Totally into very ugly old men.

[BootmanLA]

4 hours ago, LarsBlonde19 said:

I want to explain that I do not have any problem  giving myself to sex with "ugly" old men and enjoying it in an incredible way. My problem is how people react to this. Young people my age have insulted me and called me things like a whore, and old people who think I'm going for the money and not for the incredible sex they give me.

Here is what (I think) is setting off little warning flags for people - at least for me.

I'm all for people being open to various kinds of men - bodywise, lookswise, agewise, racewise, whatever. I also understand that for some people, only certain "types" really turn them on; I have a friend who simply has zero interest in anyone clean-shaven, for instance - won't even look at the person. Some guys are only interested in hairy (or smooth) guys. A significant number of guys I know in their 40's only want younger guys.

What I'm hearing echoes of, in the OP's posting, is this: "I have to be the young and pretty one, so I'm not taking any chances on someone who's not as handsome but young like me, or someone who's older but has that handsome daddy look." That may not be the case - I don't want to put words in his mouth or thoughts in his head - but it's kind of hard not to think it.

I'm also put in mind of Benjamin Franklin's advice to a young man to choose an older woman over a younger one, much of which is (in his sexist way) talking about how appreciative the older woman will be for the attention, how much better she will be at attending to your needs, and so forth.

It may be, as the OP notes, that the sex is great. There's nothing wrong with that. But given that unattractive men, in general, probably have less (rather than more) opportunity to get lots of practice at sex over a lifetime, you'd think if nothing else they might lack in experience what they can try to make up for with enthusiasm. So that again, suggests: if he's not interested in an attractive older man with (possibly) more experience at pleasing a partner, is the issue not so much "great sex" but looking good in comparison.

Not saying that's the case here. But I don't think it's unreasonable for people to question what else might be the motivation for always choosing older & uglier (his word, not mine).

[DarkroomTaker]

Men are men, no labels, just cock in the hole.

[Sharmercharmer]

19 hours ago, GoingEasy said:

Dr. Scorpio, I'll disagree with you here. Back when I was in graduate school, ( yes before the earth was completely cool). There was this incredibly handsome tall blonde, chiseled, porn star hot colleague of ours , ( he like 50% of us was gay),  and he dated only men over 70. And maybe the rest of us weren't 'hot guys" , but we were in our 20's. When you are in your 20's  you  are a defacto hot guy.

My point:  We were in awe  of him, and even met one of his 70 y/o fuckbuds ( who held a dinner in our honor in his home), and we never thought less of him, because of his preference in  much older men.

I disagree too, so many so say 'hot' guys are too judgemental. I believe that if you see some one you wanna fuck with, just do it. Don't care what prissy guys think. Life is short, enjoy

 

[Sharmercharmer]

1 hour ago, BootmanLA said:

Here is what (I think) is setting off little warning flags for people - at least for me.

I'm all for people being open to various kinds of men - bodywise, lookswise, agewise, racewise, whatever. I also understand that for some people, only certain "types" really turn them on; I have a friend who simply has zero interest in anyone clean-shaven, for instance - won't even look at the person. Some guys are only interested in hairy (or smooth) guys. A significant number of guys I know in their 40's only want younger guys.

What I'm hearing echoes of, in the OP's posting, is this: "I have to be the young and pretty one, so I'm not taking any chances on someone who's not as handsome but young like me, or someone who's older but has that handsome daddy look." That may not be the case - I don't want to put words in his mouth or thoughts in his head - but it's kind of hard not to think it.

I'm also put in mind of Benjamin Franklin's advice to a young man to choose an older woman over a younger one, much of which is (in his sexist way) talking about how appreciative the older woman will be for the attention, how much better she will be at attending to your needs, and so forth.

It may be, as the OP notes, that the sex is great. There's nothing wrong with that. But given that unattractive men, in general, probably have less (rather than more) opportunity to get lots of practice at sex over a lifetime, you'd think if nothing else they might lack in experience what they can try to make up for with enthusiasm. So that again, suggests: if he's not interested in an attractive older man with (possibly) more experience at pleasing a partner, is the issue not so much "great sex" but looking good in comparison.

Not saying that's the case here. But I don't think it's unreasonable for people to question what else might be the motivation for always choosing older & uglier (his word, not mine).

Sex is about what you love and like and enjoy and fuck what others think

[Splitcock]

What's "ugly" Its all down to perception  and whats perceived by that person 🤔

 

Edited March 6, 2021 by Splitcock

[Gayasian]

"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" that's what my parent told me. Everyone is different.

[tallslenderguy]

i love that anything can be discussed in this community. 

Evolutionists theorize that attraction to youth and beauty is about survival, reproduction. Not really a factor when it comes to sex between guys. Do gay guys still have those instincts? 

i ran a marketing business for many years. It's common knowledge among sales people that buyers buy based on emotion, not reason. i think sex is probably similar. We can think and reason this out, but ultimately or choices about who to have sex with are not based on logic or reason, but complex emotions that we may not even be aware of, let alone understand.

That's why i think discussions like this are fantastic and one of the reasons i love the BZ community. For me, sex is better when i it goes beyond the physical. Sex for me is about connecting with another guy. Penetration, insemination, even 'impregnation,' can be so much more than a physical act, it can be mental and emotional. It can be a deep experience of discovery of self and another, of connection and bonding. i think this discussion can be, in part, about not limiting our opportunities of experience due to bias, be they culturally condoned or otherwise. 

[BootmanLA]

10 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

Evolutionists theorize that attraction to youth and beauty is about survival, reproduction. Not really a factor when it comes to sex between guys. Do gay guys still have those instincts? 

A huge portion of gay culture seems to be based on the notion that those reproductive instincts still thrive in gay men - the idea of spreading one's genes through as many mates as possible, for instance. I'd be surprised if whatever it is that makes us gay somehow managed to negate all the other sex-related instincts that have accumulated in us over thousands of millennia. 

[Cockdumb&Cute]

I don't really understand what u mean...if a guy has a working cock and it is willing to use me, than i gratefully accept - so long as it is bareback NO CONDOMS...period.

[Guest]

A cock is a cock n if it has a need to breed then I’m there to serve n take that load... no questions asked..

[BREEDmeRAW]

On 3/4/2021 at 9:56 AM, LarsBlonde19 said:

I am 23 years old and I live in New York. I am blond, tall and with a muscular body. For four years I have been totally hooked on sex with old men, the uglier the better. I no longer have sex with guys my age or handsome men. I'm just looking for ugly old men and the sex is incredible. Does anyone have the same problem?

I don't consider it a problem though it might alter a typical relationship. When I was in 18-25 I tried to stay within 10 years of myself. Then when I turned 32 my friend got 32 Loads pumped up my ass in 12 hours. He start to fuck me Bareback and makes sure Everyone can see. Then as guys would watch and crowd around he would offer my ass to others. He announced to the crowd that ANY  Cock could fuck my hole. Cum was to be Pumped DEEP Inside my ass. I didn't have a choice about looks/age/race/body type or any other identifiable information. 

[Guest]

yes old guys, physically not attractive turn me on if they top, particularly dom. they appreciate me more, and when poz, love pozzimg me more. especially if gaunt, spots, or other physical signs. if u read this and fit the description find out in person!

BUT! i like many other types also. my preference is over 40 but if we are compatible and same sexual interests that's still the main thing.

Edited May 7, 2021 by nastysubbbbottom

[LittleCumSewer]

yeah I love getting fucked raw and taking loads from old, fat and ugly guys. I had a boyfriend who got me into it. he loved watching guys dump loads in me but loved it best if the guys were unattractive or piggy, fat, old, ugly, or skinny and wasted cause he felt like that was so much more degrading than getting fucked by hot guys. plus I love how it shows anyone watching that I obviously take anyones load, no questions asked

[horndoggy]

On 3/5/2021 at 5:58 PM, Gayasian said:

"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" that's what my parent told me. Everyone is different.

When I was a young 20-something fagling, my GP referred me to a plastic surgeon (not at my request!) to address some post significant weight loss issues with sagging skin and breast tissue.

After assessing my skin type and its generally unsuitability for plastic surgery he actually turned to me and gently said “You know, beauty is only skin deep”.

Without a pause I snapped back “But ugly go right to the bone!” a la Flip Wilson.

Thirty plus years later, 200 lbs heavier, and delighted that the internet brought the chub and chaser community together, I’m pretty content. When and if a man  expresses an interest but seems sheepish about it (not uncommon with the young) I tease them with joke “How is a fat guy like a moped? They’re both fun to ride, until your friends see you.”

[mixedbubble]

Yup definitely prefer older and heavier, back in the CL days they were so abundant and I miss them