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Interesting article, and thanks for sharing.  My view is that for those of us who came of age as queers well before the AIDS crisis of the 80's have always had the love of cum.  Fucking pre-AIDS was amazing.  Although faggots were not as free to be out at that time, the network of clubs, baths and dark rooms gave us plenty of places to play.

 

For the post-AIDS fags out there, a lifetime of safe sex messages have been beat into your heads.  It takes some effort and a good amount of bravery to step out of those queer limiting safe sex rules.  But once someone does, the love of taking it raw and the enjoyment of fully sharing cum is amazing.

 

No doubt, I have found no-limits, full on raw fucking to be the most incredible experience.  But, I have to admit that for a number of years my sex life suffered as I tried to hang on to what I loved and avoided as much risk as possible.  No doubt, those were highly unsatisfying times.   I gradually loosened up my standards and last year took the final step.  The wide open sex I experienced as a chaser and the quality poz on poz sex I am not enjoying have been everything I could dream of. 

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I have a porn novel from the 70s - one of those small paperbacks with cheap paper, It is full of guys talking about how bad they want to cum inside their partner or have their partner cum inside them. Gay men (all men actually - straight guys hate rubbers, too) have always had a cum fetish. It only seems odd nowadays after 30 years of people fearing cum because of AIDS. 

 

Thanks for sharing this article. 

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Interesting article, and thanks for sharing.  My view is that for those of us who came of age as queers well before the AIDS crisis of the 80's have always had the love of cum.  Fucking pre-AIDS was amazing.  Although faggots were not as free to be out at that time, the network of clubs, baths and dark rooms gave us plenty of places to play.

 

For the post-AIDS fags out there, a lifetime of safe sex messages have been beat into your heads.  It takes some effort and a good amount of bravery to step out of those queer limiting safe sex rules.  But once someone does, the love of taking it raw and the enjoyment of fully sharing cum is amazing.

 

No doubt, I have found no-limits, full on raw fucking to be the most incredible experience.  But, I have to admit that for a number of years my sex life suffered as I tried to hang on to what I loved and avoided as much risk as possible.  No doubt, those were highly unsatisfying times.   I gradually loosened up my standards and last year took the final step.  The wide open sex I experienced as a chaser and the quality poz on poz sex [fix --as you said Not enjoying] I am not enjoying have been everything I could dream of.

Good luck in the future.

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