Total Bottom

[Guest]

My latest weed high got me looking for "full bottoms" only to fuck on grindr. What is that really, and are they going extinct?

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

No, we’re here.

[Guest]

A total bottom to me doesn't ever want to top nor have his dick sucked, ever. I get the feeling most self professed bottoms aren't strictly that.

[salerio]

1 minute ago, LOSTRICAN said:

A total bottom to me doesn't ever want to top nor have his dick sucked, ever. I get the feeling most self professed bottoms aren't strictly that.

I can't stand having my dick sucked or touched. I wish my mistress was still with me keeping me locked up

[northsidecumdump]

I don't get hard when getting fucked and I don't enjoy blow jobs. I never expect to cum around a top. I'm there for one reason... to serve the top.

[Qban]

A total bottom who only wants to be used, never touches himself, only sucks and gets fucked can be hard to find but fortunately they’re not extinct yet.  

Edited October 15, 2019 by Qban

[Ozpig]

I have never topped and never will

[Ozpig]

10 hours ago, Qban said:

A total bottom who only wants to be used, never touches himself, only sucks and gets fucked can be hard to find but fortunately they’re not extinct yet.  

spot on

[Guest Reeo]

I AM a total bottom! No urge to have my cock touched or sucked. Prefer having my genitals tucked away in a jockstrap, with my fuckhole exposed. I derive pleasure by focusing on my top and his pleasure. I suck cock and get fucked only. I seek men who are into this exclusively true tops, exclusive penetrators.

Edited October 16, 2019 by Reeo

[ErosWired]

Definitely not extinct - though we often have a hard time convincing men that we really, really aren’t even a tiny bit vers. I spent a very frustrating day at the baths over the weekend having my cock manhandled by men who apparently hadn’t noticed my ass sticking up in the air.

[tallslenderguy]

i'm a bottom, and ideally "total" bottom. i also have a sub streak. i don't want my penis touched and want my hole treated as primary sex organ (mouth is secondary). But that all sounds so clinical to me. i think who and how we are is reflected in relationship (even if it's just the hook up kind). Like ErosWired, it too have been frustrated by guys who wanna touch my penis, and i'm very explicit in my profiles about NOT wanting that.  When in the actual situation of having sex though, i have submitted to guys touching my penis, but the key word is "submitted."  It's not what i want, but i've been known to submit to it to please. 

i think a lot of us (Tops and bottoms) often miss out on the psychological aspects of sex.  If we don't exercise introspection, we don't know much about our self or feelings. If we don't learn how to articulate who and how we are, we don't achieve communication and that makes it really difficult to connect with the guys we need and want?

i will all gay guys developed and exercised those skills, but i swear many don't even know they exist lol.  Since we are internet inclined, that usually starts with a profile.  i don't think Total Tops or bottoms are extinct, just hard to find because they often make themselves invisible by not being clear or open.  Most sites make it to easy and have drop down menus for self disclosure.

Of course, there's a lot of guys who haven't learned how to read, and just respond to pics, sigh. But i read, and i write epic profiles (i often have to edit them down in fear that i'll scare away guys who hate to read).  For me, a good profile is every bit as important as the piece of ass it advertises.  i typically skip past the ones saying "Versatile" and even "Top versatile" (but will read them if desperately horny).  

The guys i pursue are the ones who go beyond the label and describe the contents.  If a Top goes beyond the label and writes stuff like: "I'm a Total Top, I don't want to touch your cock, to me you don't even have one. As a Total Top I am the only one in the relationship with a 'cock' and the bottom is there to receive it."   That attracts me and i'll respond by contacting you legs spread and ass presented.  

[BottomsUp]

Oh we’re still here. I only bottom because it’s what I love and what I’m good at.

[Guest]

I am a total bottom myself. I have absolutely ZERO desire to Top. I prefer to not have my dicklet touched, but will submit if the Top Man requires it. My asspussy is my sex organ. I rarely get hard. I'm to be used...period!

[DarkroomTaker]

Well, it depends on my mood and my own needs too.

I am a total bottom, but I love arse. I love to deep rim and feast on. I love to suck cock.

I like being gangfucked and  i like it if the Top fucks me and makes me cum at that time without touching myself.

I am not being selfish or anything, but I also want my own pleasures too, and yes if I am being gang fucked in a Darkroom and someone manages to get underneath me and is licking my balls and sucking my cock, whilst I have an arse full of cock sliding banging in and out of me, Hell, no way I am stopping them.

I am a true bottom with my needs too, never had any complaints from Tops and they still return for my arse, so must be doing something right.☺

[PussyBottomBitch]

On 10/15/2019 at 6:03 AM, LOSTRICAN said:

A total bottom to me doesn't ever want to top nor have his dick sucked, ever. I get the feeling most self professed bottoms aren't strictly that.

I definitley am! honestly hate having my dick touched or sucked