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The porn they show at the bathhouse in Amsterdam is totally not horny to my opinion. Even though I get fucked alot overthere it is nice to watch some horny raunchy bareback fucking as a break.

oh, yes, continue - so hot

When I first moved back here from Nevada, I went to buy some. I asked for them as poppers and was told they could not sell them to me since I refered to them as poppers. I explained I was from out of state and they still said no, I had to go to a different store and chose my wording. Not sure if that is still a thing or not, but that was only like 5 years ago

I usually have the TV turned off, I also keep the lights off. I am always ass up, door open. With the lights and TV off it makes it more anonymous. If the top wants the lights on, I don't have an issue. Ounce done, I'll reopen door, turn lights off, and get ass up for the next one. As far as public porn, I don't watch. Would be willing to make some though. Lol

Hi All Visiting Salzburg Austria July 2026, any one got a good hotel recommendation? At least gay friendly, ideally guys can just walk in and use me?

Haha, you were maybe braver than me going after the practical/economic side of this question. Really, we have to go there eventually to answer the question? i think with the underpinning principle of "grace" (for lack of a better term? you do seem to get where i'm going with it though). i left a culture of religious absolutism (fundamentalist christianity), so i'm molded by my history, and response to it. In that case their 'trump' was "God," and good luck winning a disagreement with "God." But i see that same attitude of absolutism everywhere (for instance, i've met more than a few fundamentalist atheists). To me, it's mostly an emotional disposition that creates rationale to support it. Sorry, seems like i'm getting into the weeds, but i see this as foundational. As i see it, the notion that i know and you don't removes the opportunity for true debate, because at least one side cannot be engaged (i.e, because they already know the answer/s, so the only think left is for the other to agree or capitulate to the truth. To me, it comes down to actions born of personal responsibility that derives from "pain only a moral person would feel--doing nothing." Your wrote: "Society is 'a system' and systems need to be as self-sustaining as possible either independently or in groups. The human body is a great example of inter-related systems to provide an analogy...simply: it's better not to need a ventilator to breathe than to need one. Most times, government programs are the ventilator." i'll add to your analogy, maybe break it down further. If "government programs are the ventilator," then governors/police/judicial etc., are the doctors that decide one needs the ventilator. And they can be "wrong," inadvertently or by intentional corruption. Of course, we've developed a system to deal with that too, but it always seems to come back to balancing act between trust and grace. It is likely best not to need a ventilator, but our systems all seem to rely (ultimately) on a degree of trust/grace to be self sustaining, and i think that is where things often end up broken(er?) in an already imperfect society. So, i'm nodding my head at "Financial market regulation is an absolute necessity due to greed and market manipulation," while simultaneously wishing it was a ventilator we didn't need. i find myself wondering if we've not upset homeostasis in how wealth is currently distributed in the US. In that vein, i appreciate this simplified assessment of division of wealth. Of particular interest (to me) is a graph he uses throughout his assessment of low, middle and high earners and how all three are increasing income at a similar rate along side the growth of the economy. Towards the end of the analysis, he shows how that has changed (dramatically).

The Slammer in LA and their newish Club 541 in Palm Springs are pretty much the same, they do have small areas where phones are allowed, but I have witnessed guys getting kicked out for taking their phone beyond those areas. I haven't been to a bathhouse or fuck venue that generally allowed cameras, there have of course long been exceptions for special events where they made sure you knew filming was occuring and you had to sign a release before entering. Unfortunately while Slammer and 541 are great for "balls-out sex from stem to stem," it is pretty much unheard of anywhere within 500 miles of the Canadian border and the Pacific Coast. We do see a lot of fetish gear, and the puppy mask thing seems to be popular with the younger generation, and as such the only guys doing any fucking with masks on.

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Definitely 100% rutting your hole deep and unloading as deep as I can - like it or not it's going balls deep. And fucking it in you for a good bit after too!

For clarity, no telephones, no cameras are allowed at Slammer. You must fill out a form, and surrender your phone (unless you left it in your car, which I do, turned off.) They have lock-boxes behind the counter, and many guys hand over their wallets, phones, etc, for security purposes. Slammer doesn't have their own cameras (that I know of anyway). It's too dark in most of the areas. To the puppy masks issue, there's not much in the way of erotica (puppy masks, etc) at Slammer. It's just balls-out sex from stem to stern. I have heard that there is some "gear" used at the Eagle, though. But, it's a "Leather bar", so that wouldn't be surprising. I've been there, but around here it's just too hot to wear much "gear". Plus, parking is a nightmare in that area.

Any highlights? Did any one night stand out,?

Since the topic is jerking out a load, I'll re-mention (from a thread quite a while ago), that saving your jacked load(s) in a "pony" glass, and then cover tightly with plastic wrap, then tuck in the back of your freezer, will prove a most productive act. Be sure to cover it with a layer or two of tightly stretched plastic wrap. If it's not entirely filled up, it can be "topped off" with a second or third load at some future point. The frozen sperm is called a "devil's dick". It will be preserved, in the ideal (frozen) form to lube up a hungry hole at some point. To use, merely hold the glass in your hand for a few minutes, or tip the glass and run warm water on the outside (tip it slightly, so no water touches the load(s). Tops find this particularly useful when their bottom is denied sight, in a sling, ready and waiting. Top returns to the slingroom, asks the bottom if he's ready (and obviously receives an affirmative reply), Top slides the frozen loads out of the glass, into his mouth, and (small end first, obviously) shoves the dd up the bottoms hole with his tongue. It's amazing how well preserved the load(s) is/are. You can even give the empty glass to the bottom, to lick any residue out.

Maybe I'm a little bit "spoiled" living in this area, but I haven't so much as seen a rubber in the 15 or so years I've lived here. Not in any of the fuckjoints, not in any of the tubs, or private events. No one so much as mentions them. During covid, some guys would wear those paper face-masks that covered their mouth & nose, and that was it. I'll bet those vending machines in the gas station restrooms have rusted away, thanks to disuse.

@tallslenderguy Wow... so my entry to that question was on the economic side, grossly practical. The exercise I gave myself was breaking costs down -- and damn did I spend a LOT of time back then. A tip of the iceberg was UHC, slightly included in my answer above. The lecturer, to us all was like, "you fools, here's the answer" briefly written at the start of my last post here. Of course, that was the intent on his part. You took the philosophical route... and it's used there too (like many similar questions). I think there are similar themes. 1) you said as part of your stated "prime directive" was, "...that 'I' can be wrong..." I think philosophical idea fits into the concept in the economic space that, no matter how much you have, you can make both the wrong decisions, and by helping "over here" you can implicitly hurt "over there." For instance, the minimum wage increases over the last decade. It does help those getting the increase (esp. initially), but it's also helped to drive up general prices as people trade up, and it definitely creates a separation of those who can't work (temp or perm) reducing the help from other government programs provide (i.e., $0->$8 is a lot less than $0->$15), etc. Whether you agree with the specific, the connecting idea is that every decision is a trade-off and you can never know the consequences. 2) you said, "grace in the process of decision making" this gets to the actual answer of the question, I think. In that, using a level grace is to accept emotional pain. And, given the answer to the experiment, it's only pain a moral person would feel -- doing nothing. Curious as to your thoughts after reading the answer.

My main concern when I posted this thread, was that the fuck venues would start allowing phones/cameras and finding footage where I was identifiable on the internet. Luckily so far I haven't seen that happen in the two and a half years since, at least in North America. I find it slightly interesting that you aren't seeing guys in puppy masks in Florida, they are extremely common at the fuck venues in the PNW, and I have seen a few in other parts of the US and Canada as well. While we do see the occasional blindfolded bottom here in the PNW, we unfortunately don't have much acceptance for the whoring out type scenes, so that is somewhat limited.

This more than just my last load because for the first time in my 20 years of taking loads I managed to have 5 different guys breed me, one guy for each night last Monday through yesterday, Friday. I’ve had that many in a night, actually more, but this was the hottest, most pleasurable and sluttiest week I’ve ever had. It’s been nothing but a real confidence booster to my psyche as well. Being a bareback cum dump isn’t for everyone, but it’s what I am and I’m really a peace with it. Cheers.

To the OP though, the only times I've seen masked guys at the fuckjoints, is when they were Leatherboys, being whored out by their Dads. While masking (with no eyeholes - i.e. removing the ability to see), the bottom helps him focus on fulfilling his purpose, it also allows him to create filthy fantasies, since he can't see the men who breed his hole. It's one of those "win/win" situations for the bottom.

Well written, and I really identify with the cluelessness. I just wish I'd ever gotten an invitation like that.

Even as a bottom I want to eat out and fuck the gorgeous hole.

Interesting. There's certainly something I'm missing out on by only being a bottom, but I just can't bring myself to want it. I would love to try to change your mind about blowjob orgasms

I wouldn't call it abduction, and I've come to expect it, but often I'll be just hanging out at home and my bf has called people over. They'll show up and just take me. I love it when they pick me up over their shoulders and take me to the bedroom or sexroom never asking or saying anything that isn't derogatory or demeaning