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I've seen the topic asking with who and when we lost our virginity and I start thinking what is virginity? Many people say it's the first time you have sex, but I don't agree. What if it was a not very fun fumble when you were a teenager and nobody even cum, does that count? You can drive through a city and say "I've been there" but that's not what people mean when they ask if you've been there, they mean have you seen the sights, have you explored the place. And I'm a bi man so I have my straight virginity and my gay virginity, and there's first time top and bottom when you're a guy. Even for straight guys there's top and bottom virginity because women can use toys in you.

My anal virginity was the biggest and last one for me, it's a big thing for me to share that. The first guy to put his dick inside me felt good, but he only did it for a few strokes. He was all about him being a bottom. I think my first proper time was when I was with a guy I really wanted inside me and he did it for a long time. He recharged fast and fucked me multiple times. Feeling him throbbing inside me I had my first prostate orgasm. That experience felt like the real thing. Still, he wore a condom the whole time. Even then I'd never fully felt a dick inside me. That happened later when I finally tried it with a guy bare. I wanted him a lot and I felt empty of him before he even went inside. I didn't even feel tight, and I'm often nervous to bottom. He just went in smoothly like his space was reserved. I had a couple of prostate orgasms as he fucked me missionary, we kissed and I wrapped my legs around him and played with his hairy nuts as he stroked in me. Finally he filled me with his cum. Feeling his dick throbbing a hot load inside me was when I was certain I'd totally lost my anal virginity. It was like the last bit. I guess that was when I'd properly 'been there' and had the full and real experience. I think these two guys are the guys I lost my anal virginity with because I had my first orgasm with one and my first bare fuck/load with the other.

But I want to know what you think, what for you counts and what doesn't? Is it just the first guy you did something with, or is it something else?

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6 hours ago, Iker80 said:

what for you counts and what doesn't?

First, thanks for that most interesting subject/question.  

The very word - "virginity" - implies a physical state of no experience of having sex with another person.  But, the next question would/should be, what do you want your experience to be?  Or if the subject is young, have you even considered that there are options?  Your answer is spot on, in that there is now "connection" between the partners unless there is desire on both sides.  If a guy who knows (or even thinks) he wants other guys, caves to the pressure and marries traditionally, would that count for "losing his virginity"?  I would vote np, since his experience did satisfy what he knew he needs, and got something else instead. 

On the other hand, if a straight kid to jacks off with a buddy, is that to be considered "gay" sex?  I would say no, in that two kids exploring what their bodies can do in no way implies anything more than a couple of curious kids exploring what their capabilities are.  The interesting question would then arise: did one of the two kids experience something "more" than just jerking off?  

Your lovely description of your first "proper' time is evocative of a young man, formerly unaware, becoming acutely aware of one of his important needs, regardless of the condom.  That experience spoke volumes to you, and that expression of your sexuality became an important facet (meaning, a part - not the whole) of your sexuality.  It allowed you to understand that hard raw Cock fucking your hole was also an important facet of your sexuality.  I'd call that the most fortunate event of your budding sexuality, since you're able to "connect" with other men in either position.  Some of us can't say that.  

Of course, the virginity question is the type that any answer will fill, since generally it's the first time we actually "feel" - "experience" that meeting of the souls, via our cocks/holes since the term "virginity" has more meanings than merely the common one.  Loosing our "virginity" is when we first feel that huge rush, the enormous thrill, the life-changing sexual cataclysm of having an emotional response - not simply a physical one.  

Thanks for that excellent post.  

 

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