What turns bttms off on Grindr?

[raw773]

Since the "what turns tops off" post is getting good feedback, I thought I'd ask the same question to bottoms. What makes you take a pass on a top?

[OzzieCumdumpster]

I stopped using grindr as most of thetops just don't want to meet, where I seem to have more success on Scruff for get anon loads.

[BootmanLA]

There are tops on Grindr?

[Kimberley]

- to young guys that don't read my profile that i'm only into older guys

- men you have no age or other stats in their profile

- men who just keep chatting for days with no date

[Close2MyBro]

All of the following:

- Not having a dick pic

- Only wanting to hook up "NOW" and not being able to plan something

- Using meth

- Cock rings in their pictures

- Talking about how big their dick is when it really isn't big at all

- Wanting to be "edged"

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

Wanting to give me a blowjob.

not understanding what chastity is.

ghosting

 

[raw773]

Mine would be any reference to oral when I'm pretty clear I need fucked. I don't want to have to suck you or get sucked -- not to the point where that's the real focus of the engagement. If I wanted to get blown, I would ask for that. To me being a "top" and being somebody who needs a BJ are really different. 😂

I also don't really like to have to describe how it's gonna go. "Tell me what you'll do when I get in you. Oh yeah? Now tell me what sounds you're going to make for me. Yeah? Tell me about..." While I think this can be really hot, I can pretty well tell this is just somebody jerking off rather than wanting fucked.

Let's set a location and a time, and then go.

[Pumpinmyhole]

I'm not on Grindr, but I'm on Scruff.  For me it all comes down to a blatant disregard to what I've posted in my profile.  My profile says "I'm poz/undetectable and play BB only.  If you hit me up, I'll assume you're ok with this".  So a guy will hit me up, tell me how hot my profile is, and say he needs to dump a load.  But can he use a condom. Did you not read my profile??  I also say "absolutely no PnP, but poppers/420 friendly".  One guy recently hit me up and wanted to get together.  He asked how firm I was on the no PnP rule, and I said very firm.  He tried to argue saying that it's not like him doing drugs is contagious LOL.  No, it's not but I need everyone to be in the same head space, on the same level.  

And I'm sorry, but to all the bottoms that want to chat and discuss how much you love being a slut and taking loads?  I'm not here to chat.

[Guest]

I'm not  on Grindr but a few others. People who don't read or disregard what I've written especially when they ask if I can accommodate, when I've said that I cannot, who are younger than the age range I'm interested in or people who live five thousand miles away. I mean WTF!

Edited September 21, 2021 by BareBob

[brittain123]

I'm a sub bottom and advertised as such. Have zero interest in topping or receiving head.

The one thing that will immediately make me stop chatting/talking or become uninterested is when they're like "Can I see your dick?" "Can I duck you too?" Etc etc etc.

[120DaysofSodom]

If you're over 60; If you're younger than 21.

If you're a bottom; if you're looking to just suck my cock.

If you spam me with messages and I haven't even responded yet.

[Bottom Jim]

I got off Grindr Most guys would ask what am I into. What I am into is obvious from the profile I want your raw duck in my ass and cum in me

these questions never stop and I believe far too many just wanted to chat and not meet

[austin_submale]

I've had no luck on grindr at all.  Nothing but flakes and scammers.

 

[xxbjn2]

I found Grinder to be a total waste of time, deleted it.

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I have been on a few of the dating sites and between flakes and bottoms pretending to be tops to lure you to them in the hopes you'll be horny enough to forget you are a bottom and just fuck them... well, I gave up on those sites a while back.