Sex Drive with Age

[hntnhole]

To the O.P., I guess I'm in "advanced middle age" now, and I don't think there's been any advancement or diminution in my need to Breed - at least that I can discern.  I've always been fairly strict with myself on all levels - not just the sexual plane - to make sure I don't allow any one behavior to overstep the bounds I want to keep.  I like balance in my life, and I've learned many years ago how to make that happen.  

As to the sexual quotient, I almost always go out on Fri & Sat nights (the only times I don't is when I'm on "medical leave", getting over some bug). I go out for sex seldom (but occasionally) during the week, and I find that by mid-week my Cock is beginning to take on a mind of it's own, sort of like an independently-minded pet dog.  I notice men even more than usual, and since I'm generally commando, so does my Cock, which embarrasses me not one bit.  I like men to cruise my Cock. 

But to the issue at hand, I think that when we've established a pattern of exercising our Lusts regularly - whether it be weekly, daily, monthly - over the decades our bodies naturally get a little bitchy when we don't fulfill those expectations.  I seldom find myself too horny on Sundays, for example, having spent the previous 2 nights in the fleshpots.  By Tues, my balls seem to be waking up, and by Wed into Thurs, my Lusts are ready to be exercised again.  I wouldn't mind finding a gh joint somewhere around here though, just for "quickies". There used to be a bar close by (Cubby Hole) where you could get some lunch (nothing fancy - no waitpersons - order at the bar/eat at the bar, with "dessert" around the back corner of the bar or in the john), which was very handy.  Sadly, the whole block fell to the designs of Urban Renewal, and now the neighborhood is full of mid-rise condos with women pushing baby carriages all over the place.  

I will admit that the volume of Sperm is less than it used to be - but there's still enough that the bottom can feel it - and that's all I really care.  I can still hit the wall over the headboard, but there's not as much as there used to be years ago.  But that's not the point, which is, I'm still doing what I need to do, and on the schedule I established years ago.  So I'll keep to my schedule as long as I possibly can, and one day they'll start calling me Grandpa !!! 😁

[J-raw]

I'm 41 with a still strong sex drive, but I have noticed since getting Covid that my sperm count is much lower and thick that it used to be. Met a guy in his early 30s, and he was having a hard time staying hard since he got Covid. Covid is still so fresh that the research isn't there but after doing some searches online I saw similar issues and also that a lot of guys were testing positive for Herpes with no symptoms except that they had had Covid.

[PozBearWI]

@J-raw Interesting.  I've managed to not get Covid.  I am not fearful of it; but I note who around me comes down with it and act accordingly. 

It is not uncommon for ED symptoms to begin with some in their 40's.  Sometimes due to medications prescribed and taken.  And indeed, the SARS-cov19 virus is both still evolving and being studied now that there is more data to consider.  Further libido often drops off as family and professional demands stress ones bandwidth.  So there are plenty of potential causal opportunities.  

Herpes still goes around.  Certainly never stops anyone from even asking me who has had HSV for decades.  I will mention it if I have an outbreak, but as I control HSV with anti virals as it is an uncomfortable and irritating event (for me anyway).  Herpes however is profoundly easy to pass on.  And most of the time one won't feel a thing until the first outbreak; which is typically many  weeks or months later.  

[tallslenderguy]

On 10/20/2023 at 5:27 AM, verslut said:

I'm 30 with the sex drive of a teen. I'm very thirsty and can cum multiple times a day. I stay in shape so I can remain this way as long as possible.

Speculating, i'd bet You have a better, more detailed sex drive now than You did as a teen, that with practice, You've built up neuro pathways that enhance Your sex drive beyond the fuel of testosterone. 🙂❤️ 

[barefucker44]

On 10/20/2023 at 8:45 AM, pigbro said:

My sex drive went into overdrive after joining the brotherhood. For a good while I was making up for lost time. However it does become a little more of an effort to get in the mood to go out to places like I once did. I'll happily be the cumdump, but as for my load, it has to be worth it

I can relate to that.  Since my joining the brotherhood, my sex drive has increased a lot.  I top on average 2 -3 times a week.  Sometimes a lot more, sometimes less.  But need to play daily for sure.

[barefucker44]

4 minutes ago, barefucker44 said:

I can relate to that.  Since my joining the brotherhood, my sex drive has increased a lot.  I top on average 2 -3 times a week.  Sometimes a lot more, sometimes less.  But need to play daily for sure.

I wind up jackin a hell of a lot also

[DBan]

I'm 68 and still horny as can be. I can't cum by jacking off like I used to, and it takes a lot longer when I do. As a bottom, age has no effect on me, except finding as many tops as I used to.

[NWUSHorny]

On 10/20/2023 at 5:27 AM, verslut said:

I'm 30 with the sex drive of a teen. I'm very thirsty and can cum multiple times a day. I stay in shape so I can remain this way as long as possible.

My peak years for acting on my sex drive were in my 30's. My sex drive hasn't diminished, I moved from a city where I could almost always find a willing partner if I had a free hour to one where I couldn't at 38. After spending 16 years here, the availability of casual sex will be a factor in where I decide to move next.

[ktopper]

On 10/20/2023 at 1:02 PM, fuckholedc said:

A now vanished twink magazine from the 80's had an article that said that the height of a Gay males sex drive was in their late 30's - this was from a poll that they took with a fairly large population as well as from sex studies from the period (although the sex studies were from males in general rather than just Gay males).

This describes me. I always had a strong sex drive but it went into overdrive in my late 30s and early 40s. I seemed to constantly have a hard-on and could fuck several times a day if I had a chance. I would go to an ABS after work and almost always scored some ass. I also like to suck dick and swallowed a lot of cum back then. I know there is probably no scientific basis to this but it almost seemed like the more cum I swallowed the more gay I became. I was exclusively a top by that time but I also loved sucking dick.

[btmdad]

I have a stronger sex drive at 67 than ever.  I can take all cocks as a bottom which I prefer.  When I do top  I cum a lot.  And I do mean alot.  More often than not when a guy sucks me off,  he can't take all of the cum orally.   I only wish I could find guys that could keep up with me. 

[atlfukbud]

Mid 50s here -- on TRT and daily Cialis -- I want sex daily, crave it -- as much as always, but assume that will fall off in the next decade. My bf and hubby are thrilled with sex once a week, and I have friends that say they only breed a couple of times a year after 50. Sad, but we shall see!