Can you go back after black?

[Guest]

As has been stated by several others here, cock is cock and a hole is a hole, I'm into servicing those cocks with my holes and color, race, or size does not matter as long as I can satisfy their needs. But with that being said, I do enjoy a black man's cock somewhat more for the most part, only as it was a black man that first broke me in and taught me how to service and satisfy him and his needs. I also have to say, the majority of the black men that have used me are a bit more aggressive and forthwith about their needs and what it takes to satisfy them and I do enjoy that a lot more, but that is just me.  I've taken many cocks over my years since being trained and always jump at the chance to service a well hung black man when possible, I don't care anything about the racist things being said or going on in the world today. The saying once black and never going back is just that and as stated before came from way back in the day and was primarily referring to a white woman taking a black man's cock. I came to think and believe it was started by the jealous white men that saw it as a threat to their superiority in those days and as a slur to black men and the white women that were engaging in relations.   Now days it's becoming somewhat normal for mixed race relationships and that is how it should be as far as my opinion and I'm concerned. There will always be those with closed minds and racist thinking stirring things up, as we are seeing in the media now days, but the bottom line is that like it or not, we are all human no matter the color or ethnic group we come from and we were created and made to breed and enjoy ourselves, and it's a statement that has outlived it's meaning and should be put to rest forever.

[NWUSHorny]

23 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

Without pointing fingers at you (because I'm not suggesting you're racist, at all), the very use of the phrase "BBC" is such an objectifying thing. The fact that it exists at all, and that you feel comfortable using it, even in this context, suggests you may understand more than you realize.

The worst are the ones who say things like "I was fucked by a BBC". Not "fucked by a man with a BBC", just "fucked with a BBC". Inherent in that - not implicitly, but explicitly - is the notion that all that matters about that individual is his cock.

One could argue (and some do) that because it's meant to be complimentary, it's not racist. Bull. It's as racist to reduce a black man to his genitalia as it is sexist to reduce a woman to her breasts or vagina. 

To be fair, he took my BWC (big white cock) a couple of days later, and we continued enjoying each others equipment for several months.  Yes, we both verbalized the objectification.

Edited July 17, 2021 by NWUSHorny

[twoguyssssss4fun]

first cocks i sucked were black. i think what you are exposed to early on influences your life. Since then i certainly have enjoyed fucking white guys.. but there is something that always draws me to a black guy, usually to suck his dick... and most recently to finally give up my hole and let it get destroyed by a couple of black men

[Devtylor]

The first time I took a dick bare was from a black dude. Since then I had a few fuck buds that were black too. I agree taking BBC is hot 

[chipygmalion80]

Does the OP's phrase apply to black btms?

I've fucked a few black guys who bent over.  Great fucks too!

The phrase implies all black men are big cock tops.  Meh.

[Guest]

Once you go bareback you never go back would be a much better conversation. 😂

[Bymike]

Yes you can, BUT, you”ll look for black as a priority.  

[BlackDude]

I actually like reading these posts and I don’t feel objectified at all. Let me know what it is upfront. 

If we a going to be real, a lot of black guys look at it the same way. “If you’re a white guy, we have nothing in common, and you’re not fucking, I don’t care.” Hell, if I’m following a porn dude on Twitter, and he’s not showing enough ass, or talking too much I unfollow. So how can I be mad?

And not responding to anyone here, cause I don’t folks personally, but a lot of these guys who bring up this objectification issue don’t give a damn about black gays.... They just see that a preference is being shown, or in someway black men are strangely being “highlighted” about sexual prowess and they feel some type away about it. They use all type of a racial epithets to condemn a guy for missing a goal in soccer, but as soon as someone says they prefer black dick it’s “hey, wait a minute….”

 

 

[BootmanLA]

On 7/23/2021 at 2:13 PM, BlackDude said:

I actually like reading these posts and I don’t feel objectified at all. Let me know what it is upfront. 

If we a going to be real, a lot of black guys look at it the same way. “If you’re a white guy, we have nothing in common, and you’re not fucking, I don’t care.” Hell, if I’m following a porn dude on Twitter, and he’s not showing enough ass, or talking too much I unfollow. So how can I be mad?

And not responding to anyone here, cause I don’t folks personally, but a lot of these guys who bring up this objectification issue don’t give a damn about black gays.... They just see that a preference is being shown, or in someway black men are strangely being “highlighted” about sexual prowess and they feel some type away about it. They use all type of a racial epithets to condemn a guy for missing a goal in soccer, but as soon as someone says they prefer black dick it’s “hey, wait a minute….”

For what it's worth, I don't use racial epithets. Given my background (growing up in the deep south in the U.S.), I heard them non-stop, and still occasionally do, but I've made a concerted effort to make sure those words never come out of my mouth. 

And for the record: I have no problem with guys who find black men (and only black men) attractive, or with those who are open to others but prefer black (or Asian, or Hispanic, or Middle Eastern, or whatever). I do have a problem with people who reduce the other person to a racially identifiable object, as in "I got fucked yesterday by a BBC". Not "by a black guy with a big cock" but by a big black cock acting on its own volition, untethered to an actual human being.

Given the long history in this country of black women being objectified for sex by white men (first as slaves, then as second-class citizens unable to meaningfully object to being raped), I'm sensitive to also treating black men as purely sexual objects for the gratification of white guys. 

[BlackDude]

On 7/24/2021 at 12:36 PM, BootmanLA said:

For what it's worth, I don't use racial epithets. Given my background (growing up in the deep south in the U.S.), I heard them non-stop, and still occasionally do, but I've made a concerted effort to make sure those words never come out of my mouth. 

And for the record: I have no problem with guys who find black men (and only black men) attractive, or with those who are open to others but prefer black (or Asian, or Hispanic, or Middle Eastern, or whatever). I do have a problem with people who reduce the other person to a racially identifiable object, as in "I got fucked yesterday by a BBC". Not "by a black guy with a big cock" but by a big black cock acting on its own volition, untethered to an actual human being.

Given the long history in this country of black women being objectified for sex by white men (first as slaves, then as second-class citizens unable to meaningfully object to being raped), I'm sensitive to also treating black men as purely sexual objects for the gratification of white guys. 

I understand your sentiment. Although I wish the world was perfect, and we didn’t even have to think about this kind of stuff in a community that supposed to represent equality, we do.
 

My whole thing is two can play that game. Most of the time I really don’t care if you wanna look at me as BBC because I can look at you as just a piece of ass. Just don’t you be offended when I do. Throughout the years I have had plenty of (non-black) guys tell me they wanted more but they really just want a hook up, pump and dump type of situation. Then when I give them just that, and only contact them to fuck, and won’t chase them, they want then they act all offended and hurt. It goes both ways. LOL
 

And I think a lot of this stuff stems from some guys really can’t calculate that a person may prefer black men. Sure they get white person would prefer white guys, but if someone prefers a black guy there has to be something darker or some deep psychological defect as to why. Ha ha

Also, Both black women AND MEN were used for sexual gratification. Often the men were raped to break the spirit of the other slaves and show dominance.

[BootmanLA]

50 minutes ago, BlackDude said:

Also, Both black women AND MEN were used for sexual gratification. Often the men were raped to break the spirit of the other slaves and show dominance.

True, and I didn't mean to minimize that. But historically, it was a "once and done" or "a few times and done" thing, as you say to break the spirit of that slave and others, not so much for the actual sexual gratification of the rapist. That's not really the same thing (although as abhorrent in its own way) as taking black female slaves as forced mistresses, including when there were offspring of those rapes who were themselves enslaved from birth. My impression - and it may be faulty - is that in the case of female slaves, it wasn't necessarily an act to insure submission as a way to satisfy a base urge.

[theplayerking]

On 7/17/2021 at 8:41 AM, ErosWired said:

I have found the individuals I have encountered to be more sensual, more body-confident, less judgmental (as a rule) and more likely to reach out for what they want.

I have found this the case as well. I don’t hookup with black men very often, but they are usually the most fun at a sex party or bathhouse. 

[Kimberley]

I have a black top that just fucks so damn good (better than most white men) don't want without his cock any more. every time we meet i know my ass gets what it deserves

[evilqueerpig]

SEXY comes in all colors/shapes/sizes/ages.

[Guest Alphpig]

On 7/17/2021 at 7:46 AM, evilalex said:

yeah. When people fetishize a race it freaks me out a bit.

I get what you mean, I am uncut and I get treated the same way.