".....but Don't Cum Inside Me."

[cam1972]

You said a whole lot in your most recent post in this thread. So much can be said about so many issues you raised but I won't go there. However please allow me to highlight two of your many statements:

 

 

So if you think this topic has become a dead horse, is it fair to say that you no longer enjoy seeing others' points of views in this thread?  

 

Based on your dead horse statement, is it fair to say that any new perspective on this topic will only amount to repeating things that have already been discussed in this thread?

 

And what are you saying to a brand new reader of this thread who would like to contribute based on his own personal experience? Are you implying that his point of view won't matter because the horse has already been flogged to death?

 

I am just curious. Please tell us how your really feel about this thread.

I have already told you how I feel about this thread. i think it's an important topic. I would be happy to see NEW points of views on this thread. But there haven't been any for quite some time. Different words/same thoughts. From both sides. And until misterpiggy made his post, this topic had went off the front page. It was dead. And that means no new people were coming to this thread and making points of views known. But if someone new wants to contribute something new or repeat what everyone else said, then go right ahead. I'm not trying to stop them. Do I think new points can be made? I guess anything is possible, but they haven't been for a while now. I have made my views known so many times that I feel like a stuck record (another reason for leaving the thread). And now, instead of discussing the real topic, we've gone to arguing over statements made that have nothing to do with YOUR original post. Used to be, the moderators would have stepped in by now and said to keep it on topic. So, how I really feel about this thread is that it's went off the rails. And it has become irrelevant. Not the original thought. That will always be relevant. But this thread has become irrelevant. Until it gets back on topic, there's no point in posting. Since I do not feel like hashing over statements made, I'm going to let you at it. The floor is yours. I'm not upset. I'm not angry. I just honestly don't care to argue over this anymore. I've had respect for you throughout this thread. You can disagree with someone and still have respect. I'd like to leave while I still hold some of that for you.

Here's to someone new coming along and blowing our socks off with a very informative post that has a viewpoint that no one has even thought of. Let's see if it happens.

[shaved_thong_lover]

hi, i am a bottom and prefer for a guy to degrade me by pulling out and shoving his dirty cock in my mouth and cumming, fkrcing me to swallow, so because that is what i enjoy i beg every top to cum ass to mouth. that being said, if they dont i love it as well because i oush it out and eat it for him. but often it doesnt fully cone out and i am left without my cum meal... i am disappoonted if i cant have cum in my mouth, but i understand, it is my job as the bottom to do whatever the top wants, so if he wants to cum in my ass, that is his decision as my pleasure should cone second to his... however i still always beg for it in my mouth, and many tops. gove it to me... if not, there is usually enough inside me after a few guys seed me that i can push out something to swallow. to be honest. i have done that in the middle of a sex party and licked the cum from my ass off the floor and next thing i knew, guys were lining up to seed me

[Sharp-edge]

If i a top doesn't precum at all, like me, i don't EVER remember me precumming.. i don't think you could get sooo easily HIV... but still yeah.. if you want safe sex do safe sex.. it's stupid if you fuck without condom and just pull out.. 

[RideMyBlkDik]

... but still yeah.. if you want safe sex do safe sex.. it's stupid if you fuck without condom and just pull out.. 

Great point.

It's like sending mixed signals... you wanna take a raw cock but you don't want the load inside your fuck hole. It's as if some guys are trying to redefine safe sex.

[snaketat]

No doubt, this is a big topic for lots of guys. While I have never said those words to a top, I guess I an understand it coming from a newcomer. But, in my mind taking a raw cock is admitting you are willing to take all that goes with skin on skin man fucking. Anyone one who plays around with barebacking and is trying to " fool" themselves into thinking they can be safe by cotius interruptus is not, in my opinion, fully aware of what they are doing. Asking another dude to take ownership of your responsibility for safe sex seems inappropriate. If that is all negotiated up front,no problem, but doing it moments prior to having a load jammed I your ass also seems wrong.

I do recall one time, maybe the first time I was in a situation where it was obvious I was gonna get fucked...a lot. It was at a nude, gay campground in Georgia. I was bent over a bench along one of the fuck trails. A group of dudes came along and I quickly had a cock stuffed deep. His buddies were urging him to give me a load.......and I wanted to tell him " no not inside me". I kept quiet and dude one soon did as his mates suggested. It did not take long before each of the other two had repeated the act.

That moment of being torn by wanting to bareback and being afraid of cum was pretty intense...and probably unwise. I am sure I was not as mentally prepared to take unlimited raw loads as I thought I was. I kept my mouth shut and did it...but it was not smart.

I have had a number of bb tops pull out and hose my back with their juice. I have always thought they watched too much porn and felt that seeing the money shot was how all queers fuck. In my world, if I am riding your cock, I want your cum.

[misterpiggy]

I do recall one time, maybe the first time I was in a situation where it was obvious I was gonna get fucked...a lot. It was at a nude, gay campground in Georgia. I was bent over a bench along one of the fuck trails. A group of dudes came along and I quickly had a cock stuffed deep. His buddies were urging him to give me a load.......and I wanted to tell him " no not inside me". I kept quiet and dude one soon did as his mates suggested. It did not take long before each of the other two had repeated the act.

That moment of being torn by wanting to bareback and being afraid of cum was pretty intense...and probably unwise. I am sure I was not as mentally prepared to take unlimited raw loads as I thought I was. I kept my mouth shut and did it...but it was not smart.

 

I have never heard it expressed like that before..."being torn by wanting to bareback and being afraid of cum was pretty intense".  I am sure many guys can relate to that experience.  Being afraid of cum is quite common in the gay community.

[Guest bbbearlover1]

I had just one person ask me not to cum inside of him after raw fucking, and he was the last one.  It felt like the most unnatural thing in the world to be right at the moment of breeding, and then pull out.  I promised myself that I would NEVER accept that stipulation again, and I've kept to that promise.  I make it clear that if I go in the pussy, then the pussy will be bred (and he will appreciate the breeding more than he will know).  Pulling out is for uninteresting porn.

[misterpiggy]

It felt like the most unnatural thing in the world to be right at the moment of breeding, and then pull out.

I believe it felt unnatural to pull out because it was.  Just like raw skin-to-skin action feels like the way nature intended us to fuck.... so too pulling out before unloading inside that fuck hole feels like the most unnatural thing in the world.

[bbzh]

I'm convinced after reading this thread again that RideMyBlkDik and misterpiggy are the same person.

I'd be willing to wager major $$$ on it. 

[KindaBasic]

Not saying a bottom's wishes should be ignored, but if you've opted to be fucked raw you should not be surprised if the top nuts inside of you.

[smoothie52]

As a total bottom, those are words that never have and never will cross my lips. I love raw cock and have only had guys wear condoms a couple of times in about 50 years of fucking. I understand a man not wanting to get diseases and using a condom, but for me to take a raw cock up inside and then say, "pull out" is just nonsense. it's a big tease in the first place and just wrong. I take raw cock because I love it and it's natural. Fucking should be pure pleasure for both men involved and having a top breed me is the biggest pleasure in the world. For him, releasing in my ass is pure instinct and nothing should stop that. If you get your cock in me, it's bare and you will not pull out.

[CumBustion]

On 11/29/2015 at 7:24 AM, RideMyBlkDik said:

And have you ever told a top that he can fuck you raw but "don't cum inside me."  Since I am a total top who is into breeding holes raw, I find that expression offensive.

I have told a Top not to cum in me before while he was fucking me raw...but it was fully knowing he had every intention on busting his nut deep in me. He got off on being very aggressive and dom. Our fuck session regularly included simulated rape play and doing things to me "against my will". Man, I miss getting fucked by him....

[Guest]

How can any bottom even dream of asking a Top not to cum inside him? As a bareback bottom it is my duty to do everything in my power to please an Alpha Male! I would feel like a failure and incomplete if he didn't cum inside me. My place is to please him and be used by him. Bottoms don't dictate where a Top cums! 

[breedmeindy]

2 minutes ago, bottomBBboi said:

How can any bottom even dream of asking a Top not to cum inside him? As a bareback bottom it is my duty to do everything in my power to please an Alpha Male! I would feel like a failure and incomplete if he didn't cum inside me. My place is to please him and be used by him. Bottoms don't dictate where a Top cums! 

I have a say in where my tops cum... they know before hand that it had better be inside my ass or inside my mouth.  I don't accept cum elsewhere.  If they can't agree to one of those two locations, I usually won't even bother with them...  I'm the bottom... I've earned my load(s).  :-)

[ChainedBoy]

In my view, once a fuckhole agrees to take a raw cock - he has consented for receive the load.

CUM INSIDE ALWAYS.