Can A Guy’s Voice Turn You Off?

[BlackDude]

So I  went to this Cumdump I was excited to go to, especially after all this C19, MP, flu etc….

So as I got there and started to get undress, the guys friend who was the host I guess started talking. No lie, his voice sounded like the late Gilbert Godfrey. If he did drag. Completely killed my vibe.

Can a guys voice actually be a turn-off? Or maybe I was just psychologically looking for a reason to tap out. Thoughts? 

Edited February 20, 2023 by BlackDude

[viking8x6]

It surely can in my book. Hasn't happened recently, but I can definitely recall finding a voice off-putting. Or, on the other hand, very sexy.

[PissGuzzlerLA]

Absolutely!  I'm a total sub, but if someone is a Dom and they sound like a purse is going to come flying out of their mouth, it's going to be a no for me. I'm well aware that a man can be very fem and Dom, but it's not a combination I can submit to. In a world where that attitude is increasingly considered intolerant, I think there's still plenty of room for those of us who value masculinity and a true manly ALPHA.

[badjujuboy]

Definitely… I was at a club and saw this hot guy talking to a friend of mine. I asked him about the guy… he smiled and asked if I wanted to meet him. I said of course and he took me up to him and introduced us. I heard his squeaky voice and did my best to to not have my jaw drop completely open. I turned around to my friend after,  only to see him laughing at my reaction. Needless to say… that was it for me …though we sometimes hung around in the same circles.

Edited February 20, 2023 by badjujuboy

[Theo8]

let's just say there are times I'm glad that I'm partially deaf LOL

[ejaculaTe]

In a word, "yes." 

Disappointment was my reaction when at the Woods campground in northeastern Pennsylvania, I overheard two hot guys in leather discuss china patterns in voices that really didn't match the visuals.

[ErosWired]

I am always put off by men who go out of their way to sound gay, to exaggerate the effect, to apply the vocal equivalent of a limp wrist, or to address everyone as bitch, girl, or sister. That’s not so much a question of tonal quality as affect, although I believe there may be a subtle tonal quality that distinguishes homosexual voices - I can very frequently hear it.

[PozTalkAuthor]

Yes, it happened! With a guy, and also with a girl. Especially when you hear those laughters, the same you hear on the tv when the guy/girl want to get all attentions on themselves. I'm not the kind of man who says "fuck, and don't talk"; so, if it was the case, I just stepped away with an excuse or the other. 

Now the problem does not exist as I'm intimate with just one guy but if we ever open our couple, I'd be very curious to know what he thinks. We'll discuss this matter of voices today - we have actually a co-worker like this, her laughter seems a horny hen! And honestly it's a positive thing to have her around as she avoids me to be forever horny and fuck my guy on the office's desk! LOL! 

[Kayne]

Oh my Fuckin God! Yes. He could be everything I want visually. and Fuck it up with his voice.  by the same token, I'd go insane for a guy I wasnt otherwise attracted to from his voice alone. Its why I outgrew phone sex. 

[PushMePullYou]

It doesn't put me off enough to not fuck him. What bugs me more is when a guy gets verbal and sounds like an outtake from a bad porn film. When i hear things like,  "Please butter my bread" or "Yeah, I want daddy to make a milk delivery" - I wish I had a ball gag handy. 

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

Yes. Usually it is people exaggerating their voice (I hope). Trying to sound more masculine or trying to sound feminine, usually to match some outward persona. It definitely does not make my clothes fall off.

[Guest]

As it could be a turn off, it could be a turn on too.

Deep voice front of the line 😙

[BlindRawFucker1]

Since I can’t see, a voice is my first introduction to a guy.

 

As has been said above, exaggerated girly voices are a turn off.  If that is their actual voice, it is more acceptable to me.

 

However, some voices totally flip all of my switches, just with only a few words. Throw in an accent, and let’s strip as quickly as possible.

 

Unfortunately, voices won’t tell me his weight, or whether he has body and facial hair, which I don’t want.

[topblkmale]

If a guy 'sounds gay' I move on. Sorry. (not sorry)

 

Alot of it is an exaggeration and dramatization of a gay male stereotype.

[ellentonboy]

yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.   When I hear what sounds like an s at the end of a word or sentence it is time to move on......