Do your family and friends know you're a bottom?

[badubydo]

Family knows I'm bi, but stays out of my business like I stay out of theirs. Some cousins have asked if I'd ever "date/marry" a guy and that was the extent of it. 

Some close friends know I bottom, I've told them the stories of the dick/people I've been with. My old coworker, who was really more a close friend, knew. Told her I took a 10" bbc one day at work. She couldn't fathom how I managed that. 

Another old coworker from my previous job knows I'm bi now, and a bottom. He's a gay, and out. Asked me everything, and I told him. It's nice having a person I can talk to. He lives about 6 hours away, and wants to plan a time when I can visit so we can fuck. He knows I BB, just told me to be careful. 

 

No shaming from anyone that knows. and if they didn't approve I couldn't give a fuck. Its not their body, its mine. 

[Guest BritBottom]

Do your family and friends know you're a bottom? - very similar to another another thread.

NO, none of their business.

The analogy would be - Did I ever ask my parents or straight friends questions like:

"Hey Mum does Dad ever fuck you up the Bum?"
"Dad, does Mum ever stick a fingers in you Bum to help you cum or does ever she wear a strap-on dildo?
"Mum are you a good cocksucker and do you swallow?"

I took enough shit as a kid when everyone hated gays. Straight friends get to know I'm gay and that's all.

Gay friends ....well ......"you show me yours and I'll bend over!"

[dickluva]

I was a teenager when I had to see a specialist because my rectum was bleeding so bad I had to have surgery to remove internal warts. I didn't understand it was an STI and told everybody. My dad didn't know it was STI either, until his bro's told us, when we were playing golf. I didn't understand because the bleeding started like a year after I had gotten violently raped at a city park, I had tried my best to forget the violence, and hadn't told anybody. St Louis Mo loves violence, and nasty cops.

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

 My family’s knows almost everything about my sexuality, includes my HIV+ status and my T addiction ✌️🍆💦😈🐷🌪💉🌡

[ronnie4u]

No not Family but friends and others knew !   My mother single parent - I was the male / man in the family . Mother loved to party with friends . I had my male friends and having jack off sessions and enjoying seeing different shape dicks .

Mother have had sex behind her locked bedroom door but I peeked in her bedroom window - seeing everything .

Then 1 day coming home seen 2 males in the woods having sex - learn about sucking .

Then it all started my sexual adventure - 1 man I knew - he own a small shop in town - soon meeting up with his friends .

So , No Family members knew but others did !

Real HOT times when I turned 20 !

[gay87]

im a very lazy guy who would delay unpacking my luggage for up to a week after arriving back home. Mum took the laundry from the luggage and saw my double dildo and even helped me washed and place it prominently on my desk. Wow, no questions asked lol

[drscorpio]

All my gay friends know because it pays to advertise. You never know when one of those boys is going to show up horny knocking on your door at 2 AM https://assets.s3xstatic.com/bz/uploads/emoticons/default_smile.png. A few other friends probably have picked up on it; I don't make a big secret of it. 

My brother knows because we had a long talk about each other's sex lives on a road trip through West Texas in our 20s. I don't think anyone else in the family knows. 

[Guest]

I don't have any family.  As far as my friends are concerned, most of them have fucked me.  So, yes... they know.

[Pozguyinchi]

Everyone knows I am a bottom. My mom says the first thing I did as a baby was roll onto my front. 

[RocPigWhore]

I've got a fantasy about letting a hot daddy whore me out and film me getting gangbanged, degraded, and used in every filthy, perverted way imaginably by as many guys as he can find. Then he'll send the video to every member of my family, and let them see exactly what a fucked up cum dump whore I turned out to be. That'd be my ideal way to let my family know. 😈

[funpozbottom]

My personal opinion is that the only person that needs to know about my sexuality is the guy I'm sitting on. And by the time his cock fills my hole, it's pretty obvious I'm a bottom.

[BestCatcher]

After we split up, my ex-partner’s Str8 buddy and I started playing tennis. He let it slip one day that my partner had told him I was a bottom. He didn’t really bottom-shame me yet did tease me on and off about it. As if I wasn’t as much of a man as he because I was gay and a bottom. Then I started challenging him over it....telling him he wasn’t man enough to fuck me. Then him scoffing and saying I’d never go back to gay guys if he fucked me. This went back and forth for a while and calmed down after a while. Especially when I beat him on the court. Then he started asking me shit like, “You really let guys fuck you in the ass?” One day after we got off the court and into a couple beers he told me that women never let him do it because he’s hung big. I let it be known that I take big cocks and he replied, “Not this big”. I challenged him to whip it out...and he did. I sucked him hard. Easily 9” which looked massive on a guy only 5’7”. He never said a word when I lubed us up and got on my knees on the sofa and guided him into me. I hit the poppers and took it all...and all he gave me til he shot his load in me like 15 mins later. Though he zipped up and left pretty quickly after that, we continued to play tennis and fuck weekly for months til he moved to Vegas. 

[freshxtop5]

12 hours ago, BestCatcher said:

After we split up, my ex-partner’s Str8 buddy and I started playing tennis. He let it slip one day that my partner had told him I was a bottom. He didn’t really bottom-shame me yet did tease me on and off about it. As if I wasn’t as much of a man as he because I was gay and a bottom. Then I started challenging him over it....telling him he wasn’t man enough to fuck me. Then him scoffing and saying I’d never go back to gay guys if he fucked me. This went back and forth for a while and calmed down after a while. Especially when I beat him on the court. Then he started asking me shit like, “You really let guys fuck you in the ass?” One day after we got off the court and into a couple beers he told me that women never let him do it because he’s hung big. I let it be known that I take big cocks and he replied, “Not this big”. I challenged him to whip it out...and he did. I sucked him hard. Easily 9” which looked massive on a guy only 5’7”. He never said a word when I lubed us up and got on my knees on the sofa and guided him into me. I hit the poppers and took it all...and all he gave me til he shot his load in me like 15 mins later. Though he zipped up and left pretty quickly after that, we continued to play tennis and fuck weekly for months til he moved to Vegas. 

That is hot!

[WildAsianBoi]

They know,  and there not happy at all.  But idc, my life

[Kimberley]

My comming-out was a bit unplanned. my mom caught me all dressed up into hers lingerie and high heels. she had a lot of questions ofcourse so the conversation was unavoidable

told her everything that i was bisexual and loved to dress up in womans lingerie. she was very ok with it and accepted it immediately. as the conversation progressed she asked if i had sex with men and what role i had. told her i was the one who receives as bottom. she immediately said that i should always make sure the men wear condoms lol. there was no any secrets any longer and she was proud on me who i was. it was such a relief that my mom was supporting me on this and that i don't had to keep it a secret any longer at home.

later she did find a couple of times my sex toys, dildo's, lingerie, high heels in my closet. nothing to shame. she already knew it