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Sorry, we're too far along to make that change.

Just saw this graphic in an article I was reading… I was a little shocked to see that only 37% of people with HIV have an undetectable viral load. Based on what I see online it just seems a lot higher than that. Or are the guys lying about being undetectable? It's also a little unexpected that only around half of people with HIV have medical care. That also seems really low. Do these numbers ring true for any of you? They seem wrong to me.

I, once again, have no clue what you're talking about. AFAIK there's no Facebook setting on my end that would do what you want to do. If anything you need to control your own privacy settings - so the job is yours, not mine. Unless I'm misunderstanding something.

It's not the pride that's the problem, it's the expression of the pride. It doesn't suit someone who's primary role is service. I'd almost say the same thing of tops. A cocky, arrogant top can be a bad lay too. Self-assured is good, arrogant about it is bad.

Honestly, I have to disagree a bit. I feel like the term "power bottom" has been taken over by pushy, controlling bottoms who think they're more important than the top. That the top is there to serve their needs, not the other way around. IMHO, those folks aren't "power bottoms" - they're bad lays. To me a power bottom is someone who is there to service and can take pretty much anything that's dished out to him for hours on end. He's the bottom other bottoms look at and think "how in the hell can he manage all that for so long?" Power bottoms have a lot of the characteristics that the guy mentioned, but they lack the arrogance. They're quietly self-confident - they don't need to make statements like "They have an extensive amount of self-worth and value" or "power bottoms, indeed, have more power than any other sexual prototype".

otebbtop - This site is what it is. Major changes like that won't be made here. (Plus, I don't quite understand what you're asking for - I think you want me to mine other sites for data on users - but not completely sure). BUT, I'm (slowly) working on BBBH.com - it will be more flexible and have more of the features you're looking for.

otebbtop - take a look at your own profile page. It has all the activity for people you've friended. The only thing that's missing is the concept of a "status update" - because forums are more about longer-length discussion.

That's how the "What's New" page is supposed to feel. But describe what you're looking for exactly - I'm programming BBBH.com from scratch - I can implement something like that there, and try for more of that feel when I migrate this site to other software.

Just took two pics of my cock. Not sure which I should upload to my profiles. (Click the pics to see bigger versions of them). #1 is a vertical. My balls look huge for some reason… #2 is a horizontal pic… Which one makes you think "I wanna get fucked by that"?

I'm not making any changes to the software running this forum. I'm about to replace it with something else. But even then what I can do will be limited and complicated since it's off-the-shelf software so I have to make changes by writing plug-in otherwise it will break every time there's a version upgrade.

I'm not familiar with TapATalk. I'm planning on switching the type of software running the site, so will investigate more after that point (there's no point before that change).

Do not make assumptions about people seroconverting. I've talked to Jett Black who works for Michael. They do test their European models for HIV and serosort. I think the European stuff is still bareback, but I may be wrong. Anyway Jett said it's surprising how many of the new models are poz. He says Lucas tests consistently, but some of the other studios don't.

All blog posts are moderated and don't go live until I've reviewed them. Probably a 1/4 to 1/3 get deleted because they're not appropriate (the most common reason is that they should be thread in the forum, not blog posts). Update: Just looked at your blog post - it's not really appropriate. It's more like something you should put in your profile. Blogs should generally be stories about your sex life.

Read this thread… https://breeding.zone/threads/27374-Is-early-treatment-of-HIV-really-that-much-better Well, he didn't go on them immediately. It's been a year since infection. AND (except for that guy who had a bone marrow transfusion) no one has been cured of HIV and been able to go off their meds. Holding that promise out as a reason to go on meds seems disingenuous.

I'm shutting down discussion on this topic. Tempted to give you an infraction. This is hardly the site to discuss condom sex.

I don't think escorts are as big of a thing in the gay community as they are the straight community. So many gay men are sluts, few gay men need to pay. I mean the average gay man probably has sex with as many guys in a year as the average straight men has sex with in his entire life. I also had a boyfriend at one point who said his mom was only OK with his dad having sex with other women if he paid for it. Not sure how common that is, but the sexual norms in the straight world are very different.

I'm pretty sure they're just "suppliers" not farms they own. So switch suppliers - it's really not complicated.

I've run into more than one guy who has told me he actually fucked the guy. And I've seen the guy's "mainstream" Twitter account. He's got the perfect combination of an incredible body and a real hunger for cum. That said, I suspect the numbers might be inflated. "Loads" might equal the number of guys who fuck him, not the guys who actually blow their loads. In many public sex settings the tops hold back from cumming and you often don't know who came in you and who didn't. And yes, I'm suspicious of zero downtime to treat STDs. But all in all, he is for real, at most his stories are slightly embellished.

And that was sort of my point to the party promoter - of all the decent, completely gay-friendly brands of vodka out there, why in the hell would you choose Stoli? Just the appearance of things is bad.

For me it's not about hating Russians at all. It's about making a stand against what's going on in Russia. Putin is ELECTED. There is something to be said for holding the people accountable for the policies of the people they elect to govern them. How pro-gay is it, if they don't change their supplier? There are plenty of other pro-gay vodka companies. I would be OK with Stoli going out of business, though I don't think that will ever happen - even with a broad-based boycott.

Just had a bit of an argument on Foursquare with a gay party promoter who had Stoli drink specials at his last party. Here are some of the facts… For more see this article… http://globalnews.ca/news/1407839/is-stoli-back-in-lgbt-community-good-graces-after-vodka-boycott/ Pro-Stoli: Stoli isn't made is Russia - it's made across the border in Latvia Stoli is a sponsor of World Pride Anti-Stoli: The grain used to make Stoli comes from Russia The owner of Stoli is Russian (I can forgive that one - it's an accident of birth) Ask 100 gay guys to name a Russian vodka and more than half will probably say Stoli - it's a symbol In my opinion what that adds up to is that Stoli puts on a good marketing face, but they won't go as far as changing grain suppliers to really say they want no connection to the atrocities happening to the gay community in Russia. If you're my age or older - it's the apartheid question all over again - do you divest or do you strategically invest in ways that show how things could be done differently? Personally, I can forgive a bar for stocking Stoli and serving it when requested though I'd prefer they not stock it at all. But a Stoli drink special? IMHO, that's going too far. To me it trivializes the persecution of our gay brothers and sisters in Russia. Stoli is a symbol of Russia to most gay men, and there are connections between Stoli and Russia even if it's not 100% Russian. Thoughts?

Next up are a batch of large(ish) rawTOP t-shirts. The ink color can best be described as slightly metallic and close to a pewter color. Black 1 x Large, Hanes (slightly lighter than a Beefy-T) Navy 1 x Large, Hanes Beefy-T 1 x X-Large Fitted, Next Level Cardinal Red 1 x Large, Hanes Beefy-T Maroon 1 x Large, Hanes Beefy-T

The first batch up is with the Breeding Zone logo and metallic silver ink. Jayson Park is doing a few scenes for HDK where he and/or the tops fucking him will wear shirts like these. Right now I just have one of this design available: Large, Black, Hanes Beefy-T [NO LONGER AVAILABLE - It's being purchased.] I gotta hang on to the smaller ones until after the shoot at which point the unused ones will be available. (I'm not sure what size the tops will take).

There has FINALLY been progress on the t-shirts that I had promised in a thread months ago. BUT as I learn the process of making t-shirts, I've decided I won't be making them to order. Instead, the process that seems to work is my husband and I pick a logo to screenprint, and a general size (small ones, medium ones, large ones) and then we mix whatever color we're in the mood to print and print with that logo and that color on a variety of different color t-shirts in that size range. As I make the t-shirts I'll post what sizes and colors are available. If you see something that's your size and a color that you like, then it's first come first served. Just post that you want it, pay for it in a reasonable amount of time, and it's yours. I highly recommend just sitting back and waiting for just the right logo/color/size combination. The process of making the t-shirts is more time-consuming than I had imagined, so the prices I was thinking of previously need to go up. Basically they'll be $15 for the t-shirt, $5 for shipping/handling. So $20 for one, $35 for two, etc. The price of shipping will be higher for folks outside of the US - expect at least $10 in shipping charges. If you fall in one of the following categories your first t-shirt is free (essentially $15 off - you just pay shipping): You've made 100+ posts and have no infractions You've made 150+ posts and only have only one or two "understandable"/minor infractions You've posted personal videos on Raunchy Fuckers that have gotten decent reviews/ratings You're a bareback porn star You work in a gay business - like a bar, a club, a bathhouse - and you're willing to wear the shirt at work You're a bareback blogger or other person of interest Also, if you get a t-shirt with a rawTOP logo, and you send me a good, usable video of you in the t-shirt saying "I'm rawTOP", then you get another t-shirt as well - completely free - no shipping charges (except outside the US - then you basically get a $20 credit). Obviously that particular offer is only for tops, vers tops, and maybe vers guys. It doesn't really make sense for bottoms. I'm planning on compiling a video of a whole bunch of guys saying "I'm rawTOP" and posting it to YouTube, etc.

I joined the Harlem YMCA a month ago and apparently there's one week in the summer when they shut down for repairs and upgrades and during that week you get to use any of the other Ys. So I was just wondering if any of them are particularly gay, or cruisy, or might have sex in the saunas or steam rooms at certain times of the day? So basically - if you have info on any of the NYC YMCAs, post it here. I will say the Harlem Y is quite straight and ever so slightly homophobic in that the black guys there aren't all that friendly to guys who aren't like them, so the gay guys just keep their heads down and workout. I'm hoping other Y's are dfferent.