Openly masturbating

[BBSMKR]

I was just curious, but those with partners, do you openly masturbate while your partner is at home when they are not? I’m not in a relationship, but being highly sexed I’d like to think I could masturbate when ever I wanted when not having sex with them.

[Omnivac]

That's complicated. I mean we gays like other men so both parts of the couple know the need of a man to jerk off no matter how much sex he has.. yet i think I wouldn't be open about it. It's not a thing of being clear or anything but maybe it should be kept for one's self.

[BBSMKR]

2 hours ago, Omnivac said:

That's complicated. I mean we gays like other men so both parts of the couple know the need of a man to jerk off no matter how much sex he has.. yet i think I wouldn't be open about it. It's not a thing of being clear or anything but maybe it should be kept for one's self.

I think you’ll be right for the majority, plus I think no matter what sexuality we are, we are conditioned that masturbation is something done in private. However being man to man and therefore having that understanding and needs that are not experienced in a hetro relationship I was curious if it was less ‘private’.

[DarkroomTaker]

Tbh, I like to wank or fiddle anywhere. I note that I always seem to have my hand in my pants touching my Willywombatt all the time.

If I was home with a partner, yeah, id be wanking, after a while id probably say to him, here suck this for a bit. I have no issues or guards.

[Bimarried001]

I’m married to a woman and not in a gay relationship. I have always jerked sometimes when she’s home and sometimes when she’s away. Have not been sexually active in some time now (I share her with other men so they fuck her) so now I jerk off even more when she’s home. 

[hntnhole]

While he was still alive, if he started to jerk his Cock I jumped his bones then and there (at home).  When he noticed my Cock getting hard in my pants, he hit his knees in an eyeblink. I don't think either of us ever jacked off privately .... often, even while in the office, that mischievous little smile would surface, and that was all it took.

[Bokkierob]

Yeah, I strip off and openly masturbate in front of my boy, Drew. He likes to watch. He might volunteer to suck me off but I love it when he gets between my legs and licks and sucks on my balls as I'm stroking my meat until I finish on his face. 

[Bibttmmiami]

I have no problem masturbating in front of my wife. I like when she watches. Same with any male lovers. 

[tallslenderguy]

Great topic!

To me, one of the distinctions of an intimate relationship is the deeper, more open connections and bonds that can be had. i'd want my partner to feel free to express His desire/need whenever it was there. In that kind of relationship, i see masturbation as foreplay. I.e., once i see my partner aroused, it stimulates my desire/need for Him. i want to be a part of His pleasure and receive that part of Him into myself, so Him masturbating would be something akin to 'Master' 'bating' me.  To me, it's sort of like groping, except He is groping Himself, but in a sense, He is sorta groping me when He touches Himself, because He and His pleasure are a pleasure center for me.  my response  to the 'signal' would likely be to go to my knees at the very least, or present my hole for breeding.

[MuscledHorse]

We have not only openly masturbated while the other is at home, we have engaged in solo toy play. Part f this is due to him being a morning person and me being a night person and part of it is because we both enjoy big stuff up our asses, though he is not as hypersexual as I am. We are so sexually comfortable, he has been the camera guy on some of my porn scenes. I couldn't ask for a better partner.

[hntnhole]

10 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

To me, one of the distinctions of an intimate relationship is the deeper, more open connections and bonds that can be had

As you are so very well aware, we are of one mind about this.  It's one thing to go hit the backrooms/fuckjoints, and occasionally share something akin to The Connection you describe so beautifully.  It's a whole 'nother kettle of fish to be fortunate enough to live it on a daily basis.  It's apples vs oranges - tartare vs canned tuna - mating vs fucking. 

I'd gladly give every damn thing I own to see that mischievious little smile one more time .... 

[downtownswallow]

I jack off to feel good and reduce stress.  I've also masturbated while driving a distance that affords me time to edge for several hundred miles.  Usually. I have some extra McDonald's napkins picked up prior to unzipping.

[ErosWired]

I think men’s take on this who are in relationships may be somewhat dependent on the emotional stability within the relationship. I can see a potential issue arising between some partners in which one partner masturbating causes the other to question whether the masturbating partner is dissatisfied with the partner, or their sex together, or not getting something that he needs. Not as likely to happen in strong, stable relationships, but I can see in where there might be some insecurity.