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I think so many different can make one a slut, but it really depends on who is defining what a slut is. I've been called a slut (I am and proudly), for many different reasons from being a homewrecker, giving it up quickly and with ease, taking raw dick, fucking more than one dude in the same night, allowing myself to be degraded, screwing over friends in the pursuit of nut and dyck, questionable men I let smash when I been horny and needed a fix lol. which are all reasons that are true and I agree with that make me a slut. Of course what a slut is in the eye of beholder.

Most of family doesn't know. Like the men (uncles, older cousins, etc.) my parents. But my sister def knows and few of my other cousins are aware. Most of my friends know I'm a slut. I get and have gotten so much "straight dyck" due to my friends and my sister's friends knowing that I'm a slut. Word travels within a group of friends that I keep my mouth shut, don't put your business out there, give good head, and good bussy lol.

Has always varied on the type of partner and also what his situationship (married/partnered etc.) is. Have had some dudes hook up every other, some couple times a week. The average I tend to end up with is the 2-3 times a week dudes which works cuz I'm usually getting slutted out by more than one dude at a time. I have rarely had a every day hook up. The dudes that are partnered or married were more infrequent some times once a week up to several times a week, was up to when their schedules allowed them to be free (I would try and make myself available when they had time).

I would initially the idea to at least catch it in my mouth was porn, but the joy/obligation to swallow it every time unless a feeder/top just wanted to give me facial came from one, when in high school topping someone off in school made getting rid of the evidence and clean up easier. Initially I wasn't in luv with eating cum but grew to luv it. Was also a hook I had, I would swallow while their girlfriends wouldn't. Two, a good btm if he ain't gettin bred he should be swallowing babies. I never really other than the first few times of giving head in hs give myself time to like or hate eating cum. It was either I swallow or they was shooting on me, luckily i was curious enough about swallowing back then and just seeing how dudes even up to today luv getting their babies drank which turns me on makes me swallow every time. Would consider myself a natural cum eater, and yes have dealt with sum awful tasting nut that almost made me vomit. I eventually got in the habit which is hard of not trying to actually taste the nut after almost throwing up one time. Been sucking and swallowing nut since 15.

born a bttm Since i was young i pretty much knew i was gay, and I had always identified as the bttm. Even first watching straight porn, for the first time I more turned on my the guy who was fucking the girl. Then when I watched gay porn of course I imagined it was me taking it. Besides that I always been more intrigued with the possiblity of being used by a man, sucking dyck and what anal pleasure felt like. It would be confirmed through my years as I always masterbated with anal assistance, went through high school sucking dyck and eventually bttming for the first time. I have never once had a interest in fucking anyone, I was born to be a bttm and proud of it

Was throat goat in HS LOL, didn't start fucking until was getting ready to go off to college. In HS while I having a sexual awakening but still to nervous to go through with getting my cherry popped it was a great outlet. guys no matter what they say ain't turning down head man or woman especially if swallowing. it started off with one guy, then some how it got around to other guys that I gave good brain, and had a good number of guys that were in the rotation, and pretty sure if I was ready I could got a few to try fucking. Of course no one was admitting it, cause they all were straight and most either had girls, were popular with the girls, played sports etc. I wasn't out but I wasn't pretending either, but like always i keep my mouth shut. In hind sight it wasn't hard to figure out who I was serving but they were the ones not feeding into the rumors afraid I would tell people about them. In college it was a fairly regular thing to either suck off or fuck a classmate. Guys are always looking for a hole to fuck, or drop their nut in, especially super horny teens that can use alcohol, or drugs to mask their hidden sexual desires.

If this is a serious inquiry...and u lookin for real "str8 (really DL)" Thugs that want to slut you out couple of things. One is timing, if they "straight" they at least in the beginning will need a excuse to fuck or get sucked such as they high or drunk and you had a hole available to nut in. If you try the eye contact move with a group of his friends around even if he might be interested he gonna front in front of his friends. Also if you not sure or think they are interested I wouldn't pull the eye contact for one true straight dudes tend to be very homophobic, and DL guys can lash out if they not ready (speak from experience). Your best bet is always when they alone and there isn't a chance of his boys thinking he is fucking another dude. There is the balance of letting it be known that you take dyck, but more importantly that you can keep your mouf shut (there is nuffin more important if he a real street nigga). Just like any str8/dl dude, they are all about hiding their sexuality, but if he really in the streets he got his rep to worry about and fucking a dude will have him marked as weak and that's a no go. Now the irony is that I still have and had so many "straight" trapboys, and street dudes slut me out and get their dyck sucked on the regular to know that half them niggaz out them will fuck anything (in sum cases prob prefer men and trans) to know that you can become side ass as long as you play your part. All that being said thug dyck is always sum of the best dyck, all they want is nut and will you like a slut, you are just a hole(s) for to deposit their nut in. It's easier for me at this point because in my circle of family and friends it's known Im gay, easy, take dyck but don't kiss and tell, so regular dudes, "thugs", find reasons to chill, smoke, or whateva wit me knowing that if I'm into them they can get their nut off. The funny thing is that once you start fucking with thugs in a certain group, rumors will start to swirl somehow even though supposedly none of them is fucking you (in truth it will prob be half of them🤣), which will make it easier to get more thug dyck. Hopes this is somehow useful, but as always this is only my experiences...sorry this was longer than I thought sorry for rambling

if a guy ever plays with my hole i know that's his way letting me know he wants that hole as well. Neva had a guy who wants head only play with my hole

change in breathing, grabs head in sum cases to make sure he unloads in my mouth, dyck swelling, sum pull away if their trying to delay nutting, body tenses up, start fucking my mouth instead of getting sucked

#1 Never leave home without it, have my own small gym bag of prep/cleaning gear whenever I travel.

In my experience most guys don't want to fuck with a rubber, some because of a relationship they might be in, conflict/denial about their sexuality, of sum other bullshit will rationalize as their reason to go raw. Me, I rarely turned down dyck, even if they say they only fuck with a rubber because most of find a excuse to pull it off, or the condom magically "broke". My feeling has always been that I advertise as a raw and have no problem admitting I'm a cum depo, if a true safe only guy that really believed that he would pass me by, they just too scared to admit they unload in sum bussy but that's just my experiences.

Since in this day and age where i meet more and more dudes online, and hence get a idea of what they working with, I luv meeting dudes IRL, having no idea what they packin they drop their draws and get usually get a nice surprise. Also when meeting dudes online even though u have seen their dyck, nuffin like unwrapping new in the flesh especially on a dude that you have been dying to fuck/suck.

now 4x.....only once like in the picture though, though there is sumthing sexy about them looking down like he is a piece of shit lol

i have always dated older a most of my sex partners are usually at least a few yrs older...there are outliers of course. the oldest diff so far was i dated 51 yr old when i was 22.

I can't say I have ever felt bad after sex for just the sex. I felt bad earlier in my sexual journey when I started cheating on my first bf, but that was cause I was grappling with the sense of betrayal. I was okay with my sexuality by the time I first had sex. The first couple of times I gave head I felt some kind of way, like I wanted to do it but kinda felt wrong. I have had certain experiences relating to the person or situation i.e. rape, cheating, but the only time I can think I have felt bad afterward is if I've been using sex too mask like depression, or grief.

On sunday, one of the newer dudes I'm side bussy to. We link up from time to time. We usually hang out to various times to through off his wife. We sometimes will go watch sports together, but usally always fuck or I suck him before we end things. On sunday morning we were supposed to meet up with some of his friends to watch football games at buffalo wild wings. We both drove to a point and then met up at a park. I topped him off for a bit in his back seat and I was bout to start ryding him in his backseat but there was a decent amount of foot traffic and people driving by. So we walked a path down on the trail and got into the more bush area. He Luvs me being naked and luv being ass naked outside so that's a plus. He bent me over and fucked me good, he can be a bit long winded sumtimes which can suck can he not small and likes to try and tear shit up. He nutted in like 15min (perfect). we got dressed went back to our cars and drove to watch the games. You would never know I had drained his balls earlier.

Even though I was planning to go raw, the first time was unplanned and prob a rape lol. Was going back and forth with this top online, he was def into raw told him I hadn't fucked raw but was curious, he kept pushing but I was stead fast, told him we clicked I would consider it. He picked up on me being naturally sub and that i had zero desire to ever top. He first wasn't going to fuck wit me, but he liked me being sub and he luved blk guys especially btms. Still in 2010- 2012 it was hard getting over the fact that not every blk guy is a aggressive dom with BBC, though that still is the stereotype def not no where near as bad. After almost a month of going back and forth we decided to hook up (half the reason it was taking so long was he traveled a lot and I was unsure cuz It was one of the first guys I would meet online for str8 up sex.) I went over, plug inserted, I get a lil high to had a few drinks to loosen me up. We were supposed to talk and chill first before doing anything. He had a apartment, it was dim. He offered me a drink, he was dressed at this point. I had turned around to just check out the rest of his apartment, didn't have super bad vibes but was still nervous. Got scared as fuck when he came up behind me grabbing my ass so hard lol and another around my throat and licking my ear. I got so turned on I ended up dropping the glass which still had liquor in it, he told me don't worry bout it. He moved his hand around to my dyck and stroked it for a hot second. It was getting hard and he wasted no time pulling my sweats off. I realized at this point he was already naked. He pulled my shirt off and pushed me towards his couch. He felt my plug and had me bend forward so he could pull it out. He started fingering it a bit, talking shit. Telling me that he knew I came here to be fucked, and made me answer him yes, This happening so fast I ain't know what the fuck to do, but was still so turned the fuck on. He put a lil bit on lube on my hole, and fingered still I asked if he had a rubber he showed me a little 3 pack. It said magnum, i realized that I hadn't even seen his dyck yet (not in person I did through pics), but before I could get to see it he pushed his hand on my neck so that i was fully face down ass up and he was using a lot of strength, I didn't understand why he was being that hard until I felt him entering me and saying something like I'm giving you what you really want, show you how to be a proper bitch. He gave me hard first thrust OMG LOL. He fucked me so good, that shit hurt so good at first. he realized I wasn't stopping him after bout 5mins cuz I did try to quirm away when he first said something but he had me pinned pretty much. His rhythm started to change I told him don't cum in me, just as I said that he pushed all his weight on me and started and giving sum hard thrusts I knew he just unloaded in me. He kept stroking me untill he was soft and jsut got up and sat on the couch while I laid there in a heap. He was asking if iwas okay, and saying wasn't better raw. I legit ain't know what to say, I was fo real pissed but thaat shit felt good. He got up threw a towel at me and started walking into the bathroom told me he had things to do so I needed to be gone when he got out! lol I was a mess for the rest of the day feeling so used, betrayed, violated but I couldn't stop thinking about it. I ended up masterbating to it later that night using my dildo realizing I still had sum of his babies swimming in me as lube. I haven't looked back sense. We linked up couple more times before going off to college, and when I would come home he always wanted it. He ended up moving and getting marred but we keep in touch and his parents live in the area so we occasionally link up and he sluts me out. He is a different animal on the phone and when we meet up for sex, after all theses years I nothing but a dump to him. He still turns me on and he got me to take the leap into whoredom.

U luve being watched cuz you a hoe, like me lol. I luv to be watched...getting fucked, sucking etc. that is a fetish a bit, which is why like public fucking and get naked most of the time. Love the thrill of someone catching me in public, when i use to cruise that was a major aspect of it was being watched. First time was in college female friend was curious about seeing me fuck another dude. We made it happen i realized a new fetish and she realized I moan like a girl when i take dyck lol 🙄

I think there were numerous things but some that stick out when me and my friends saw our first porn which was 2 girls it did nothing for me, but when we sneak looked a porn that had a man and woman i was more rock hard but because i was focused on the dude and his huge dyck. I realized my first crush was on my friends father whom i hadn't seen until later due to him being deployed (he looks like the main villain in avatar and don't breathe)

Three of a kind😂🤣

a sharpie, a broom handle (we were going to throw out this broom before throwing it away i unscrewed the base and eventually broke it in half to make it more manageable to use it), cucumber, baton (like a police baton without the handle on the side, moms kept one in house for protection. It was the best thing before moving up to dildos/vibrators, though it was pain in the ass to use. Had to sneak it away, and clean it before and after use.)

In my experience dudes that list safe more than 50% will either eventually fuck raw and nutting in you, or at least end up breeding you. When hooking up online I use to not waste time if you said you played safe cause I thought it made you vanilla. However I found that guys list safe for various reasons and will still with that until it's time to fuck then there always tend to be a reason for the rubber to never go on, come off or "break". Some guys that are married, partnered always have told me they play safe and somehow the rubber didn't fit (even though they supplied their own rubbers lol), they forgot it or it some how broke (btw I've only ever seen 2 condoms legit fail lol). Some guys have something where they still feel wrong for expressing their luv for raw fucking. I have been with only like 5-10 dudes who fucked safe and were serious about it

I think it depends on the person and the situation. I've had dudes that have mad me fell slutter in both scenarios but always feel the sluttiest if I get nutted on my face especially its more than one. I've noticed that when dudes are giving a facial that manily the goal to make you feel like a bottom bitch. Many of them have been talkin shit and some are usually in public which adds to making you feel like a slut and to me such a turn on

I would several friends if I got the chance. I did a friend that went to HS and college with. Her father didn't really pay no attention to me at first, he wasn't the best dude. My friend was one of the first people I came out to in HS. She was awesome. so was her mother. I guess her mom to her father i was gay. After that he started more and more paying attention and being nicer to me. It wasn't until college something happened, we went on vacation together with her fam. and i stayed at her house most of the break. I had at this time fully know there was something between us. I always thought he was good looking but I was getting a thing for daddy/older men types. It was late as fuck one night, and we were in the basement I think we both made a move and I ended up sucking him off. He was a good shit talker, and ended up nutting in my mouth. Of course it got awkward after that. Not with me but he got str8 guy sober, and said that was a mistake and went to bed 🤣😂. He pretty much kept his distance and ignored me again until I left lol. Of course months later he would start texting again and most of the time ignored it. Time passed we actually stayed in touched. We finally ended up fucking the week of graduation. He came into town early and had a hotel room and we met up, he wanted to apologize for how he treated me after i topped him off🙄. We ended up fucking twice that night, he "forgot" to put on a rubber the first time, but made sure to pull out lol. I told him I wanted him to nut in me the next time. He didn't get all weird and was cool. Though it was semi awkward every time I was around him for the rest of the week, especially when I went to see him for the "first time" with my friend for lunch (she didn't know he was in town before I did). Sadly years later her parents got a divorce because he was sticking his dick in everything, men, women, trans lol. We would have a failing out for over a year due to this, cuz she called me upset more so about her father having sex with men & trans, the way she approached it though I was for sure she knew and was ready to fuck me up. He never told her, but we got into it over the fact I was bothered that she mainly had a issue with her father sexuality and she was pissed I wasn't more on her side. Eventually I understood I was more upset because it was me and I 💯 understood why she was upset and eventually we made up. He contacted me to wish me well after a family member passed and I told the time to finally ask why he never snitched, and he said he didn't want to fuck her over more. Of course he mainly hit me up cause he wanted to smash again lol. Was tempted but didn't want to go there. He is still sexy as shit for his age now.

Varies, if it's a nsa, anon, or something along those lines I don't really look up, I might every once and awhile just as a relfex. But some regular FWB, boyfriends I might look up more at them from time to time depending on the person. A lot Doms/Daddies like, and want me to make eye contact. They like looking at me as they shit talk me. It's also interesting to looking into some of their eyes and you can tell that some have 0 respect for me 🤣😂, and truly see me as nothing but a dump, not going to lie with the right dude that shit is sexy as fuck. If I get looked at like that with the right top I don't break eye contact until he's unloading in my mouth or decides how he wants to use me next.