Anonymous hookups who end up wanting to date you

[Faggotuser]

19 hours ago, gangbangsuperstar said:

yes i figure anyone who sees me laying blindfolded in a bathhouse sling taking load after load or bent over the darkroom fuckbench getting barebacked by a lineup of strangers should just assume im a toxic poz whore

thats exactly what you are faggot. thats why i never even considered dating you. all i ever wanted to do with you is fuck you, get you pozzed and whore your slutty little ass out. turning you into a pozzed up tranny whore was just a bonus.

[Faggotuser]

On 12/2/2018 at 1:51 PM, LittleCumSewer said:

when random strangers fuck me(which is all the time lol) i assume they are just using me for a cumhole and nothing more. i know that even most guys who use whores like me think i'm way too trashy to date.i'm just some hot slut thats willing to take their load and i'm easy to use. most men who fuck me dont even tell me their name and many dont even let me see their face. im literally just a fucktoy they use to get themselves off

you dont see the face of most of the men who fuck you but most of them see your face. you're a wellknown public cumhole. nobody wants to bring a dirty whore like you home to momma. most respectable guys don't even wanna be seen with a cumdump like you.hell, most neg guys think you're too trashy to even fuck. i dont date trash. but i do use it. cause thats what you are. an IT.

[Faggotuser]

On 12/4/2018 at 2:16 AM, gangbangsuperstar said:

totally. most guys that fuck me i dont even know their names or what they look like. and all they know about me is im some whore that takes loads. its also funny when guys ask "are you clean?" when youre laying in a bathhouse sling blindfolded with a couple dozen strangers loads dripping from your gaping fuckhole. lol

HAHA! I CAN'T BELIEVE ANYONE ACTUALLY THINKS YOU MIGHT BE CLEAN!! you're clearly bugged up trash

[Faggotuser]

On 12/5/2018 at 3:31 AM, CCbttm said:

Sadly I know this struggle very well. I've had a good handful of guys try to get too close or emotional when all I wanted was sex, or a regular source of quick easy sex. I try to be personable, kind, and polite during my hookups, but not at all lovey dovey and overly affectionate, but I guess I need to cut that back even for some people lol. I just flat out dont have the time to date anyone, and I make it plainly clear to anyone who tries to ask me.

it's good that you know what you are. i hate cumdumps that wanna be treated like a human being with worth. cumdumps like you are worthless trash and need to be treated that way or they get confused and think guys respect them. i make sure faggots like you know they are worthless whores that only exist to service cocks and take loads

[Guest PowerTopper]

On 12/5/2018 at 4:34 PM, gangbangsuperstar said:

yes i figure anyone who sees me laying blindfolded in a bathhouse sling taking load after load or bent over the darkroom fuckbench getting barebacked by a lineup of strangers should just assume im a toxic poz whore

I'm trying to tell you slut, it's time to start whoring yourself out of your living room, right in front of your father! You know how proud he would be? His son getting gangfucked while you suck him dry!

[tallslenderguy]

Most of my sex life with men has been anonymous hook ups. i've never actually had a traditional relationship with a guy.  i've never ended up "dating' a hook up, not in a traditional sense.  i have had many hook ups that turned into regular, ongoing FB relationships, but even those have remained "anonymous."  i had one fb who really pretty much owned my hole for about a year and a half (we moved apart, so it ended), using it about once a week, and i never saw Him. To this day, i have no idea what He looked like because He always wanted me waiting naked, blindfolded and face down for Him.  He talked a lot to me while using my hole in all sorts of ways, and we communicated by email. It was a very intimate connection/relationship, but not "dating" in any traditional sense. 

That's something i like about being gay and part of the gay culture, we are free to make our own culture and types of relationship. 

[chipygmalion80]

The kind of sex can matter, like talking filth. Another is position.

If Im there to use your holes as a anon cumdump, then be ass up or doggie for my dick.

Problem is several guys want to fuck me on my back, and I dont like being spit at my face, so there we are face to face in that position so I get very personal - kissing, grabbing, talking dirty. Just nature of the sex position. That's why I found gloryholes to be better at keeping a wall -- literally -- between me and dating them.

[raw773]

On 11/16/2018 at 10:02 AM, aries7 said:

Do you guys have this problem where your hookups start making things weird with wanting to date you?  I wouldn't be opposed to dating but I'm also not looking for it nor do I try to give out signals of wanting that.  How do you guys keep things anonymous or otherwise detached?

I read the entire thread and was disappointed nobody discussed the other side of this: when YOU'RE the one trying to make an initially anonymous encounter into a relationship or even just a FB setup, and you're denied. 

I met a guy from my city while we were both on a business trip, in the same hotel. He told me he lived only a few blocks away. We agreed to do a pitch dark walk in scene in his room, officially just to cuddle and make out, but his thick knob and mine wouldn't go down. The bareback was incredible, as was my chewing his hole. (I don't always love that, but his ass was totally slurpable.) He invited me to sleep over, so I did. He left the room for breakfast with his boss then we fucked again when he came back. So. Mind blowing sex.  

When I got home, I texted him. Making it clear I just wanted to suck that hole again, and definitely fuck. He was polite. But it never happened. 

Sure, you could hypothesize reasons. Maybe he's taken. Maybe he's closeted at home and gay on the road. Maybe it was only awesome for me (but no). Maybe I'm an ogre (I'm not). ?

But I think he's one of you guys, asking how to keep anonymous anonymous. I don't totally get it. Sure it's hot, but being on the prowl is a lot of freaking work. Isn't it worth keeping a harem of known awesome FBs? Why would you turn this down, even if you can still get your anon on too? 

I noticed several of you wrote "I'm not looking to date, BUT I'm not exactly against it..." I would have to ask, what the hell do you want? Why turn it down if the stars seem aligned? To me it sounds like a recipe for staying single forever. For those who wanted it both ways like this, why? 

[barecubtop]

15 hours ago, raw773 said:

I read the entire thread and was disappointed nobody discussed the other side of this: when YOU'RE the one trying to make an initially anonymous encounter into a relationship or even just a FB setup, and you're denied.

 

I noticed several of you wrote "I'm not looking to date, BUT I'm not exactly against it..." I would have to ask, what the hell do you want? Why turn it down if the stars seem aligned? To me it sounds like a recipe for staying single forever. For those who wanted it both ways like this, why? 

Yeah, I'm one of those guys that secretly wants this to happen if I'm honest with myself.  I'm a romantic at heart.  It's the holidays and those damn Hallmark and Lifetime movies have me sucked in like they always do.  Granted, after having done so many hookups for such a long time, I'm probably more interested in trying an open relationship now than I ever have been before...but I'd love some kind of connection/relationship.  Hell, I'd just settle for a nice dinner date sometime, even if it's just a one time thing. 

[Guest nelly26]

On 12/14/2018 at 1:03 AM, raw773 said:

I read the entire thread and was disappointed nobody discussed the other side of this: when YOU'RE the one trying to make an initially anonymous encounter into a relationship or even just a FB setup, and you're denied. 

I met a guy from my city while we were both on a business trip, in the same hotel. He told me he lived only a few blocks away. We agreed to do a pitch dark walk in scene in his room, officially just to cuddle and make out, but his thick knob and mine wouldn't go down. The bareback was incredible, as was my chewing his hole. (I don't always love that, but his ass was totally slurpable.) He invited me to sleep over, so I did. He left the room for breakfast with his boss then we fucked again when he came back. So. Mind blowing sex.  

When I got home, I texted him. Making it clear I just wanted to suck that hole again, and definitely fuck. He was polite. But it never happened. 

Sure, you could hypothesize reasons. Maybe he's taken. Maybe he's closeted at home and gay on the road. Maybe it was only awesome for me (but no). Maybe I'm an ogre (I'm not). ?

But I think he's one of you guys, asking how to keep anonymous anonymous. I don't totally get it. Sure it's hot, but being on the prowl is a lot of freaking work. Isn't it worth keeping a harem of known awesome FBs? Why would you turn this down, even if you can still get your anon on too? 

I noticed several of you wrote "I'm not looking to date, BUT I'm not exactly against it..." I would have to ask, what the hell do you want? Why turn it down if the stars seem aligned? To me it sounds like a recipe for staying single forever. For those who wanted it both ways like this, why? 

Agree 100%.  Most gay men don't know what they want and this scares them. 

[Phallarchist]

Raw breeding induces bonding so that the male and female will be more inclined to cooperate in the care of the resulting child. It would be strange if it didn't promote attachment.

[blackrobe]

I've met guys in porn theaters or in stairwell hook-ups that I'm very sexually compatible with. They've said they would date me, but I'm in an open relationship so that's not going to happen. With one of them, I became friends and we see each other at a specific porn theatre where I service him and swallow his cum. I hunger for him to fuck my cunt. He has a 9", very hard, very responsive cock that I know would get right up into my cervix and maybe even breach my womb to make a direct seed deposit.

I'm looking for a few men to fuck and breed me regularly. I'm happy for it to be anything from anon no-names ass-up fucking and loading to a friend who I hang out with and who fucks and breeds my cunt as many times as he likes and maybe get kinky and pervy along the way. I'm not interested in dating or anything romantic, just knowing you well enough that you're okay with getting your cock up in my guts and working your hardest to get me pregnant with your seed.

[Guest CuriousDallas]

On ‎11‎/‎16‎/‎2018 at 9:02 AM, AriesBB7 said:

Sometimes I just want to fuck.  Anonymous, raw, primal no strings attached plowings.  Anonymous doesn't always stay Anonymous.  After sex, while you're introducing yourself (sometimes I don't learn a guy's name until after....trashy, I know right?) guys always ask for your number so that they can hook up and fuck again and even if I just want it to be a one time thing, I still have to give them my number, it's not the 90s anymore when you could give out bunk numbers.  Nowadays guys immediately text you on your phone and so you have to show them that you received their text....so they get my number, and they inevitably text me sweet shit the next day, and I respond back, sometimes I hook up again, sometimes, I just chat with them....but every time without fail it seems like all of these guys quickly transition over to the wanting to date me mode and they start having feelings immediately that they have to start expressing.  And it's not like I'm picking up a certain type through a certain venue or social media source, this is everything from bbrt to bars.  Do you guys have this problem where your hookups start making things weird with wanting to date you?  I wouldn't be opposed to dating but I'm also not looking for it nor do I try to give out signals of wanting that.  How do you guys keep things anonymous or otherwise detached?

I've had that happen more times than I like to think about and while there's some of them I would love to date and definitely wanna hook up with again, I'm at university and don't have a lot of free time. I just wanna fuck/get fucked and move on. Guys definitely like that I take them bare and maybe that's part of it and other guys won't. But yeah...I get leery of giving out my cell number, and I've changed kik profiles a few times as a result too. Forget giving out FB as there's some crazy ass stalkers out there. And it's weird...I've had this happen with gay guys, str8 guys with GF's and everything in between. I've had a guy engaged to be married pretty much throw himself at me saying I was the best sex he'd ever had. WTF am I supposed to say to that? I don't wanna date right now much less get serious with a guy. Of course that works in reverse as guys I wanna meet up with again or do more with seem to ghost on me too. Go figure.

[yngguy712]

6 hours ago, CuriousDallas said:

I've had that happen more times than I like to think about and while there's some of them I would love to date and definitely wanna hook up with again, I'm at university and don't have a lot of free time. I just wanna fuck/get fucked and move on. Guys definitely like that I take them bare and maybe that's part of it and other guys won't. But yeah...I get leery of giving out my cell number, and I've changed kik profiles a few times as a result too. Forget giving out FB as there's some crazy ass stalkers out there. And it's weird...I've had this happen with gay guys, str8 guys with GF's and everything in between. I've had a guy engaged to be married pretty much throw himself at me saying I was the best sex he'd ever had. WTF am I supposed to say to that? I don't wanna date right now much less get serious with a guy. Of course that works in reverse as guys I wanna meet up with again or do more with seem to ghost on me too. Go figure.

Dude. Burner numbers. Google Voice.  Keep a separate GV number and don't register it with anything so you're not linked to it. Easy to block people too. When you do they get a "this number as been disconnected" message.  Though I also have gotten so distrusting of people in Los Angeles that I usually do a quick background check on hookups and if their number is a burner, I usually don't.    Oh and use Signal. Best encrypted messaging calling texting whatever app.

Edited July 8, 2019 by yngguy712

[Guest]

12 hours ago, CuriousDallas said:

I've had that happen more times than I like to think about and while there's some of them I would love to date and definitely wanna hook up with again, I'm at university and don't have a lot of free time. I just wanna fuck/get fucked and move on. Guys definitely like that I take them bare and maybe that's part of it and other guys won't. But yeah...I get leery of giving out my cell number, and I've changed kik profiles a few times as a result too. Forget giving out FB as there's some crazy ass stalkers out there. And it's weird...I've had this happen with gay guys, str8 guys with GF's and everything in between. I've had a guy engaged to be married pretty much throw himself at me saying I was the best sex he'd ever had. WTF am I supposed to say to that? I don't wanna date right now much less get serious with a guy. Of course that works in reverse as guys I wanna meet up with again or do more with seem to ghost on me too. Go figure.

Your response should depend on if you wanna fuck again or not.  I'm assuming that if you even reply, then it's someone you wanna play with again.  Turn it back to sex fast.  Tell them they were a great fuck and you could ask if they have other buddies they wanna invite NEXT time.  Nothing says "fuckbud" like inviting more regulars/repeats the next time   Don't even engage in non-sex talk if you want them for a fuckbud.  You could graduate to FWB later on if it goes that way, but keep it about sex and they'll usually adjust their own attitude pretty fast if they want a repeat.