Burn out from sex???

[Guest]

Has anyone else felt burnt out from a lot of sex? The past 3 months have been a sex-fueled adventure with men, women, and MTF's. But the past week, I have no desire to have sex. Had a hookup yesterday, and just wasn't into it. I almost feel like my body is telling me I need a break.

[hungry_hole]

1 hour ago, WillingRawVerse said:

I almost feel like my body is telling me I need a break.

I've been exhausted from having sex, not sleeping well at the sauna, having 5 guys a day dropping a load, getting ready, all that eventually makes you stop.

[BootmanLA]

1 hour ago, WillingRawVerse said:

Has anyone else felt burnt out from a lot of sex? The past 3 months have been a sex-fueled adventure with men, women, and MTF's. But the past week, I have no desire to have sex. Had a hookup yesterday, and just wasn't into it. I almost feel like my body is telling me I need a break.

Can't say that I have, if only because I've never had a ton of sex crammed into a short period.

But regardless: if you aren't feeling it, don't feel like you need to do it. Your body may well be trying to tell you something, or it might be part of your brain telling you that you need a break for mental health reasons. 

[ktopper]

I haven't. But then my circumstances being what they are I have never really been lucky enough to burn out on it. I have had GFs, new relationships, where we would have sex several times a day and then fuck ourselves asleep at night. Women are like bottoms, you can't outfuck them. Bottoms are more fun though. A younger and much hornier me used to get a craving for guys and hook up several nights in a row but it was usually a one and done (not always) for the night. Not near the sheer quantity of sex that I would have with women. Quality now, that's another story, there is just something so satisfying about gay sex that is lacking with women. 

[Luxbrit]

Absolutely I feel this.

I salute the bottoms and tops who really being going all out 24/7 it’s a skill for sure.

I can go weeks where I’m pretty full on, but then i can also go weeks where I have no sex at all and that’s okay.

 

[VersGuyAnon]

I've taken the last month off from going to the sauna, for that very reason. It was becoming an obsession, going every week for as many cocks and as much cum as I could get. I wasn't enjoying it anywhere near as much as I used to, so I did other stuff on a weekend instead. I'm back there today and really looking forward to being a cumdump again. Fingers crossed!  

[fuckyouraw777]

When I was younger, not that I'm that "old" now, I wanted sex 24/7; up until about 35 or so I guess. Now I'm closer to 50, I'm happy with what I can get where I am...and there's not much chance of burning out on sex or any kind of entertainment at all at the moment.

[Spunkinmyarse]

Yes, this often happens to me. I tend to go through periods where I binge on sex, often on some kind of trip or sexcation, where I can devote myself 100 percent to the task in hand. But afterwards I usually lose all interest for a while, and take that opportunity to get tested, treated and all that crap. I actually quite enjoy my breaks from sex: they allow me to get on with other things in life, and re-connect with myself in different ways.

But slowly and surely, the urge to play comes back just as strong as before, and I begin the cycle all over again.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

Yes, this often happens to me. I tend to go through periods where I binge on sex, often on some kind of trip or sexcation, where I can devote myself 100 percent to the task at hand. But afterward, I usually lose all interest for a while, and take that opportunity to get tested, treated, and all that crap. I actually quite enjoy my breaks from sex: they allow me to get on with other things in life, and re-connect with myself in different ways.

But slowly and surely, the urge to play comes back just as strong as before, and I begin the cycle all over again.

 

This is exactly where I am right now. Guess I really need a sexcation. Hopefully, my inner slut shows up soon so I can start breeding and being bred again.

[tallslenderguy]

i don't know that i see it as "burn out,"  (that terms seems too permanent to me lol), but i appreciate the point.  i think we can swing far in one direction, almost as part of self discovery (self preserving?).  We are often socially/culturally conditioned against our sexuality, and i think going the other direction and 'whoring' can be a reaction against that conditioning.

How much is too much?  i think that's individual, and fluid. i think it's easy to make rules and habits that don't always fit the reality of where we are at at a given time. my experience is like others have expressed, sort of the tide coming in and the tide going out when it comes to my sex drive. 

[BBBxCumDumpster]

I'm pulling into that truck stop.  I've  been DP'd twice in the past two weeks. Got fucked twice early last week. Three friends came over Friday and all three fucked me.  It's just not as fun as it used to be. I have unannounced unexpected horny dicks scratching at my door.  It's Sunday morning and as I'm entering this,  a neighbor I  blew last week for his birthday just texted.  Just not.in the mood for sex lately.  I used to never pass up dick,  expected or  not. Now I'm bored with it. Sometimes,  I wish this feeling were permanent, but I know it ain't. I'm just gonna enjoy it the same way I enjoy my sex fiend phases. I just hope  the two phases come to a happier medium.  Right now, the fiend phase is too long. 

[hntnhole]

19 hours ago, WillingRawVerse said:

I almost feel like my body is telling me I need a break

Well then, listen to your body.  It's thanking you for all the sex, but even your body needs a break now and then.  

When we fuck (or any other activity) all the time, or anytime the notion surfaces, any activity can produce "burn-out".  For instance, I only head out to the fuckjoints on Fri/Sat nights, staying until I'm really done.  I'll allow myself occasional "extra" sex during the week, when I need to, but  I think the old adage "everything in moderation" is apt here, at least in my case.  Plus, it'll make your return to the pigpen all the sweeter.  

[hntnhole]

3 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i think going the other direction and 'whoring' can be a reaction against that conditioning.

Agreed.  Almost like flaunting our natural, inborn needs in the face of those who judge us (which pinheads will never know the extent of our rejection, dammittall).

[Iker80]

Sure, sometimes I want sex, sex and more sex. Then I have a while when I don't really care. Well, if a hot guy gets my attention I might change my mind, but mostly I'll be busy doing whatever else I'm in to at that moment and enjoying my personal space. I can really need that space at times and don't want to kiss, have sex. whatever, then the next day I want to get tangled up with a hot guy and kiss for ages.

I just follow the phases. They are what they are and I don't mind them.

[PozTalkAuthor]

On 11/25/2023 at 10:28 PM, WillingRawVerse said:

Has anyone else felt burnt out from a lot of sex? The past 3 months have been a sex-fueled adventure with men, women, and MTF's. But the past week, I have no desire to have sex. Had a hookup yesterday, and just wasn't into it. I almost feel like my body is telling me I need a break.

 

Don't know if it can be called "burn out from sex" but I've had a "hard-on block" right after I found out HIV. 

Such as "sex has brought me here, sex is the problem!" Even porn made me feel discomfort! It lasted what, a couple years before feeling comfortable again with my sexual excitement; a little more when it concerned trusting other folks to have physical encounters with. 

And a very short episode happened last year when I left my abusive ex but it lasted a couple days then, as I had another man in my future! He's been (and is) the best support. 

You, don't feel wrong if you have no sex desire; take a break, life can't be just related to sex, good luck