At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?

[PozBearWI]

Damn, I hate that all the "sauna's" have closed in Wisconsin.  Maybe things will change given President slut and they'll reopen?  

[NordicBtm]

1 minute ago, Fprefect570 said:

I had a moment of self realization while I was being fucked by one man I had met 30 minutes ago in a bathroom and two more I didn’t know were already lined up and ready to go that “I may not be a normal bottom”

Hahahaha I’ve had similar experiences. And realizing how much I enjoyed it. That being said I cycle in and out of this, I want to enjoy working and enjoying other things in life. But the cumdump is always there and needs to be fed and stroked and loved also 🐽💦💦💦

[anonCUMtainer]

23 minutes ago, NordicBtm said:

Hahahaha I’ve had similar experiences. And realizing how much I enjoyed it. That being said I cycle in and out of this, I want to enjoy working and enjoying other things in life. But the cumdump is always there and needs to be fed and stroked and loved also 🐽💦💦💦

Thank you for this!!

The horny hard raw cocks will always be there (as will my desire to have them ejaculating inside me).

Life is hopefully more fulfilling when you find a balance. I struggle with moderation and balance so this is always top of mind for me.

[NordicBtm]

5 minutes ago, anonCUMtainer said:

Thank you for this!!

The horny hard raw cocks will always be there (as will my desire to have them ejaculating inside me).

Life is hopefully more fulfilling when you find a balance. I struggle with moderation and balance so this is always top of mind for me.

I think we struggle the most when we don’t really accept and love it. It’s different from acknowledging that it’s there and giving into it if you still carry shame. It’s something to work on continuously - in my case it’s a work in progress but really beautiful things and friendships have been found by leaning into it with no shame. Which then makes focusing my energy on other things in life also easier if it makes sense. 💖

[pupHawaii]

hmm .. when you lose count of the number of loads that just got fucked into you?   😆

 

[Str8convert]

I think mentally I'm a cumdump, all these descriptions on here just make me say yes I want and need this but I'm just not there physically yet.

[Norcalfukkr]

I realized I crossed over into “cumdump” territory when one cock and load didn’t satisfy my hunger…when all I could think about was the next cock and load, however I get it, cruising the apps and taking any cock without question..homeless cock, farm worker immigrant cock, visiting surfer, student, senior…they’re all welcome to breed me. 

[yoursinmine]

For me, it's a few things:

Once his hands are on you, your decision making ability is gone 

You care only about  pleasing cock

You do not own your ass. My bf whores me out

I always make myself ready to recieve

Take any cock, any time 

Sorry of on topic: My bar bathroom fantasy finally happened. It took a while because my bf had to negotiate with the owner. He didn't want to get shut down. So I had to fuck him first, alone. He ended up cumming twice. Then, after the bar closed, seven older guys that Ive never met, fucked me all over the bathroom. Never felt so cheap. Overall a wonderful experience but it kind of fucked with my head, honestly. 

 

[Hot2fuck]

On 7/24/2025 at 3:08 PM, Christopher said:

I will let any man, any age, any looks/ body type, skinny to extremely obese, and cock size big or small, any ethnicity, anyone, bareback me and  cum in my ass . I'll take as many loads as I can get

I agree with this, quantity over quality. The other thing that makes a cumdump is not needing or wanting to cum myself, I can go weeks without cumming  myself, but need a raw load fucked into me at least once a day, often more.

[Labtmguy]

For me it was when one wasn't enough, and I stopped chosing the top. 

I started being ass up/out for free use. No talking, no back and forth needed, just slide in and breed. The more that lined up the better for me. Also stopped swallowing and wanting it all in my ass

[theplayerking]

I would define it as taking loads from multiple guys in relatively rapid succession, at least within the same day, preferably within the same session.