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Bottoms: When Do You Want To Cum?  

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  1. 1. Bottoms: When Do You Want To Cum?

    • A while before he starts fucking me, about an hour before. This is so I can get the first load out of the way and settle in for a long fucking session
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    • Just before we start fucking, during the foreplay before anal sex. This is so I can get the first load out of the way and settle in for a long fucking session
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    • After he has started fucking me, but before he shoots his load. I want to shoot my load whilst he is inside me
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    • Just after he has finished fucking me and shot his load up my asshole – I want to shoot my load while I watch his cum-covered cock come out of my ass
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    • Within an hour or so after he has shot his load and cleaned himself up. I like to jack off or have him jack me off until I shoot, just thinking about how he fucked me
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    • More than an hour after he has barebacked and bred me, after he has gone home and I am alone. I like to jack off by myself until I shoot, just thinking about how he fucked me
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    • Never. It’s not important for me to cum at all - either before, during or after he barebacks me. My focus is entirely upon his cock fucking my ass my ejaculation is completely unnecessary
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Posted

For me there are two different answers depending on the situation. 

1- hot Top Man fucks and breeds me one on one. I want to cum at the same time as he is filling me up with his cum. 

2- group action at club etc- I don't want to cum till the end of the night and every hard cock in the place has had a turn at fucking me good  

BBRT- fucknfeedme 

 

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Posted
19 hours ago, justsexnowatl said:

Vers here, but I enjoy getting fucked by total tops sometimes.  I'll let the top fuck and finish in whatever position he sees fit, but in my own "perfect" situation I love the grand finale to be getting fucked and bred on my back, knees pulled back for a deep breeding, and being able to watch the tops face, direct eye contact as he's seeding me - I will almost always cum on demand at the exact same time or slightly after on purpose - watching his eyes roll back in his head as he's cumming is the ultimate turn on 

I completely agree with this!! Although, when in bottom mode, it's also HOT to  get fucked several times over a day or two or three without cumming --this keeps me horny and frenzied for more cock and cum. In the end,  when I can no longer hold back, there's a rapturous, legs shaking, eyes locked, fully synced, poppered-up, explosion of cum from both of our cocks...then just as I'm about to catch my breath, my top pushes my legs back and felches his cum from my hole before consummating the breeding with a sloppy kiss...  

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Never before my top.  Other than that it's up to him.   Had one top unload then immediately said "now fuck off home slag and want yourself off there" which was so fucking hot.    Only once got very close to cumming from cock but sadly it didn't happen as he shot first (as it should be).  I've found a split between those who want to see me shoot once they've cum and those who couldn't care less.   Sluts do as they are told 

Posted

perhaps it is my own evolution as a bottom fag/transvestite, but my own desire and need to orgasm has reduced over the years. Kind of funny in some ways. I am getting more cock than ever and LOVE getting fucked. But, I just do not need to blast my own cum very often.

perhaps more specifically, when I am in full fem mode (most of the time I am not at work) I have ZERO desire to cum and just never do. Once in a while when not dressed or when in a group setting (and not dressed) I will jack one off or let a guy suck one off, but that is somewhat rare.

since if confirmed that i was knocked up a few weeks ago, I have pumped out a couple....mostly out of being curious about seeing if being POZ was making me any more prone to sharing my cum----and really cannot say that aspect has changed along with my status. Still love taking cock...and getting more POZ on POZ fucking than I ever imagined.....but just no desire/need to shoot my own toxic jizz.

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This is a tough one since for me it depends on the situation. When I am in a group setting nuttting out of my cock is the last thing on my mind. I enjoy the sexual stm of guys sucking it or stroking it while others are stuffing and using my ass like the male sex organ it is. I enjoy plenty of assgasms and those are very intense waves of pleasure as well. When I'm with a single guy sometimes i will nut with him, or, if he is one in a series of hookups, I will focus on getting him off, which is fine with mots tops since they are just looking for a place to dump their Lust load. I most often just nut by myself over porn or chat since my body does need ejaculation 2 or so times a day. But I've found withholding from cumming while having ex keeps my body primed to need more and more.

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Guest KptNLine
Posted

I am also surprised by the number of bottoms who chose the last option (same as me!) As a bottom locked in chastity, I am rarely allowed to cum, and sex has (for me) become more about me receiving pleasure exclusively from the Top. What I mean by that is that, even if the Top chooses to unlock me, i don't touch or stroke my penis. My orgasm is irrelevant to the whole encounter, but a more accurate answer for me would have been "cumming hands free while being fucked." 

Posted

when I get fucked I don't focus on cumming. I sometimes extend it to up to a week or so where I get fucked every night by several guys but don't cum.

nevertheless when the right top is among the bunch he can make me cum hands free and that's fine with me.

 

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I am somewhere between the last two options, either after he has gone and I'm on my own or never. But closer to never.

For me, him cumming inside me is the equivalent to my cumshot. I get more satisfaction from him shooting in me than I do from my own cumshot

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Guest BareSkin95
Posted

When I feel a guy shoot in me and know that I have satisfied his needs, I feel good about myself and the situation and need to get off. Plus, I love it when a top fucks me on my back and sticks his dripping cock back in while he bends down and licks my cum up off my chest.

Guest 120DaysofSodom
Posted

I cum when I am told to cum, unless I cum hands free, in which case that isnt my fault.

Guest 120DaysofSodom
Posted
Just now, fungayboy said:

Yes it is! ;)

I certainly wont argue with being punished for cumming when not ordered to, but still no ma fault :D

Posted
On 2017-6-1 at 3:24 AM, xxbjn2 said:

I don't care if I don't cum, it's not about me, it's about him and his cock and making him feel as good as I can. If I do cum, it will be at the tops request.

I like the way you think mate.  This was always my attitude when I was a bottom.

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