TownTravellerMan Posted 14 hours ago Report Posted 14 hours ago 1 hour ago, Twinktabu said: It disappoints me how verse are treated in the hookup scene (at least where im at). Viewed as undesirable, not being good at what they do, or are disguised and are actually bottoms. Now if its guys who are lying about being verse then, yeah, thats gonna be a bad experience. However, guys who are true verse are damn good at being both a top or bottom depending on who the role they take. This extends to to verse bottoms and verse tops. Personally, I have to disguise myself as a bottom or a top on hookup accounts to get more of a shot at an actual hookup. There are too many bottoms around my area, so to hookup with any I have to just say that im all top. And for tops who see verse they say that they dont bottom and ignore the rest of the convo. So I have say im all top or all bottom. Im good at both because i have to be (I top more often than I bottom) but it's frustrating that theres just a section that's ignored or treated with badly because they aren't all one way or the other. I feel its a misunderstanding of what being any kind of verse actually is. Ah so basically instead of being seen as jack of all trades verse guys are seen as master of none. I have heard sayings that guys who are verse are really just bottoms in disguise. There is probably a lot of truth in that but I don't think it's everyone. Definitely in my experience guys who say they are verse or pretty great at both roles. Being verse in itself is interesting because sometimes you might either crave more fucking or getting fucked but that might be depending on the person. For me personally it depends on who I'm with that can kinda determine the mood or swing of what position I and the other guy will be in. There's probably a lot more that needs to be said about social apps/websites and guys on them in general. But having to disguise yourself as a bottom or top is absolutely crazy. I believe on of mine I say verse/bottom but it's definitely more even verse now. The only bottom aspect is in the demeanor I have with guys who are more Dom but that's obviously not every guy. The position aspect though is versatile. I'm not judging you for having to do that though. Thinking back more I think guys did this often and maybe even myself included but not sure if I did it that frequently. I have seen guys online though both tops and bottoms who will basically have nothing to do with you if you are verse. But i'm not necessarily sure they would give you that much more time of the day if the profile was changed. But again I think that's just more how guys act online which is a completely separate discussion. I do feel that overall the guys I've had sex with and the more honest and open I've been about either being verse, uninhibited and more open about what I do seems to lead either to more repeats or just fun experiences overall. That even includes meeting guys at public places stating I'm verse or they are has generally led to more fun. But like you said it could completely depend on the area or city you are in. I do hope that either something changes with the city or area you are in or the guys on the websites/apps (that last part probably won't happen though) where you can be honest about verse and it not impacting you in a negative way. Quote
BruxoCub Posted 12 hours ago Report Posted 12 hours ago I've had some decent times with total tops and bottoms, but the BEST guys I've ever topped or bottomed for were VERS. Sometimes people develop a preference to one side or the other (and it can change throughout life), but ultimately guys who are free to explore and be explored who know what it feels like on either end and are open to doing many sexual activities are the most fun to engage with personally. Also I'm VERS 😉 1 1 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted 12 hours ago Report Posted 12 hours ago Versatility is and has long been a turn on for me. The best and most active groups and orgies I've ever been to had to have had at least half of the guys switching positions at will. My experience is group scenes don't really work all that well if most of the players are exclusively too or bottom. If I'm at an active orgy and get ready to leave, I will almost always start fucking versatile guys who I've already both fucked and been fucked by and offer my last load to the 1st that is willing to return the favor and plant one of theirs in me. I never leave until things are already almost wound completely down, so I don't think I've ever had to go to the 3rd flip fucker before finding a pig to trade loads with, and typically we are both already full of cum Also if you want to become a regular fuckbud, you, you have to be at least somewhat versatile, I've convinced a lot of tops to let me fuck them occasionally if they get to pound my hole on a regular basis, but am not sure I've ever flipped a committed bottom. Quote
Hungryforbbc Posted 9 hours ago Report Posted 9 hours ago As I’ve come into my total bottom phase I am less and less interested in versatile guys and really only want to get bred by guys who are exclusive tops - even better and truly my preference if they have never bottomed. I’ve always liked the straight and thuggish type and the thought of the guy who’s on my back spreading his legs and being someone else’s bitch is a total turn off for me Quote
Sfmike64 Posted 8 hours ago Report Posted 8 hours ago I've always been a switch. When I was in my early 20s I was mostly a top (the person who broke me in was not gentle and I did not like getting fucked for a long time). Then later on I was more of a bottom (when I was doing drugs) but I still topped when I could get hard. Now I'm back to topping because I'm a Daddy now and covered in gray hair. Men (especially younger men) see me and want daddy to breed them. Who am I to say no to a sexy boy with a big ass who wants daddy's cock? My point is that things have changed for me, depending on the point in my life. But it's all good. Quote
onlyraw Posted 7 hours ago Report Posted 7 hours ago These days I am mostly a top … but started off as a bottom… and was kind of vers in between…. if I were going to bottom again… I think I would want it by a vers guy Long time ago I was at a party… guy comes up and starts playing… next thing I’m on my back getting fucked - he gave a REALLY good fuck … and guys were standing around watching…. He blows his load into my ass and as soon as he pulls out another guy is fucking me … and the guy who just fucked me just rolls over so he is on his back right next to me and grabs his ankles and lifts and spreads his legs and in seconds he is getting fucked too. …. Kind of blew my mind at first …. But it was really hot… he just lay there next to me as we both took several loads. And fantasy of mine would now be at a party and watch a guy getting fucked by a guy or two … and then have him come over, push me down on the bed, grab my ankles and lift my legs up and start fucking me … so hot knowing cum was running down his legs while he was pumping his load into me … 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted 6 hours ago Report Posted 6 hours ago 39 minutes ago, onlyraw said: And fantasy of mine would now be at a party and watch a guy getting fucked by a guy or two … and then have him come over, push me down on the bed, grab my ankles and lift my legs up and start fucking me … so hot knowing cum was running down his legs while he was pumping his load into me … How would you feel about a verse guy getting bred lifting your legs up then lubing you up with fresh cum from his hole? It is one of my favorite kinks to do, and most verse guys I've tried it with were into it too. 1 Quote
Trashyfagboi92 Posted 3 hours ago Report Posted 3 hours ago On 8/6/2011 at 12:14 PM, eurotopnyc said: Curious about how others feel about this. I know that for many guys versatility is a turn-on, and it certainly makes for more variety of configurations. However, for whatever reason, versatility is a turn-off for me. I'm really turned on by total bottoms, and when I chat with someone online I always find myself making sure that both of us expect a situation with purely opposite roles. I don't even care if the bottom boy gets hard or cum, as long as he totally and unambiguously loves getting fucked and I see that in his face with every stroke. I'm not into pain or sadism or anything like that - I just want hungry slut bottoms who love cock and dare show it. Which brings me to my question: Am I atypical in feeling this way? Are you more turned on by versatility or by contrasts? Interested in hearing from both sides. Omg thank you guys always get mad at me for being a total bttm but it’s like where im comfortable what I feel I’m best at . It’s in my nature idk Quote
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