bentover66 Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 Hi Guys, weird that I never get hard when I am getting fucked. I enjoy it a lot, and my pre-cum drips like a faucet, but I don't understand why I stay soft. Is that normal? I am wondering if I should go see a doctor to see if there is an underlying health issue? 1 Quote
evilalex Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 That's not weird. I'm not much of a bottom, but when I do, I don't stay hard, I think it's pretty common. 1 Quote
NLbear Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 One time I am hard as a rock the whole time, the next I'm soft even though I leak precum when he hits the right spot. Don't know why. Most of the time I am hard or semi-erect though. 1 Quote
Guest Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 Nothing wrong at all. I'm the same way. Quote
wiltslad Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 I generally don't get hard when being pounded 1 1 Quote
DumbfagsluT Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 You shouldnt worry about hetting hard since its all about your top 2 1 Quote
BottomsUp Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 Sometimes I’m hard and other times I’m soft, either way it doesn’t matter because I prefer to make it about my ass and pleasing the top(s) fucking me. 1 1 Quote
11bi11guy Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 I don’t get hard when I bottom. I enjoy stretching and focusing on my hole. Focusing on getting hard for me would involve doing some form of kegels and clenching my ass, which would make bottoming at least somewhat painful and less enjoyable. 1 Quote
Beardude Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 I'm the same way. I usually wear a jock while I'm getting fucked so my dick isn't even part of the equation. It's all about seeing the tops pleasure and getting his load. 2 2 Quote
biinmsp Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 I don’t get hard either. Pour precum and sometimes cum, but always when soft. 1 Quote
bareback-flipflop Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 Mostly soft, sometimes hard. Being soft doesn’t mean that I am not enjoying the session at least. I always enjoy being fucked. But if I sniff poppers I hardly can become hard 1 1 Quote
Guest CumLvr80 Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 I WISH I stayed soft when getting fuck’d! Maybe that’d deter guys from fondling my boy bits well after I’ve made it clear that isn’t what I’m into. Quote
Guest CumLvr80 Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 8 hours ago, DumbfagsluT said: You shouldnt worry about hetting hard since its all about your top Absolutely. Unfortunately, far too many tops have a difficult time understanding that mindset from a bottom. Quote
blkboibtm Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 not weird at all, rarely get hard, most i ever get is semi hard, can count on one hand the times I've been rock hard Quote
Moderators drscorpio Posted October 23, 2020 Moderators Report Posted October 23, 2020 I will get hard during the foreplay especially if the top is working my nipples. Once I am being fucked, my dick gets soft as my focus shifts to my hole/his cock. If we get into some really hot dirty talk, I might chub up a bit. 3 Quote
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