Toys versus fists

[kinkysuBB]

What do people think of using sex toys as part of FF? For me, I have a massive toy fetish. The first proper fisting party I went to, I walked in and saw about ten 14 inch plus dildos lying on a table and I just thought “I’m home.” And I love dildo porn, not so much the solo videos, but of guys fucking huge dildos into another guy’s ass.

Now obviously I love fists as well, dildos don’t replace them, they complement them. But I’ve met a few guys who are into fists but not so much dildos. Is it generally accepted that most FF players are into both?

[cyberdolphnow]

Most of the fisting bottoms I've played with have used toys mostly for girth opening but one guy was for depth. I got my forearm deep into his hole and he was a very tall guy.

One of my primary fisting FWB has an extensive toy collection  that we use to open his hole up prior to fisting. See picture here.

(My female wife was actually very impressed with this picture when I showed it to her. She knows that I fist men but I've never shown her any pictures other than this.)

Edited November 18, 2020 by cyberdolphnow
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[melvin0095]

11 hours ago, cyberdolphnow said:

Most of the fisting bottoms I've played with have used toys mostly for girth opening but one guy was for depth. I got my forearm deep into his hole and he was a very tall guy.

One of my primary fisting FWB has an extensive toy collection  that we use to open his hole up prior to fisting. See picture here.

(My female wife was actually very impressed with this picture when I showed it to her. She knows that I fist men but I've never shown her any pictures other than this.)

Nice Group.   I will start on the left and work my way up.   🙂

[damsonffpig]

On 11/18/2020 at 5:24 PM, cyberdolphnow said:

Most of the fisting bottoms I've played with have used toys mostly for girth opening but one guy was for depth. I got my forearm deep into his hole and he was a very tall guy.

One of my primary fisting FWB has an extensive toy collection  that we use to open his hole up prior to fisting. See picture here.

(My female wife was actually very impressed with this picture when I showed it to her. She knows that I fist men but I've never shown her any pictures other than this.)

Bam and the other 3 to the right are a good start the others to the left are far too small now.....

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

On 11/18/2020 at 12:24 PM, cyberdolphnow said:

Most of the fisting bottoms I've played with have used toys mostly for girth opening but one guy was for depth. I got my forearm deep into his hole and he was a very tall guy.

One of my primary fisting FWB has an extensive toy collection  that we use to open his hole up prior to fisting. See picture here.

(My female wife was actually very impressed with this picture when I showed it to her. She knows that I fist men but I've never shown her any pictures other than this.)

Not everyone is the same as you are. To me personally, toys are not usable things. I love to feel a REAL DICK inside of my hole! At first. And second, using toys are so many boring things in life cuz every time I’ve thought about the game with toys I will remember that I should clean my fucking gut before I will put some toys to my hole. And all my desires about self fuck with the toys are removing immediately! I love being fucked by THE REAL GUY WITH THE REAL WORKING DICK! Btw, that’s exactly with this reason I’m not trying and not going to “prepare myself” or “getting my hole stretched” by myself for any of the Tops. Not interesting to me and boring of doing ALL THE HARD WORKS for the “Top’s pleasure” at the moment when the Top just will “perform” his “naturally and manly” things of “giving his babies to some another hole”. In this case, I have a fucking huge question about for “that is all the Top’s work that he thinks is making him a real man?” If so, I will want to live alone with not being fucked by anyone then I will be getting fucked by a “halfguy”.  Cuz Fuck is the thing for both of parties to perform at  So if you are a “real man” then you must know what that means

[find91]

On 11/17/2020 at 6:29 PM, subBottomKink said:

What do people think of using sex toys as part of FF? For me, I have a massive toy fetish. The first proper fisting party I went to, I walked in and saw about ten 14 inch plus dildos lying on a table and I just thought “I’m home.” And I love dildo porn, not so much the solo videos, but of guys fucking huge dildos into another guy’s ass.

Now obviously I love fists as well, dildos don’t replace them, they complement them. But I’ve met a few guys who are into fists but not so much dildos. Is it generally accepted that most FF players are into both?

I primarily like fisting but adding toys can be fun. Oddly I only like ass play with really big toys. Go figure.

Because fisting is 50% mental, it depends on the fosters mind set. Some like the interpersonal connection and sharing of energies aspect of ass play. Those tend to be the ones more into fisting and don't really get turned on by toys. For the reason stated above.

Those that get turned on primarily by the sensation of the ass. I have notice really like toy play solo or alone.

It's all good as long as you have safe and having fun .

However, I do suggest beginner fosters should at least have one toy and a plug because it really helps with training.  

[find91]

4 hours ago, POZitiveBoyZ said:

Not everyone is the same as you are. To me personally, toys are not usable things. I love to feel a REAL DICK inside of my hole! At first. And second, using toys are so many boring things in life cuz every time I’ve thought about the game with toys I will remember that I should clean my fucking gut before I will put some toys to my hole. And all my desires about self fuck with the toys are removing immediately! I love being fucked by THE REAL GUY WITH THE REAL WORKING DICK! Btw, that’s exactly with this reason I’m not trying and not going to “prepare myself” or “getting my hole stretched” by myself for any of the Tops. Not interesting to me and boring of doing ALL THE HARD WORKS for the “Top’s pleasure” at the moment when the Top just will “perform” his “naturally and manly” things of “giving his babies to some another hole”. In this case, I have a fucking huge question about for “that is all the Top’s work that he thinks is making him a real man?” If so, I will want to live alone with not being fucked by anyone then I will be getting fucked by a “halfguy”.  Cuz Fuck is the thing for both of parties to perform at  So if you are a “real man” then you must know what that means

Love that you mention about the cleaning motivation because it makes a big fucking difference. No one likes doing unnecessary work.

[Guest POZitiveBoyZ]

3 minutes ago, find91 said:

Love that you mention about the cleaning motivation because it makes a big fucking difference. No one likes doing unnecessary work.

Right! What are the fucking reason for wasting my time in cleaning poops from my fucking pig fag gut if there are no any HOT fuckers and fisters that will fuck and breed and rape and fist my beautiful fag gut and feed my amazing prolapse rosebud with their fucking delicious CUM?

[damsonffpig]

1 hour ago, find91 said:

I primarily like fisting but adding toys can be fun. Oddly I only like ass play with really big toys. Go figure.

Because fisting is 50% mental, it depends on the fosters mind set. Some like the interpersonal connection and sharing of energies aspect of ass play. Those tend to be the ones more into fisting and don't really get turned on by toys. For the reason stated above.

Those that get turned on primarily by the sensation of the ass. I have notice really like toy play solo or alone.

It's all good as long as you have safe and having fun .

However, I do suggest beginner fosters should at least have one toy and a plug because it really helps with training.  

Hey totally agree....FFisting is about that mental and physical connection.   Yes some toy play with the biggest toys can be a great supplement but no way is it a substitute for ffist.

There is something really special and the most stunning connect to feel the top's ffist and arm disappear deep into the bottoms ass,. So many different and  fantastic sensation as a top's arms goes deeper.........the same applies with double ffist too, just that feeling of being full and the sphincter hugging the tops wrist when being double ffisted.

I will always remember the first fist which happened to be a big fist too, but I just kept telling myself I really wanted this fist and pop that was it.......just the start of the most stunning journey....

[BonusHoleBoyToy]

I use toys solo to stretch my hole so I can take more. Haven’t really had toys used on me with someone. If I’m with them, I want their fist and their cock inside me ❤️ 

I think it would be fun for a long session though or warmup if needed. I do enjoy using toys on others. 

[piglooking4pigs]

I enjoy toy play as well as fisting and often times in the same session.  When solo, I use toys to stretch and train my hole so that I can take larger fists and take them deeper.  That requires training your hole with large toys and plugs on a regular basis.  Nothing is a substitute for a fist or dick, of course, but toy play can enhance all your other play sessions as well.

[ronnie4u]

On 11/18/2020 at 12:24 PM, cyberdolphnow said:

Most of the fisting bottoms I've played with have used toys mostly for girth opening but one guy was for depth. I got my forearm deep into his hole and he was a very tall guy.

One of my primary fisting FWB has an extensive toy collection  that we use to open his hole up prior to fisting. See picture here.

(My female wife was actually very impressed with this picture when I showed it to her. She knows that I fist men but I've never shown her any pictures other than this.)

O.M.G. !   Extremely Exciting - love of been yourfriend - neighbor or a person into Fisting - transforming my pussy cunt hole with pussy lips !  Help me !  Please !

[PG1961Canada]

I've always been curious about fisting and wanted to experiment.

All through the pandemic and lock downs, I have been training with a number of 'toys' due to lack of the real thing. I typically start with small and work my way up to the two center ones - the thick beast and the fist replica.

I agree with @find91 that a LOT of this is mental and relaxation.

I recently had a few hours of assplay with one of my FWB and for the first time - he was able to actually get his fist inside me.  It was VERY intense.  I have fisted him a few times and I finally understand what he meant when describing the feeling. Wow.

So.. once or twice a month, I plan to continue to 'train'... I also plan to get the real thing again, as soon as possible.  I agree that toys are great for training - but you can't beat the real meat!!

[MuscledHorse]

I have a very large bad-dragon toy collection (all L and XL of course). For me most toy play is a solo thing when I don't have a partner available to put his cock and/or hand/arm in me. I have played with toys at parties before and had them used on me in group settings, but very rarely have they been sued on me in 1 on 1 play sessions. here's a pic of just some of my toys.

[Bruce999]

I use toys as a warm-up to being fisted.