Small dick

[Liverpool]

My dick is smaller than average. It’s not like a micropenis, in fact it can look quite big at times when I’m hard but I’ve only fucked with a handful of guys with a smaller dick than mine. I love having a small dick. As a bottom I feel like it puts me in my place. Bottoms, if you have a small dick do you like it? And tops, do you like bottoms with a small dick?

[Pigforcum]

I have a small dick and wish mine was bigger lol

[tallslenderguy]

i don't have a particularly small penis, but i do not think or feel like i have a "cock" or "dick."  

Nah, i'm not delusional. i know i have a penis betwixt my legs, but for me the feelings, and subsequent thoughts i have about my physical attributes are inextricably  part of my psychosexual wiring (and from what i read of other bottoms, i think this is true about a lot of us on the far end of the sexual spectrum). 

For me a cock/dick is about penetrating, fucking, breeding. It's a part of a Man that He uses to connect both physical and psychological needs/desires. i'm wired to receive those needs/desires as a corresponding natural cock/dick receiver.  i encounter some Tops who understand this, and some who do not. Some guys (Top, bottom or versatile, and everywhere in between), do not go beyond their own wiring when it comes to understanding.

We may not be able to relate to someone who is not like us, but we can understand. i think those who work to understand end up having the better connections and sex life because the more we understand the type person we need/want, the more likely we are to have solid, deep experiences/connections/relationships. A  certain kind of Top, one at the opposite far end of the spectrum from me, may not relate to my not having a cock/dick, but a part of Him desires that in a bottom. When He sees and understands that, He looks for a bottom who meets His desire/need. 

i've encountered all sorts of expressions of that from different Tops.  One Man i've been with had a strong drive to internalize my penis. Literally. He wanted to push it into my pelvic cavity and make it look like a pussy. He even got me some devices that some trans people wear to tuck their penis and testicles.  Other Tops  do not acknowledge it at all, while others still, love to use it to 'frustrate' any use of my penis for sexual release and use that stimulation to  focus my sexual energy. 

lol. those are some thoughts on "small dick" in a holistic vs just physical sense. 

[Badbunny]

For me its different ima bottom with a 10 inch cock ...like why did i get this and not use it right? Lol

[hntnhole]

7 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i don't have a particularly small penis, but i do not think or feel like i have a "cock" or "dick."

As you know, there are numerous ways to use language to convey something subliminal.  The word 'penis' does have a somewhat percussive consonant at the beginning of the pronunciation, but not at the end - making it's pronunciation less - oh - Powerful?   

Both "Cock" and "Dick" have percussive consonants at the beginning and end of the one-syllable word, and each end with "K" - not voiced - only percussive - and one of the most expressive of the voiced consonants.  Advanced vocal musicians, for example, well-know how to handle these in a performance, and bend them to their expressive intentions. What a lot of non-advanced vocalists don't know though, is the Power that can be bought to bear merely through intentional use of things like language, pronunciation, etc.  The phrase "suck my penis" is almost never heard in the fuckjoints - at least I never have.  But "suck my CocK", said in a determined, (even if quietly) way can convey  what it's intended to convey, and somewhat forcefully.  Advanced use of letter-placement is the reason a listener can understand every word clearly in - for instance - the opening chorus of Handel's Messiah*. It's also the reason anyone can understand clearly the text of anything conducted by Robert Shaw.  

Precise placement within the phrase, slight emphasis on one thing instead of the other can work wonders, and they don't even consciously know you're doing it. The message however,  is received subliminally, loud and clear.  

8 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

For me a cock/dick is about penetrating, fucking, breeding.

and thus expressing it's Dominance, however subtly.  

8 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

do not go beyond their own wiring when it comes to understanding

which is lamentable, and entirely avoidable.  I don't know of a way to bring a sub to a sweaty, writhing, fantastic conclusion if I haven't bothered to figure out how to make it happen in the first place.  Every guy has to learn to use his innate gifts to best advantage for both the T and the b, if he aspires to become the best man he can be.  

8 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i think those who work to understand end up having the better connections and sex life because the more we understand the type person we need/want, the more likely we are to have solid, deep experiences/connections/relationships

Perfectly said.  Splendid boy !!! 

*example chosen for it's almost universal familiarity

[VersGuyAnon]

11 hours ago, Liverpool said:

My dick is smaller than average. It’s not like a micropenis, in fact it can look quite big at times when I’m hard but I’ve only fucked with a handful of guys with a smaller dick than mine. I love having a small dick. As a bottom I feel like it puts me in my place. Bottoms, if you have a small dick do you like it? And tops, do you like bottoms with a small dick?

It depends what you call small. Mine is c. 6 inches, which is officially average. For years I kept topping, because guys seemed to like me fucking them. I guess because I've been around a while, I have a technique guys like. I've now decided to only top as a last resort. I really want to get back to bottoming 100%. I do know that guys with smaller cocks who have less experience topping can actually hurt more than guys with massive cocks. They can be "jabbers", which can really hurt.

As a bottom roaming around the sauna on a naked day, I'm not at all embarrassed/worried about having a smaller cock. I just want the cocks and, to be honest, bigger cocks at that. 

[hntnhole]

There's another aspect that might be addressed:  Some guys seldom get fucked, don't particularly care for it, but will allow a Cock up their gut when the connection is right, and the other guy really wants to.  These guys wouldn't want a "PornCock" ripping their guts apart - that would be counterproductive to the whole exchange.  They'd only allow a modestly-proportioned Cock, and only in certain circumstances.  The pleasure would not be in getting fucked - it would be in accommodating the Lusts of another man that is respected, and has respected and accommodated your own.  

[Sqwert]

Small cocks are hot, too

 

 

[BBButtSlut]

Mine’s average when hard, maybe a little thicker than average, I don’t like getting hard around other guys though for exactly the reasons you guys are talking about. I love being limp and small when I’m getting fucked. I had this one friend who was almost ten inches and it felt so romantic when when he’d be hard and put his dick next to mine and tell me how cute I was all soft and small and how much he liked that I look like a man but sexually I was a total pussy. I loved it. Just ignore that it’s even there and let me be the vagina.

[Guest]

I love sucking a small cock, especially if it's limp.

 

[ConversionPerv]

I have a small dick. Like, really small. For years I pretended it wasn't an issue and thought of myself as a top. I was denying that what I was actually attracted to was a man with a bigger penis than mine. As a consequence, my sex life was frustrating, even if I was sleeping with a fair share of men.

 

This continued until one night when I picked up a hot guy at a bar and took him home. He wanted to blow me while I was standing. I dropped my pants and he kneeled down and got to work on me. A few minutes in and he suddenly got up and said he had to go. He didn't say why, but I knew he was disappointed in what I had to offer, and he wanted to head back to the bars and continue his search before it got too late.

After this experience, I gave up on thinking of myself as a top man and started the process of acknowledging that what I really was was a small dicked bottom.

[hntnhole]

10 minutes ago, ConversionPerv said:

After this experience, I gave up on thinking of myself as a top man and started the process of acknowledging that what I really was was a small dicked bottom.

Are you implying that one guy, one pick-up at a bar, could impact your self-identification so heavily?  If you think of yourself as a Topman, then that's what you are.  More, the skills you learn and share as a Top are what make you a hot fuck - not just the measurements of your Cock.  If, on the other hand, you have arrived at the inner realization that you actually are a bottom, then more power to you.  The key is the self-realization, not what some trick in a bar might think ... maybe.  You can be whoever you decide to be - Top, bottom, switch, whatever.  It's all good.  

There are, for that matter, plenty of guys that will only consider bending over for a modestly-sized Cock.  

Good luck !!

[Heir2012]

As already stated, guys need to figure out what "average" is. Porn tells us that average is 8 inches, which is wrong. Most stories on BZ only tell stories about huge dicks as being normal because it's what everyone wants to have or see. Sex education tells us that average is 6 inches, which most guys are told but don't believe. Medically, the average penis is 5.16 inches. Google it. For many guys, you may think your penis is small, but it isn't. Then again, it's all up to your perception. Your dick could be 7 inches, but, in your mind, you think it's small. You decide for you what is big or small. Your partner can also help with this as they look at your 6 inch dick and say "it's a monster!"

I know this doesn't answer your question exactly, but there it is.

Guys, go easy on yourselves and your dick size. You can't control it. Guys with huge dicks didn't earn their size by being good at fucking. It's just genetics. 

[Guest]

My dick is pretty small (10cm/3.8") and I love it! Sometimes I wish it was smaller x3 I love how small dicks look and feel, and they're definitely more fun to suck as you don't have to worry about your gag reflex. Big cocks are sexy too, but I don't want one on me, just in me 🙂

[NWUSHorny]

I can't relate to having a small dick, since I'm probably slightly above average even by porn standards, but as a versatile guy I strongly encourage smaller guys to top as well as bottom if they have any interest in it. I also encourage you not to only top guys who are smaller than you, a lot of guys with larger endowments are desperate to get fucked, and if you find a fully versatile one will be more than happy to return the favor. Also in group situations, if you don't have versatile guys the action usually dies out pretty quickly, so if there are several versatile guys in a group everyone is going to be more satisfied with the amount of hole and/or poke they get.