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@hntnhole I'm gonna keep thinking about this too and I welcome the additional dialog. This stoked in me some relatively recent research I did refreshing my knowledge of the molecular biology that made up the strains of DNA (I am a molecular biologist and physicist via education) which led me back to a refreshed court on the history of HIV/AIDS in the USA - so some of this was fresh on my mind. I, too, enjoy the dialog and I especially enjoy hearing from others who lived and walked the path that I can only study. So let me give this some time to settle and me to think about it. I might shoot you a DM if that's okay. I'm a little tired from last evening and staying up past my bedtime! 🙂 I also want to ponder this reflectively about my own journey, status, use of meds, etc. right now - I, too enjoy BZ for this reason - the connection on topics that otherwise wouldn't come up in day-to-day conversations. More to come, I hope you're having a great day! J

Yes this year started with a slam and lots of clouds for me. So this year started with a few bangs.. lol

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Thanks for your interesting response, PozToxVersePig. I appreciate it; these discussions are one of the major reasons I enjoy BZ. to the quote above, the implication is/was the fact that a certain type of learned behavior was suddenly cut off, in the view of the majority of their peers at that time. As you point out, yes - I was a part of the community at that time, and while it seemed a stunning choice for most, there actually were guys that felt that their lives were so interwoven with their sexual practices, nothing else was worth the bother. I thought then, and I think now that was an over-reaction to all the burgeoning mortalities, but that's my un-researched opinion. There were guys I tangentially "knew" who became so depressed, they simply ended their lives, rather than wait for the grinding down of their bodies, that whole horrific process. For that matter, when one of the gay news-weeklies (Gay Chicago) began publishing all the notifications, it went out of business because no one wanted to pick it up anymore. I'm not saying that level of despair was widespread, but it did exist, and I find no fault with the men who made that seemingly-impossible choice. One guy simply laid down in our driveway and died. Imagine trying to process that in your mind. That's an interesting p.o.v., and perhaps it has merit. I'll chew on that one for a while ... I think that being "forced" into using barriers (assuming one wanted to live for a myriad of reasons), automatically created an 'anti-barriers' reaction in men who had become immersed in the various "anti" movements in the country, and either felt that "it couldn't happen to me" or simply didn't care anymore. After all, we had marched, we had organized, we had almost kicked down the societal doors to be allowed out of the closet, and that was a huge achievement. There was a mindset of "yes, we can and we will", at least in the major metro areas. Rather than "created", it was more a re-normalization of what had always been the norm. If you accept that there is a level of "connection" between two men when they fuck raw, that is unavailable when they use barriers, then perhaps you can understand how displeasing barriers was/is to some men. This website exists for men that are disinclined to use barriers when they fuck, and those types of men have always been around. Thus, I stand by the phrasing initially used. Thank you for your perspective, never-the-less. Sharing opinions about all kinds of issues, relevant to our particular needs or not, is probably the most pleasurable part of BZ for me. Thanks for your opinions and your post, however I don't believe I oversimplified by a lot (sic).

I’ll be in Madrid for a weekend? Any poz master to breed my ass and take me to the darkest places?

Looking forward to him teaching his brother about poz love

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