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Do you ever laugh during sex?


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On 9/25/2021 at 1:19 AM, SpectreAgent said:

Sex is fun. It’s the most fun and pleasure you can have with your own genitals - and others’. Why wouldn’t I laugh? And I’m frequently laughed at when I’m naked. When I was a stripper, the crowd used to shout: “Get ‘em on!”

I may have made that last bit up…

Which part “might” you have made-up @SpectreAgent; the part about being a stripper or the part about your audience’s reaction? 🧐

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For most of my life before my husband the laughter was only if there was a malfunction of some sort; not any joyous laughter that I remember. The first time my husband (to be) fucked me we both laughed during and startled each other; it was joy for both of us.  After the fourth time in a couple of hours we had nothing more in the tank(s) figuratively (and literally) we were laying back still panting on sweat-soaked sheets and at the same time both of us laughed.  Then we were both startled.  Then we broke into huge laughter.  Finally when we got ourselves to where we could talk a little he looked at me and said, “FUCK we did that GOOD!”  I asked him, “‘that’ meaning only one of the four?”  And we were laughing hysterically again and it was explosions out of both of us of huge joy that had been only expressed in our fucks and sucks and kisses and touches but not enough to release and share it all.  

MANY times in the years since we have collapsed after sex; and then at some point we both laugh with that same joy.  Rarely with a play-mate; usually à deux.  
 

And our persist use of “that GOOD” and “those GOOD” are our private jokes.  

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The short answer is “YES!”  Sex is fun and enjoyable.  Fun and enjoyable often cause laughter.

 

I have always thought of the mechanics of sex as ridiculously weird and sometimes eww!  Then add how we humans like to adapt those mechanics to our particular liking, and things can get even more ridiculous, weird, fun and eww.  You have just got to laugh at times.

 

But, I think you must be able to laugh at yourself when at times, things don’t work as planned.  Someone might zig, while the other zags, and things fall apart, figuratively and literally.  Laugh and enjoy.

 

DO NOT take yourself seriously!  Again, sex is fun.  Do what is fun to you, and don’t do anything that you believe is your “Duty.”  Doing your “duty”, takes the fun out of it.

 

Now, go empty your balls or get your ass filled.  Above all, have fun and laugh.

 

Just my two cents.

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It depends on the situation...if I'm playing with a friend(s) and we are having a having a good time and if drinking is involved...yea we're laughing and bullshiting...if I'm at the ABS and the guy I'm playing with is serious...or it's a straight boy, fucking me, is serious...I read the room and try to engage them to relax but, if they don't, I go with the flow..

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Sometimes the whole situation is so ridiculously hot and wild that laughing is the only correct expression! I've been laughing many times while laying on my back, getting pounded hard be a random stud pig at a sex club, surrounded by other guys watching. I love being there so much, and seeing myself from the outside, thinking about everyday life going on for everyone else, but I'm there being a total sex pig... Laughing just feels correct, and also kinda way to show my gratitude to everyone around.

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If I or the other guy are laughing or chuckling during sex, things are usually going well! I love serious, filthy, no-nonsense fucking and sucking but sometimes aspects of sex are just funny. 
And I fairly often start to laugh after a really intense, mind-blowing orgasm!

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8 hours ago, Justaholeff said:

It depends on the situation...if I'm playing with a friend(s) and we are having a having a good time and if drinking is involved...yea we're laughing and bullshiting...if I'm at the ABS and the guy I'm playing with is serious...or it's a straight boy, fucking me, is serious...I read the room and try to engage them to relax but, if they don't, I go with the flow..

Justaholeff is right. You gotta read the room (good advice in most areas of life). But most of the time, I find laughing during sex to be deeply sexy and increases the connection to the other people. Sex is rather absurd, and being able to laugh at yourself is important. Keeps me sane in this ridiculous world we live in.

It's often why so much porn is SO bad. Because no one is having any fun. A blowjob shouldn't look like work.

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4 hours ago, RandyCubby said:

I can giggle like a girl when I'm getting pounded and I'm thoroughly enjoying it. That's a good thing. 

Good. I wanna see that in person. 😝

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