".....but Don't Cum Inside Me."

[RideMyBlkDik]

OK. How many times have you heard that expression? And have you ever told a top that he can fuck you raw but "don't cum inside me."  Since I am a total top who is into breeding holes raw, I find that expression offensive. Recently I met a hot guy in DC who agreed to let me top him bareback. But we went back and forth because he thought I was crazy to want to nutt inside his ass.  Finally he said I could bust my nutt inside him "only if I can show him papers to prove that I am HIV negative". At that point my dick went from rock hard  to JELL-O limp. Yes, I was upset. Has a bottom ever stipulated that you pull out  before you bust your nutt?  And when you bottom, have you ever asked a top not to cum inside you? Why? Years ago my neighbor got pregnant even though both she and her boyfriend swear that he had never put his penis inside her vagina.  However he had rubbed his raw dick against her raw vagina many a times.  Her doctor informed her that his pre-cum inadvertently got inside her. Enough to make her pregnant. She was highly disappointed.  So guys...when you agree to bareback, remember tops can be pre-cumming inside your hole while he's fucking you...So please don't play with my emotions.   It gets even worse if I am fucking raw (and really getting my groove on) and just when I am about to get my nutt inside dat hole, the bottom at that point says, "don't cum inside me"!!!  WHAT DA FUCK!!!  Why would bottoms want to fuck with a top's head like that?  Maybe I am getting all bent out of shape over that expression. For a Top like myself, cumming inside dat hole is just icing in the cake. Just don't bareback if pulling out is an option. Pulling out is not an option for me. Am I wrong to think and feel the way I do?  Pre-cum can be just as potent as cum.

Edited November 29, 2015 by RideMyBlkDik

[Guest]

no, you're not wrong .. you go in raw, you bust wherever the fuck you wanna bust .. :>

[nelliess]

They're missing out on the best part of being a bottom. Seeing the tops expression or hearing his grunt as he nuts deep inside, knowing the pleasure you're both experiencing can't be beat. If you're going to get fucked bare it makes no sense not to go all in.

[Guest Bearman]

When a guy gives me his raw cock no way would I ask him to pull out before he shoots his load.It would be a big disappointment to him and just as big a one to me.I love to have a top shoot his load as deep as he can.What a total waste of all that glorious cum to pull out

[Guest descartes70817]

I haven't heard that for years - usually in adult book stores - but my usual response was to agree if that was what it took to slide my bare cock into some guy who insisted - always better to beg forgiveness than permission because usually that's exactly what the guy wants but can't bring himself to admit it. I loved watching the guy's expression when he realized I was cumming inside him quite deliberately in spite of my promise. It never ceased to surprize me how many changed their minds about pulling out afterwards. I like to think I educated them that they were missing the best part.

[TigerMilner]

I have never, and would never deny that pleasure to a man. Makes no sense. And I hate to see it in porn. Shoot the load as deep as you can get it and pound it up in there for good measure. That is what breeding is all about. I love it when a man cum's inside me. The ultimate intimate connection.

[hexfet]

Its kinda insane anyway - if I'm fucking you - I'm precumming a ton inside your ass and using it to pry open your deep inner ring.  If at THAT point you don't want my cum - you really don't understand how STD risk works.  And well I'm going to jizz your ass whether you like it or not because if I'm in you raw - you ARE taking my load in you balls deep.  One of the perks of staying rock hard well after I cum is the ability - if I really must - to not clue you in if I blast you... [heh]

[PERVERSATILE]

It's not breedin-

if you ain't deep seedin

[cam1972]

Another example of how uneducated people are about std's. It's in the precum too. It amazes me how ignorant some are about these things. If you are that concerned about std's, you shouldn't be barebacking. That said, I'm with Tiger. I HATE it when a top pulls out in porn. Especially in the vids entitled "top BREEDS bottom". NO HE DIDN'T! He got precum in him, but he didn't really unload inside him. So if I don't like it in porn, you better sure as hell not pull out when you come if you are fucking me. I want it all. I've never told a top to pull out and I never plan to.

[Bttm2go]

Back when I first got back into barebacking I would let the guy know he needed to pull out before he cummed. It was never an issue and they all respected my wish. However, it was Glen, former FB, who finally convinced me to take his load. One night he just dropped his load inside me. It felt so good, I have never refused a load in my hole again.

Some guys just need to slowly work into barebacking and taking loads. You can always let him know upfront that you don't pull out when you fuck. Then you can avoid the hassle of being asked to pull out just as you are ready to cum. Give them some time to adjust to it all. Soon enough they will get off on taking your load.

[Guest ff-whole]

Back when I first got back into barebacking I would let the guy know he needed to pull out before he cummed. It was never an issue and they all respected my wish. However, it was Glen, former FB, who finally convinced me to take his load. One night he just dropped his load inside me. It felt so good, I have never refused a load in my hole again.

Some guys just need to slowly work into barebacking and taking loads. You can always let him know upfront that you don't pull out when you fuck. Then you can avoid the hassle of being asked to pull out just as you are ready to cum. Give them some time to adjust to it all. Soon enough they will get off on taking your load.

I'm with Bttm2go. Some guys need to get eased into being a bottom where cum is deposited deep inside... Also a lot of people are not as educated in the risks involved with bare sex... I know I wasn't... Where you? Explain them calmly and get on with your own live as a bareback top. When I startednout there was no internet and very little information about the taboo bareback gay sex... Some guys still haven't found this site or information sites about the risks.

Don't be harsh with them, find yourself a true cumdump bottom who does appreciates your load and let's you enjoy his mastery bottom experience... Come to me... ;-)

[tradiemason]

I never have n never would ask me top to pull out ! Takin me tops loads is all part of the fun ! If ur cock is goin up me cum n piss hungry hole so is ur loads ! Pound ur babys as deep n hard up me as you can (_0_)

Edited November 30, 2015 by tradiemason

[atlfukbud]

My goal once inside a sexy hole is to pump it full of cum and get my btm man off too (ideally bending over and swallowing his load as I continue to coat his interior walls) -- if I'm bottoming I want his load too! I know younger men who play these games--- they really want the loads, just not the responsibility of asking for them and want the top to take charge and 'accicentallly' seed them so their conscious is clear "it's not my fault, I asked him to be safe and not cum inside me" == whatever you need to tell yourself to get through the night I guess?!

[tallslenderguy]

I have never, and would never deny that pleasure to a man. Makes no sense. And I hate to see it in porn. Shoot the load as deep as you can get it and pound it up in there for good measure. That is what breeding is all about. I love it when a man cum's inside me. The ultimate intimate connection.

Ditto, I see it in porn and am totally disappointed, and if a top does that to me, I get pissed. To me it's like interrupting an orgasm at the best part, I just don't get it.

I agree with the others who also realize it's just kinda ignorant, I suppose one could argue you are lessening your chances of catching HIV (It's not as easy to catch as some believe), but that is not true about other STD's. 

[cdog204]

This has never come up with me. Granted, I have limited experience. If I'm sliding in ya, you're getting bred.