hungry_hole Posted December 11, 2015 Report Share Posted December 11, 2015 Asking why a total bottom never fucks may sound like a contradiction but it's not. I've met several guys who describe themselves as a "total bottom" but they still occasionally would not only top but really enjoy fucking and dumping their load deep in some wet hole. It's clear from watching porn that fucking a hole and then shooting inside feels really good. This is different from asking "Why don't more total tops sometimes get fucked?" because wanting a cock up your ass is sometimes hard to accept and it does not come natutral. So it's not the same thing. After all most bottoms either jerk off or use a fleshlight or like getting sucked. So why then more bottoms never fuck? I've been fucked by total bottoms and in my experience it feels no different than being fucked by a total top. The enjoyment is the same, they both talk dirty in the same way ("You like my cock up your hole?"), and they both react similar when they shoot their loads. The only difference I've noticed in a sauna is that "total bottoms" shoot their loads quickly. I consider myself a total bottom, I've fucked a couple of times and don't enjoy. From videos I can see how hot it is to dump a load. But why don't I fuck? One reason is that I'm afraid of finding shit. As a bottom I always clean myself and I know my hole is clean. Another reason is that my cock gets very sensitive when I cum and the few times I've fucked mots bottoms like to strangle the cock and I've hated that. A third reason are infections in the urinary track. If I'm getting any infection I prefer to getting it by bottoming. Any reason why some of you bottoms NEVER breed a hole? Or those bottoms who do occasionally breed a hole, do you fully enjoy it once in a while? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NordicBtm Posted December 11, 2015 Report Share Posted December 11, 2015 Hehe good question I have only once bred a hole and it was nice, but I think for me the main thing is that I like loose sloppy hole. And since I'm mostly looking to get fucked anyway the opportunity just doesn't present itself I've had vers tops ask me to fuck them and they were so tight I could hardly get into them... like not my thing at all sorry! But a hole loosened up by another cock... easy to get into and cum as lube. Well I'd breed it too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheatingjock Posted December 11, 2015 Report Share Posted December 11, 2015 I've tried topping a few times and isn't for me. Just like pussy isn't for me. (Well...not quite that bad haha) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PigTonight Posted December 11, 2015 Report Share Posted December 11, 2015 total bottom,... don't jo much, and don't like getting sucked at all. I top when I want to top, its usually in frustration from a top who just can't fuck. I don't enjoy topping much, but no functional problems in doing so. I wish more guys were total tops as opposed to versatile. and versatile and flip fucking are not the same thing, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators drscorpio Posted December 12, 2015 Moderators Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 I have performance anxiety/erectile dysfunction issue. If my cock happens to be in the mood, and there is an ass there to fuck, I will go for it. But the more I take cock in my hole, the less interest I have in my cock. I may want to jack off later, but while I am on the hunt for cock and cum, my cock is only a distraction to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RideMyBlkDik Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 Bottoming is more of an art than it is a science. I have always admired men who can take cock after cock like a true pro. As a total top, I know that's not for me. I have never bottomed and I have absolutely no interest in bottoming. None whatsoever. More power to the bottoms who feel the need to cross over and breed a hole from time to time. In my opinion, true total bottoms are usually pathetic when they try to top. And true total tops usually look and sound ridiculous when they try to bottom. On the other hand, there are a few men who are definitely totally versatile and I applaud them as well. But again, I do have the most respect for men who are true total bottoms and for whom all cocks and loads are welcomed. In short, whether you are a quarterback or a wide receiver, STAY IN YOUR LANE!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlwaysOpen Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 ...different from asking "Why don't more total tops sometimes get fucked?" / A thousand lashes to you!! Suggesting even in passing one of the few true tops still around should discover anal sex !!! What were you thinking?? As a 110% bottom in a town that Rand MC Nally maps has officially changed the name of from Ft Lauderdale to Ft Bottomdale on their newest printings, where Google maps auto suggests Ft Bottomdale-- WHY would you even plant a seed in the few remaining tops heads?? So , any true tops reading this forum, PLEASE know anal sex is terrible- you DEFINTELY do not want to go there. You cock will get smaller each time you take cock in the ass, and soon Saturdays will be spent at IKEA looking at fabric covered chairs aisle after aisle-- so just don't bend over and take it !! Keep on plugging bottoms and reinforcing your masculinity- but just say NO to taking it up the poop chute 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NLbear Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 Simple. When I top I am done in a few minutes. No pleasure for the bottom who is just getting into the fuck. Over and done in a few minutes. That is not a fuck, it is just getting off and a disappointment for the bottom. So I prefer a good fuck with a top with stamina who can fuck my hole for longer than 5 mins....... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ff-whole Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 Okay, I consider myself a total bottom - well when I am with men... Yes I am bisexual so in that sense I am not a total bottom, because with women I have to fuck, that is when I don't use my mouth, fingers and hands... I once had a woman that wasn't averted in using her hands to give me a fisting and that was just super. I do have an erectile dysfunction issue as well. It is not always as bad when I am with a woman, but even than I have a problem keeping it hard. And with women I enjoy using my mouth more anyway... She can sit on top of my head and mouth while I suck her cunt and asshole and my hands will grab her tits... With men I just love the absolute slut experience that a gang bang and load after load deposited in my ass can give me... So why change that? I love the post from @alwayopen... it gave me a great laugh... Yes we need more tops... so please tops, do yourself a favor.... stay true to your calling in depositing your seed in our open holes... All the power to your balls... Keep those baby producing sperm cells growing in your testicles and your mind set to delivering them to our asses or wherever the bottoms would like them collected... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungry_hole Posted December 12, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 Simple. When I top I am done in a few minutes. No pleasure for the bottom who is just getting into the fuck. Over and done in a few minutes. That is not a fuck, it is just getting off and a disappointment for the bottom. I've never been disappointed with a quick breeding, when the guy fucking starts shooting after a few strokes. I know that the top usually apologizes but I don't care. On the contrary I find those quick dump really hot especially when the leaves without saying a word and the only thing left is his load. Hot, hot, hot! @NLbear: don't feel bad the next time you shoot too quickly. @AlwaysOpen: In the post I'm asking why more bottoms don't fuck more and not for tops to start bottoming. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NLbear Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 @hungry_hole: I know, as a bottom, I don't want a quick fuck. I want to enjoy it too as long as it lasts. And I want it to last long. Some guy shooting his load in me in 3-5 minutes is not going to satisfy me when I am just getting into it. I want a good, long pounding. That is why I don't top. I know that I wouldn't enjoy it if the top cums too quickly and leaves me lying there unsatisfied. Everyone his own preference I guess. A bottom needs to enjoy it too, not just the top getting his rocks off. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwmxyz Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 Small cock, quite lazy and takes ages for me to cum. Those are my reasons. And then - astonishingly - having to say no the whole time coz they want the whole lukewarm thing repeated. Flavours aside, turning straight again might even be up there as an option. Occasional fucking of top guy before he shows how its done properly is in different category and quite hot. Especially if they cant coz of pain but want it really. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nelliess Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 I do get frustrated sometimes as a bottom who also tops occassionally that more bottoms don't flip. As with everywhere there are more bttms than tops here and I say to guys that ask me to fuck them that I'd be up for a load swap and always surprised when they act like I've asked to shit in they're mouth. It's not as if it's a unpleasant thing to do and we will both get what we want. I'd rather be versatile and get some action than stay pure and remain unfucked. Related to that a total bottom who is also mega hung and doesn't put it to good use is just a crime against nature. :-) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NLbear Posted December 12, 2015 Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 My cock is 7-7.5 inches (depending on the state of horniness). Some say (even on this site, looking at my pics) it's a shame and would love it up their hole. I have a beautiful piece of thick meat and they want me to fuck them. I know my cock is hard and ready, but I just like to take it up my ass and bottom. For the reasons I stated earlier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungry_hole Posted December 12, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 12, 2015 My cock is 7-7.5 inches (depending on the state of horniness). Some say (even on this site, looking at my pics) it's a shame and would love it up their hole. I have a beautiful piece of thick meat and they want me to fuck them. I know my cock is hard and ready, but I just like to take it up my ass and bottom. For the reasons I stated earlier. You are getting off topic because it's not about how much a bottom likes to get fucked. After a bottom has been fucked at a sauna for example, before going home some bottoms hunt for a hole that turns them on, they fuck it, breed it and then go home with several loads in their hole but also having unloaded, ready to go to sleep. I don't do it not because I'm afraid of shit, urinary infection (not STDs). I prefer to maybe get sucked or jerk-off. Let's face it, when I'm watching BB movies it's clear that the top it's enjoying it. I know many bottoms do like breeding a hole after they're done bottoming, but why not more bottoms do top? Small cock, quite lazy and takes ages for me to cum. Those are my reasons. And then - astonishingly - having to say no the whole time coz they want the whole lukewarm thing repeated. Flavours aside, turning straight again might even be up there as an option. Occasional fucking of top guy before he shows how its done properly is in different category and quite hot. Especially if they cant coz of pain but want it really. This is the kind of answer I was looking for. Small cock is a good reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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