Young Bottom Looking for Advice

[mascbottom4bb]

Please move if this is in the wrong section.

Looking for some advice as I begin to explore as a bareback bottom. I’ve done a few hosting sessions in a hotel where I’ve let men breed me while I am blindfolded and listening to music or porn and I’ve loved it. I really enjoy the feeling of submitting to cock and having them cum in my holes with a little sensory deprivation. So much so that I don’t even like to top anymore, just bottom. Generally always used dating apps (Grindr/Fetlife), as I am discreet and like the opportunity to screen people’s status beforehand (I am not on prep) - but I’d like to take the next step and attend a club. Few questions for the group (am in ATL for location specific stuff).

 

1. I’ve been recommended to attend a cumunion event here, as it’s where I’ll really have the opportunity to take as many loads as I can - is this accurate?

2. Would I have any issue wearing a blindfold and a pair of headphones inside the club? I really enjoy the sensory deprivation during. 
 

3. I am neg, and unfortunately unable to get on PreP at the moment. How can I make sure that guys who cum in me are also neg?

 

4. Are poppers permitted inside these clubs? I imagine it depends on which one, but is there a general rule?

 

Thanks, sorry if this is the wrong place to post. 

 

 

[theplayerking]

I’m neg and on PrEP. If you want to stay neg you need to be careful whom you play with or go on PrEP. Being a cumdump at a sex party is not a good idea if you want to stay neg. 

I would also be concerned about sensory deprivation in a location you don’t control. I think that’s best kept to your home or hotel room. 

[hungry_hole]

16 hours ago, mascbottom4bb said:

How can I make sure that guys who cum in me are also neg?

Beware of stealthers...

[verslut]

16 hours ago, mascbottom4bb said:

3. I am neg, and unfortunately unable to get on PreP at the moment. How can I make sure that guys who cum in me are also neg?

You can't. You're gonna get a mix of neg guys, undetectable guys, and guys who don't yet know they're poz. The guys who don't know yet are the ones who'll transmit HIV.

[EricX]

Is there a particular reason you cannot take Prep?  

[Greim]

You can get PrEP free. If you want to stay neg, that’s the ONLY way you can bb and be pretty sure you can stay neg. 

[Sharpshooter13]

You need to get on PrEP if you are not a bug chaser.  AID Atlanta PrEP You can get it for free and w/o insurance via this link in ATL.  If you get a room at FLEX, or wherever Cumunion is you can wear a blindfold.  I wouldn't wear headphones; they will be pumping in dance music anyways and you want to hear what's going on.  Most of these places in the US sell poppers, so yes.  If you want to do the blindfold/headphones thing I'd do that at a motel and get a friend top or otherwise to be your chaperone.  He can get guys to come and use you and keep you from being taken advantage of.

[CumBustion]

On 7/26/2021 at 3:56 PM, mascbottom4bb said:

1. I’ve been recommended to attend a cumunion event here, as it’s where I’ll really have the opportunity to take as many loads as I can - is this accurate?

2. Would I have any issue wearing a blindfold and a pair of headphones inside the club? I really enjoy the sensory deprivation during. 
 

3. I am neg, and unfortunately unable to get on PreP at the moment. How can I make sure that guys who cum in me are also neg?

 

4. Are poppers permitted inside these clubs? I imagine it depends on which one, but is there a general rule?

1. Depending on how many dudes come to the event, it can be as much as you can possibly handle. Remember, it’s not just about your physical limit, but also your mental and emotional limit. Take breaks.
 

2. Never seen any one wear a blind fold or ear phones, nor would I recommend it. There might be a dark room to satisfy your need for sensory deprivation.

3. No guarantees the dudes you’re fucking will be neg or undetect. Highly suggest PREP, even if it is “PREP on demand” (taking PREP before, the day of, and day after fucking). In fact, be prepared to possibly get other STIs, too. 
 

4. Poppers are allowed, maybe even sold there.

[mascbottom4bb]

Thanks for all the responses - I’ll stick to a hotel or place where I can screen individuals until I’m able to get on PreP. 
 

Unfortunately I am not able to receive it through my current provider. May be working to change jobs as well - so that doesn’t help things either. 
 

I’ll have to look into the programs mentioned, I was under the impression I would be denied since I currently have insurance, I’m just choosing not to use it. But I’ll see if any of the clinics in ATL can help. 
 

As far as the blindfold/headphones go, I guess I’ll need to find someone to come with when the time comes - that may make things a bit safer. 

[ErosWired]

1. It may be a good place for an opportunity to take multiple loads, but there is no guarantee. I’ve done CumUnions where I’ve taken 24 loads, and CumUnions where I was lucky to get 5. Plus, it depends on the nature of the fucking - a rough Top could injure you early in the game and that would be the end of it for the night.

2. Don’t even consider total sensory deprivation in such contexts. It’s essential that you have some kind of clue what’s happening around you. You may be able to swing a blindfold, but if you do, make very sure you have nothing of value that can walk away out where someone could find it. Realize that limiting your senses when you’re making yourself vulnerable around strangers always introduces an extra element of risk. Stay alert.

3. You cannot guarantee that any man who fucks you is neg. Period. If you’re not on PrEP and you’re fucking bare, you are wide open to HIV infection. That’s a fact - any other notion is wishful thinking.

4. You should find no barrier to popper use, but don’t get carried away. Especially if you’re not accustomed to them, poppers can cause you to lose consciousness and potentially injure yourself in a fall. If used with Viagra or certain other medications that lower blood pressure, they can be deadly. And, skin contact can cause chemical burns or irritation. If you choose to use them, be sensible about it.

[BootmanLA]

You mention a problem getting PrEP through your current provider (do you mean your insurer, or your actual medical provider, ie doctor/clinic?).

You should know that recent guidelines have been issued by the federal government that PrEP, as a preventative health care item recommended by the body that governs such things, MUST be covered by all health insurance companies, without co-pay. So if you have actual health insurance (whether employer/group or individual) it should be covered - and if they haven't in the past, they're going to have to. The feds recently gave all insurers notice that they had a very limited time to make this happen or they're in deep shit.

If you have some sort of fake insurance - the kind of "promise-to-share-the-expenses-of-the-group" fake plan that religious groups frequently promote - it doesn't apply to them.

When most people say "provider", they don't mean insurer, though - they mean the actual provider of the health care (the doctor, the clinic, the hospital, etc.). In other words, the people the insurer *pays* for providing health care. If your problem is with your doctor not wanting to prescribe it, find another doctor. It's not worth having a doctor who doesn't want to protect his patients' lives.

[Kimberley]

On 7/27/2021 at 3:56 AM, mascbottom4bb said:

3. I am neg, and unfortunately unable to get on PreP at the moment. How can I make sure that guys who cum in me are also neg?

- I learned 1 thing, u can't. if u ask them 90% will say they are neg, clean and STD free. well believe me that's not the reality. they have fucked me with a lot of STD's when i started with prep. i'm just done asking because you will never hear the true. just get prep before u end up with a toxic poz load inside u