by George Mason University asked over 14,000 MSM if they had used a condom the last time they had anal sex. Over 56% reported that they knew their partner had had sex with other men in the prior six months. In spite of that, condom use ranged from 26% to 56% – clearly not high enough to make a dent in the epidemic."

There is a decent longitudinal study "Trends in condom use among MSM in the United States: the role of antiretroviral therapy and seroadaptive strategies" that has a good graphic with this text "Adjusted increase in concordant condomless sex per every 3 years was for 18–24 years 16% (CI: 12%, 20%), 25–29 years 9% (CI: 5%, 12%), 30–39 years 9% (CI: 5%, 12%) and 40 years and older 7% (3%, 11%)."

[FuckNuttChaser]

I won't fuck or get fucked with a condom. 

[Beardude]

Condoms are a deal breaker. Raw dick only. I'm a cum dump that needs loads.

[Pnpguyny]

15 hours ago, Gingerloadwhore said:

I won't fuck or get fucked with a condom. 

Anybody who would wanna use a condom with you should be shot 😈

[andrewguestz1939]

I'm versatile bareback only

[eagerbott83]

Just reading this thread made me realize that in the past 10+ years of getting fucked by tops, I cannot recall a single one use a condom, much less one suggest it. That's pretty crazy now that I think about it...I prefer it raw so I never ask for them to use one so maybe it's me?

[CumBustion]

In the past 10 years, I only recall two Tops wanting to use condoms, and one eventually took it off because he couldn't nut. Sex is just as much psychological as it is physical. If a Top has it in his mind that his seed is not going in someone, I find they have a harder time performing. Nature intended men to cum inside someone. 

[poztwink]

lol no

[Guest BritBottom]

On 10/9/2019 at 12:12 PM, Pnpguyny said:

Anybody who would wanna use a condom with you should be shot 😈

Though I agree with the principle. that solution seems a little extreme 🤨  I'd try for a rehabilitation programme, might even volunteer as a rehabilitation raw practice subject.

[UncutMecosTop]

Never have used a rubber in my life...Not even tried one on ....Proud to have bragging rights on that....I don't believe in rubbers and don't understand why any guy would put one on

[punaman]

been fucked for 50 years and only once have had a condom encased cock in me, didn't like the feeling. Still neg and still getting fucked. If they want to wrap they can go somewhere else, I only take raw cock and loads

[a2malways]

I didn't bottom much until the last decade and have only been barebacking for five years, but today, bare is generally the assumption. I don't think it was that way 15 years ago.

Here in Toronto I would say 60-70% tops assume bare. A large number would wrap if the bottom wanted it, but that is never a conversation I have. Of the rest, I would say maybe half assume a condom but could be flexible, and about half are adamant. Some of those are the "deal with the boyfriend" and I respect that. But an astonishing number are angry assholes who act like you are the only barebacker on earth. I just move on.

And yes, what they say in profiles about safe sex practices is bullshit. Some of that is getting better as more sites have more nuanced choices. But I have to admit it is fucking weird when younger contacted by a guy whose profile not only says "Safe Sex only" as the pulldown choice, but whose comments also include "always play safe",  when your own profile is titled " Bareback bottom looking for loads".

 

 

[newsubbottom]

So far being newer if asked guys to use them. So far two didn't want to and convinced me to let me let them fill me up, the third guy really took it out on my tight pussy for having him wear one

[AriesBB7]

It never even gets negotiated/discussed anymore with most guys.  I have sex with a LOT of different guys (I am a total bottom) and they all just push in and start fucking.  Not that I mind, but they also never seem to ask if it is ok for them to cum inside.  They just assume it is (which it is fine with me, but I can see how that might annoy some bottoms) and unload inside.