Do Tops have a right to bottoms’ asses?

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I am a bottom. I have NEVER topped another man. I’m 99% sure I never will. If I’m in a bathhouse or being whored out, sure, my holes are there for the top to take. If one cums up to me at a bar and wants to fuck me, I usually say sure. But it’s extremely rare to find someone who sees me on a street and says, “around the corner, now.” I do have very sub tendencies so I might say ok, but it’s never happened yet.

[pasv35]

Since I accepted my condition of bottom, I never have said no to a man.

when a man asked  for fuck , no matter how he looks or his age, I accept,  is my duty.

Other thing is when he gets rude or try to do things that are beyond my limits, I have the right to refuse.

[mike258]

As a top, I've found many bottoms want to be dominated. I'm a rough-around-the-edges type of guy anyway, so I'm not the type to finesse a bottom. Usually guys like when you're kind of a dick about it.

[Cumjunky215]

Yes, we're here to provide them  a warm home for their kids.  Slide in, unload, and I'll keep them warm all night.

[Guest Born2bottom]

I willingly let any top breed me at his wish. Especially the non white tops

[PhoenixGeoff]

So, much as I love my slutty bottoms, do keep in mind that by telling a top you take any and every raw cock you can, you're basically telling him that you only think of him as a cock and balls.  Now, lots of men, both tops and bottoms, may like being objectified like that.  I get into it myself sometimes. 

But here's what I'm going to suggest:  expecting a guy to fuck you just because you're advertising yourself as available is both kinda lazy and kinda arrogant.  If you're porn-star hot, then you can perhaps get away with it (for now).  But most of us just aren't that hot.

So maybe you take a minute or two to figure out what turns your top on and then try to give that to him.  And maybe that's being a dirty, nasty, slutty cumwhore.  But maybe it's something else.

What I'm saying is, why not try taking a page out of the book straight women use and practice a little seduction?

[Phallarchist]

On 11/10/2018 at 3:39 PM, mike258 said:

As a top, I've found many bottoms want to be dominated. I'm a rough-around-the-edges type of guy anyway, so I'm not the type to finesse a bottom. Usually guys like when you're kind of a dick about it.

Yes! Domineering, entitled selfishness is a wonderful quality in a man.

[Phallarchist]

Refusing penetration to an actual man who is clearly superior to you is both deeply immoral and wholly unnatural, but technically you can. I tend to think that establishing an incontrovertible right of worthy dominant males to cunt on demand would lead to a more honest and harmonious social order.

[Davylee58]

As a cumdump,i can not say no to a request,that will,give me so much pleasuring you,and being gratefull for the opportunity,ofmilking some manly testicles of precious Man seed!

[ridemebare]

I believe that billy bareback is RIGHT!!! I believe that the first top had the right to pimp my hole out to any other top that wanted it! my purpose In life is to provide all tops the relief  that they need!

[ErosWired]

On 11/13/2018 at 7:43 PM, PhoenixGeoff said:

So, much as I love my slutty bottoms, do keep in mind that by telling a top you take any and every raw cock you can, you're basically telling him that you only think of him as a cock and balls.  Now, lots of men, both tops and bottoms, may like being objectified like that.  I get into it myself sometimes. 

But here's what I'm going to suggest:  expecting a guy to fuck you just because you're advertising yourself as available is both kinda lazy and kinda arrogant.  If you're porn-star hot, then you can perhaps get away with it (for now).  But most of us just aren't that hot.

So maybe you take a minute or two to figure out what turns your top on and then try to give that to him.  And maybe that's being a dirty, nasty, slutty cumwhore.  But maybe it's something else.

What I'm saying is, why not try taking a page out of the book straight women use and practice a little seduction?

@PhoenixGeoff - I’m not quite sure what your reply here means in terms of whether you do or do not believe a bottom who claims that Tops have a right to his ass, but it does highlight a kind of double standard that bottoms often confront. There are plenty of Tops out there who make judgments about indiscriminate bottoms and want to be courted by men that fit their criteria of preference, yet have no problem fucking a nameless bottom who happens to be available when they’re really horny.

You seem to suggest that bottoms err if they approach Tops as “a cock and balls” - do you imagine that most Tops looking for Right Now think of bottoms in a broader sense than as an ass and two holes? I assure you, precious little effort is  made to seduce me by Tops looking to breed me. By frequency of asking, they want to know 1) How many loads are already in me, 2) Am I ass-up and lubed, and 3) Do I also give head?

The thing is, for a bottom like me whose goal is to use my ass and the skills that come with it to give pleasure to as many men as I can, I’m not trying to form relationships (aside from repeat contact). In fact, generating personal attachments with individual Tops would lead to confusion, jealousy, envy, and drama. I don’t do drama; I do ass.

Plus, my telepathy is on the fritz at the moment. Trying to tailor my approach to every individual Top, whose profile has only an iffy chance of reflecting his actual tastes and may be completely pointless if he’s really horny, is too labor- and time-consuming to be practical, especially as he’s probably given me no more to work with than “Sup?” (Please, please stop.)

So, the best thing I’ve found to do is, in complete honesty, post that I’m available, give good, warm, wet ass, and don’t turn anyone away. I don’t think it’s lazy or arrogant - just truth in advertising.

[gaysk8er86]

On 11/8/2018 at 9:42 PM, ErosWired said:

@BillyBareback - That’s another interesting conundrum. If you believe that all three of those men equally had a right to fuck you, then two of them shouldn’t have had to pay the other for the privilege. But, for you to have said so would have interfered with the first Top’s sexual dominance of you, and possibly spoiled his experience. Tricky...

Its not for the bottom to worry about what others do with his ass. His role is to just make his ass available. If someone wants to charge arbitrarily to someone to fuck my ass, thats on him and the one paying. The bttm shouldnt have a say in the matter

[gaysk8er86]

On 11/13/2018 at 5:43 PM, PhoenixGeoff said:

So, much as I love my slutty bottoms, do keep in mind that by telling a top you take any and every raw cock you can, you're basically telling him that you only think of him as a cock and balls.  Now, lots of men, both tops and bottoms, may like being objectified like that.  I get into it myself sometimes. 

But here's what I'm going to suggest:  expecting a guy to fuck you just because you're advertising yourself as available is both kinda lazy and kinda arrogant.  If you're porn-star hot, then you can perhaps get away with it (for now).  But most of us just aren't that hot.

So maybe you take a minute or two to figure out what turns your top on and then try to give that to him.  And maybe that's being a dirty, nasty, slutty cumwhore.  But maybe it's something else.

What I'm saying is, why not try taking a page out of the book straight women use and practice a little seduction?

my man can be seduced by someone else and still fuck me when he pleases. My hole is for his pleasure

[Guest Upstateguy518]

If you want to be the kind of no cock refused bottom then I'm all for it. I don't think every top has a right to every bottom because where would it end. No exclusivity kind of kills it when you are just jumping hole to hole or taking whatever cock is placed in front of you. You'll just end up getting bored of it.

[Ozpig]

For me it was a steady process and a total change of mindset for me to become the total cumdump and no cock or load refused bottom that I am. I now live in a guilt free and uninhibited corner of the planet that suits me. I know my sex life is totally about surrendering to any top who wants to use my holes and it is 15 years since I said "no" to any top who wanted to use me