Did you fuck the 1st time you visited a bathhouse/sex club?

[PigBoyDallas]

My first time to a bathhouse was probably unique and not usual. I'd been curious about Club Dallas, the bathhouse in town, but was too scared to go as I didn't know what to expect or what it would be like. I'd been to Adult Book Stores by this point and had hooked up with guys at the non-gay spa I go to. I'd turned 18 and knew I could get into Club Dallas but was worried it would be mostly older guys and was worried about what might happen to me there. I'd been chatting with a guy named Eric who went to SMU and we both really wanted to hook up but neither of us could host and he was creeped out about doing it in my truck or in a public place. He suggested Club Dallas and admitted he had been before. I admitted I was curious but had never been. I was also kinda turned on that he admitted he'd been there before so I knew he was probably as slutty as I am. He explained what Club Dallas was like, what went on there, and offered to meet up with me first to get to know each other and then go there to fuck. He was pretty hot and wanted to bareback, so I agreed and met up with him beforehand. We met up and chatted a bit and went to the club and he showed me around it. We also got a room; not that you have to but it does give you some privacy to fuck. We went at it until we both were spent and he said he wanted to find other guys to get with and asked if I was good. I said I was and that I was going to find other guys to get with too. He said I could use the room so long as I was cool with him using it at the same time too. I said I was and went out to find another guy. I wasn't looking long and found a guy to hook up. As I headed back to the room I saw Eric chatting with a good looking redheaded guy in his 20s that had a huge cock. I smiled at Eric as I passed and went back to the room so the guy I picked up could pound me. And pound me he did, pumping two loads in me. Eric brought the redhead back with him as I was getting fucked and soon enough I could hear him begging for the redhead's cock and cum. When the guy fucking me finished he headed out and I went to go shower and get in the hot tub.

There were a few guys in the hot tub including a guy in his 20s with a huge cock that let me stroke it. He was average looking with a fair amount of ink and after jerking him for a while he said I should take care of him. I told him I had a room and we went back there and he drilled the hell out of my ass, pumping two of his loads inside me and letting me pump one inside him. He fucked me so hard though I was kind of done. After he left I looked around for Eric but couldn't find him, so I presumed he was in another room getting fucked. I showered again, dressed, and left. In a sense Club Dallas was more fun than an ABS as it had a pool, hot tub, and was more like a spa, but most of the guys there weren't as young as I typically run into at the ABS, at the gym, or on the trail near my house, or for that matter at the non-gay spa I go to. I did keep in touch with Eric and we'd meet up at Club Dallas to fuck and I was kind of in awe that a guy as young and hot as him was so open about hooking up at bathhouses, but I guess it was safer and easier than the bathrooms on campus. I guess we all have our kinks when you get down to it. I've been a few times on my own, but kind of prefer to cruise the gym or take my chances at the non-gay spas.

[ejaculaTe]

5 hours ago, ellentonboy said: I had a room for eight hours in Lauderdale, what was I supposed to do??? LMAO

Reading for any period of time, let alone 8 hours, would likely be out of the question, the light being too dim.

[Pumpinmyhole]

3 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

My 1st experience at Midtowne in Denver might have been a problem if it had been my 1st experience, it was the closest I've ever come to feeling raped. My 1st time there was the Mardi Gras blackout party, and I think I had 4 guys impale themselves uninvited on my bare dick on my 1st foray into the orgy space. Once I got out of the orgy room it probably took me 10 minutes to regain my composure and courage to go back in and let them do it again. I will definitely miss Mitdtowne and the DSC. Buddies in Colorado Springs is still open and I've always had fun there. I just wish I could find that kind of action in Portland where I live now. The move from Denver to Portland was a major blow to my sex life. I'm assuming you had better luck in Palm Springs, I'm planning on visiting there at least 1 day over the 4th of July weekend. I will probably get a day pass at CCBC and hit at least 1 more bar or sex resort while I'm there.

 

I certainly did a lot of fucking at Midtowne too.  I remember the basement back in the day.  One end had a bed, the middle had booths, and didn't the other end  have a motorcycle?  That would have been mid 90's though.  The last time I was there, the basement was remodeled and had more of a dark open room with a sling, table and cross in it (if I remember).   Sex in Palm Springs can be plentiful for sure, it's not difficult to find.  I don't really go to the resorts or parties going on here though.  Once in a while, but not regularly.  I *think* I've heard some resorts have stopped day passes.  Others on weekends only.  I was told CCBC offers them all the time, so that's a good bet.  I don't have a lot of PDX layovers.  If it's long, they put us in Vancouver.  The last long one I had I got an Uber to Steam.  It was a weeknight, not very busy, and not a lot of action going on.   I didn't get fucked, but fucked a hot daddy type in the sauna.  Other times it's been a difficult city to hook up in, like you said.   But the ones that have fucked have been fun.

[NWUSHorny]

1 hour ago, Mammut said:

Yes I did. I was 20 years old, curious and want to a sex club when visiting Berlin. Found myself in the darkroom and all of a sudden had my cock went inside an ass. I was very strict with condoms at the time, but now I was fucking a stranger in the dark bareback. It felt so wrong but so good, so I didnt pull out, but just kept on pumping that hole... I dumped a huge load deep in his gut... After that i got a taste for sex clubs and fucking random strangers. Tried to be good and use condoms for the most time. But now, in my 30's, im totally bareback. 

At the time I was a little freaked out at having guys just impale themselves on my raw cock too. I guess we both got over our inhibition pretty fast. I rubbered up after that initial penetration and even came from fucking him. It probably took him 2 hours of intermittent trying to get me to fuck him bareback and breed him on my 1st visit, but it did happen.

[NWUSHorny]

55 minutes ago, NYBBGUY58 said:

Yeah, but that was in 1977...in Denver at a place called - I'm not making this up - The Ball Park. It was a pretty nice place as I remember it, clean and well-maintained with a baseball theme.

There's a reason the 70s are known as "The Decade That Taste Forgot."

I've heard about The Ball Park, it was closed before I moved to Denver in '99. I didn't venture into my 1st bathhouse until January 2000. Sounds like it was a hot place.

[NWUSHorny]

7 minutes ago, Pumpinmyhole said:

I certainly did a lot of fucking at Midtowne too.  I remember the basement back in the day.  One end had a bed, the middle had booths, and didn't the other end  have a motorcycle?  That would have been mid 90's though.  The last time I was there, the basement was remodeled and had more of a dark open room with a sling, table and cross in it (if I remember).   Sex in Palm Springs can be plentiful for sure, it's not difficult to find.  I don't really go to the resorts or parties going on here though.  Once in a while, but not regularly.  I *think* I've heard some resorts have stopped day passes.  Others on weekends only.  I was told CCBC offers them all the time, so that's a good bet.  I don't have a lot of PDX layovers.  If it's long, they put us in Vancouver.  The last long one I had I got an Uber to Steam.  It was a weeknight, not very busy, and not a lot of action going on.   I didn't get fucked, but fucked a hot daddy type in the sauna.  Other times it's been a difficult city to hook up in, like you said.   But the ones that have fucked have been fun.

Hawks was some better than Steam, assuming the new location actually opens it will be more convenient from PDX than Steam. If you get a layover in Portland, I live on the Vancouver side of the river, send me a PM if I'm in town I will probably desperate to hookup with someone who actually likes to fuck.

The Midtowne still had the motorcycle in the early 2000's. I don't remember a bed, they had a big u-shaped bench that guys fucked on in the back before they built the orgy room in the middle and put the booths in the back.

[hntnhole]

Yeah, it was the only real game in town for a while.  Maybe we ... ahhhh .... "knew" each other back in the day !!!

[hntnhole]

2 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

All I can say is it was a horrible waste of potential in your case.

Wellllllllll ....... the question was what happened the first time ..... there were years worth of "next-time's" .... employees got in free any time, so parking was the only real issue.  That tiny little parking lot across the street was mostly filled up with employee's cars.  Only years later did I get a key to the "private" parking lot on the N side of the building.  I think I still have it, too.

[AlwaysOpen]

I went to college in NYC in the mid 70's, from rural upstate- so to say there was a culture shock would be an understatement. And not the gay aspect- I had been taking dick for about 4 years at that point- but the endless buffet of places to get sex was a big change.Times Square was still a porn haven, bookstores and glory holes  and actual gay movie theaters ( Adonis was always my favorite tho)  And one day in the college library, I was reading the Village Voice weekly, and read about some performer who had performed at the Continental Baths, a gay place up on the edge of Harlem. I likely was hard as a rock reading about the place, but still,  I had those lingering adolescent fears- would I know what to do there, would I stand out like a sore thumb, would anyone even be interested. 

Finally one Friday night I had built up enough courage and made my way to the Continental. I definitely felt out of place as the train went further towards Harlem and once on the street, I really felt like I " wasn't in Kansas anymore Toto". A bit of a walk, and I arrived at the Continental. Some guy at the window questioned me and asked if I knew this was a bathhouse, a GAY bathhouse. I told him I had read about it in the Voice, and wanted to check it out. After he semi explained the cost and the deal, I had my room key and a towel and directions to the room. It was pretty dark in the hallway to my room, just a bit off the showers and the wet area, and a lot of guys hanging around and dealing. I went in the room and closed the door, stripped and put the towel on  and stepped out. The pool area was also where a stage was if memory serves me- and I was a little surprised to see M/F couples sitting at tables there. I went back to the room,passing the gauntlet of guys pushing weed ( I think that was all they were offering, but again, naive rural boy me) . I sat in there for 5 minutes, then dressed and headed upstairs to leave. The guy at the counter looked up as I approached, chuckled, and said "yeah, I didn't think you would last very long. This isn't your type of club, where you need to be is at the Club Baths down on Houston St"-  and then he handed me back my ID and money, and gave me directions as to which subway lines I needed to get there. I actually did go directly there, and while I do not remember the various encounters of that 1st night; it was my launching ground for many,many nights there and at tubs in cities around the world since.

[Pumpinmyhole]

1 hour ago, NWUSHorny said:

If you get a layover in Portland, I live on the Vancouver side of the river, send me a PM if I'm in town I will probably desperate to hookup with someone who actually likes to fuck.

Awesome, will do

[reliableslut]

Honestly, I’m such a slut, I don’t remember my first time at the bathhouse lol.  I do group sex on a weekly basis hahaha

[Nagato20]

Yeah sure freaking did. Went when I was 18 on a wim one Friday night I even got the student discount. There was lots of people all over the place and at first it was just like being in a gym locker room some guys walking around with towels some without. The fun part began as soon as I got to the jacuzzi. Got approached by a tall muscular black guy. He sat next to me and started chatting me up. Took my hand and placed it on his dick. I groped it and started to stroke him. Few min later he was balls deep inside me. He pounded my ass in a couple positions and came inside me while i rode him. We chilled for a little after and I went on to explore the next area. Found my self in a dark maze area where there was a swing in the middle of the make with a walk way above it. A white lean twink was in the sing and three white man of various ages were taking turns fucking him. They were nice enough to let me join them and we fucked the twink. Two of the guys came in him and then I took over fucking their cum inside him before I added my own. A little after the maze there were private rooms most of which had the doors open and u could see guys fucking inside which was hot as fuckkkk. While walking past a room the guy from inside called out and asked me if I want my ass fucked ? I gave him a nod he laid on his back with his boner against his abs so I walked in he lubed his dick up and I straddled him and rode him deep. He flipped me over on my back and Baganda to breed hard as he was getting close to cumming. Told him to make sure he came inside me. He knocked my teen ass up and told me to get out. I got out and went to the steam room to relax. It was really hot in there and the air smelled like Vix. I found a nice little corner to chill. Two guys walked by one of which made me suck his dick while the other one watched and jerked off. He shot his load on my abs which I was pissed about and had to scoop it up and eat it up so it doesn’t go to waste. A fit Latino guy came around and sat across from me. I kept checking him out and then went by him and grabbed his dick. He said he only looking to swap loads otherwise I should move on. We ended up taking turns using each other throats then asses. He fucked real doings and came a whole lot. By then it had been a few hours so I decided to head out and go get some food. Ran into a slim muscular blk guy around my age at the locker rooms and I just had to take his load he was more than willing to provide me with a rough deep fuck to end my night with. We walked out together and called it a night by then it was around 4 am.

[NWUSHorny]

@PigBoyDallas I had a lot of fun when I lived in Dallas back in the 90's never actually went into the baths, but just about everything else. I knew where both baths were, but never actually went in. I used to flip fuck on the SMU campus tearooms with a guy that did quite a bit of porn as a bottom in the early 2000's. I also had a regular bottom fuck buddy, 2nd guy I ever bred, that worked in the food court at the long gone Prestonwood mall, I'm pretty sure he violated a few health codes with me.

@hntnhole I was in Chicago frequently in the early 90's but sadly never went to the baths. I did have a lot of gay sex in parks and tearooms. So many missed opportunities.

[PendragonSpirit]

Absolutely I did. I was a little worried at first, it was pretty dead - aside from the clerk, I was the only one there for a few hours, so I mostly just chatted with him and explored the place. Eventually a couple of other guys came in, and the three of us almost immediately made a fuck pile. We went at it for about an hour, both of them taking turns switching between my holes. Eventually one of them shot deep into me with the other's encouragement, and he collapsed on top of me. At one point, I had clocked his wedding ring but didn't really process it, until he said "Well, happy birthday to me.. guess I should get home to the wife." As he was getting his stuff together, the second guy had slid up into me and hammered for about 30 seconds before he also unloaded into my guts. After they both left, I wandered around for another hour or so, took a shower, but nobody else showed up. Eventually I left.

[NWUSHorny]

@AlwaysOpen sounds like you too were already a pig on your 1st visit! I envy guys who came of age and had so much fun before the AIDS crisis.

@reliableslut there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, the only bad sluts are the ones with too many inhibitions.

@Nagato20 your 1st experience was awesome too. I just wish I could have done something to help the 25 year old this weekend. If that was his 1st visit he has no idea what potential there is in other cities.

@PendragonSpirit I have seen the advice that going during a slow time for your 1st visit is a good idea, I don't really think that is good advice for the majority of the guys that have commented on this thread. On the other hand in my current city the opportunity to fuck doesn't change much no matter how many guys are there, 3 way fuck piles are very rare and adding a 4th or 5th is almost completely beyond them.