For those who are switch and versatile at what point did you decide to be a optimal slut and what influenced your decisions?

[Guest]

What are the factors that drive or have driven your sexual evolution?

[BootmanLA]

21 hours ago, pervedone said:

What are the factors that drive or have driven your sexual evolution?

So: are you saying that anyone who is a "switch and versatile" is automatically a "optimal slut"? What, pray tell, is an (not "a") "optimal slut"?

[NWUSHorny]

I'm pretty sure I'm a sex addict, bi as well verse.  My 1st time having sex was with a girl at 14, when I was 19 I started trading blow jobs and quickly moved on to topping.  It took me another year and a half to find the courage to bottom, but have never looked back.  If i'm even mildly attracted to someone, one or preferably both of us will wind up with a cock up their ass.  

Versatility is the ideal situation, while their are often severe surpluses of bottoms and guys who don't fuck, there is never a surplus of tops, and true total tops are all but nonexistent. 

Edited April 5, 2021 by NWUSHorny

[valldelxeno]

I've gone all over the place with this issue. I started out verse, I simply liked the pleasure in both the dick and arse and also enjoyed the feeling of opening up for someone and of drilling someone.

Once my sex life actually picked up I quickly found topping awkward with a lot of guys because my dick isn't that big. It's about 5 inches so it gets the job done but there can be a lot of slipping out etc. and I feel like the thrusts are lacking. At the same time I got into fisting so although I was now almost entirely a bottom for fucking, I was 50/50 verse in fisting.

My sex life is currently in a bit of a lull (well, it's completely died actually because reasons) and I would say I'm more verse now because although bottoming is what I'm better at, I really spend a lot of time craving holes to leave my load in. If there's other loads already then even better. And if he complains about my dick being too small I'll just stick my hand in with it, it's all good.

[UpstateNYexplorer]

On 4/5/2021 at 6:00 PM, NWUSHorny said:

I'm pretty sure I'm a sex addict, bi as well verse.  My 1st time having sex was with a girl at 14, when I was 19 I started trading blow jobs and quickly moved on to topping.  It took me another year and a half to find the courage to bottom, but have never looked back.  If i'm even mildly attracted to someone, one or preferably both of us will wind up with a cock up their ass.  

Versatility is the ideal situation, while their are often severe surpluses of bottoms and guys who don't fuck, there is never a surplus of tops, and true total tops are all but nonexistent. 

This is pretty much me in a nutshell. I'm a bi vers so be it man or woman, top or bottom, I typically end up very satisfied.

[versmetropig]

I'm currently 58. First sex at 14, in 1976. Did girls and guys through 3rd year of University - it was the late 70s and early 80s in NYC and anonymous gay sex was EASY to find all over town - I suppose especially if you're a blond teenager with a dancer's butt and gymnast body. With girls the sex had to have some "extra excitement" (location, attire, kink, 3-way) to keep my interest as I knew since 13 guys turned me on more. With guys I was vers from the beginning - it just seemed like why would I waste the opportunity to experience EVERY sex act I could from both sides of the equation - and I pretty much liked everything from either the top or the bottom... with a slight preference for top.

At 17, hitting the Adonis and Show World and other gay porn theaters and ABS's, I discovered afternoons and evenings when I could fuck a bunch of guys, get sucked by some, suck a bunch of guys myself, and get fucked by a few and go home satisfied... for a day or so! The more the merrier was my theory... it would take me until I'd turned 18 to decide girls just didn't do it enough for me (since their bodies didn't turn me on much, I concentrated on seeing how many orgasms I could give them, starting with using my tongue to trace the letters of the alphabet on their clits and watch 'em start writhing... I was rather popular for that...) acknowledging that men just did it much more for me , and it wasn't fair to the ladies to pretend, so I stopped dating and pursuing females and focused exclusively on the males (with a few exceptions for 3-ways with married couples over the years). Good thing, as it turns out, sometime prior to 1985, I became HIV+. Please note that 36 years later, I am still here, and thank goodness, still healthy.

That switched me to safe sex mode for a few years - still did the theaters and ABS and bathhouses and the Rambles and all, but with a sock on it. During that time, I bottomed less, as I have a bad reaction to most latex items, and though I could stand it on my cock, inside my ass latex is REALLY uncomfortable.  In the late 90s, returned to raw/bareback with other HIV+ guys, and that's the way I play since - with the exception of the few Neg guys I play with (one of them is my husband of 31 years, who after 31 years with a POZ guy is still NEG). Barebacking and pnp parties have been a mainstay of my sexual activities since the 2000s started, and I'm back to versatility much more frequently.

So, very long story short - apparently I realized I was an Optimal Slut back when I was 17 in the late 70s at the Adonis Theater and discovered that sex could be a smorgasbord of lots and lots of flavors and activities!

 

[theplayerking]

I’m versatile because I love flip fucking and especially fucking with a dick in my ass. I’ve always wanted to flip fuck. Even as a kid and long before I started actually doing it. 

[pozboy]

11 hours ago, versmetropig said:

I'm currently 58. First sex at 14, in 1976. Did girls and guys through 3rd year of University - it was the late 70s and early 80s in NYC and anonymous gay sex was EASY to find all over town - I suppose especially if you're a blond teenager with a dancer's butt and gymnast body. With girls the sex had to have some "extra excitement" (location, attire, kink, 3-way) to keep my interest as I knew since 13 guys turned me on more. With guys I was vers from the beginning - it just seemed like why would I waste the opportunity to experience EVERY sex act I could from both sides of the equation - and I pretty much liked everything from either the top or the bottom... with a slight preference for top.

At 17, hitting the Adonis and Show World and other gay porn theaters and ABS's, I discovered afternoons and evenings when I could fuck a bunch of guys, get sucked by some, suck a bunch of guys myself, and get fucked by a few and go home satisfied... for a day or so! The more the merrier was my theory... it would take me until I'd turned 18 to decide girls just didn't do it enough for me (since their bodies didn't turn me on much, I concentrated on seeing how many orgasms I could give them, starting with using my tongue to trace the letters of the alphabet on their clits and watch 'em start writhing... I was rather popular for that...) acknowledging that men just did it much more for me , and it wasn't fair to the ladies to pretend, so I stopped dating and pursuing females and focused exclusively on the males (with a few exceptions for 3-ways with married couples over the years). Good thing, as it turns out, sometime prior to 1985, I became HIV+. Please note that 36 years later, I am still here, and thank goodness, still healthy.

That switched me to safe sex mode for a few years - still did the theaters and ABS and bathhouses and the Rambles and all, but with a sock on it. During that time, I bottomed less, as I have a bad reaction to most latex items, and though I could stand it on my cock, inside my ass latex is REALLY uncomfortable.  In the late 90s, returned to raw/bareback with other HIV+ guys, and that's the way I play since - with the exception of the few Neg guys I play with (one of them is my husband of 31 years, who after 31 years with a POZ guy is still NEG). Barebacking and pnp parties have been a mainstay of my sexual activities since the 2000s started, and I'm back to versatility much more frequently.

So, very long story short - apparently I realized I was an Optimal Slut back when I was 17 in the late 70s at the Adonis Theater and discovered that sex could be a smorgasbord of lots and lots of flavors and activities!

 

you're the model for us all! after 15 years, my husband is still neg too. they should put 1,000% tax on condoms and make sure they all tear first use

[Guest WelshBBCigarFuck]

Versatile is the best of both worlds, love a raw hole around my cock but also love the feeling of a cock spreading my hole, pumping away and dumping one or more loads inside.

I’ve always been a bit of a slut, never refused a cock or a hole, just as long as there is a breeding involved, yet to experience an XXL cock forcing my hole open, but hopefully one day I will feel a cock going deeper than ever before.

[CumDumpSLT]

I am 38 and a sex addict. I had my first sexual experience with a 28yo black guy that I met online at 15. I started going down on him, swallowed his first load and then he didn’t give me much of a choice afterwards for the second one. He just flipped me over and took my virginity, no just once but several times raw seeding my hole. As much as it hurt and confused as I was as to why it turned me on so much I didn’t fight him on it. When he told me Daddy is ready to go again, I bent over and gave up my hole. As I screamed and moaned in pain crying he got off on it, verbally degrading me and making me talk dirty to him. Yasss Daddy it feels so good, fuck me harder, deeper, own me, cum inside me, I want it so fucking bad. This wound up being a regular thing and I let him mold me into his personal cum dumpster whore. I would sneak out of my house at night wearing nothing but panties and legit willingly let that man rape my hole. It got to the point that lube wasn’t necessary, he’d spit on my hole and rearrange my insides dumping numerous loads inside me sending me home a hot mess. As he would fuck me he’d tell me that he owned me and that this was all I was good for.