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  1. Long story - but the one you're thinking of will continue to be a primary pic. These were for something else. I take it out when I'm jacking my cock.
  2. I thought it was more like 1/4 didn't know. Yeah, I get all that, the only thing I may have misstated is saying "guys" in the title. I still find 37% a bit shocking. I'd love to know the percentage for MSMs / gay guys.
  3. Not to be Debbie Downer, but… 90+% of long term gay relationships are NOT monogamous. My bf and I have been together for over 16 years now. I've seen a lot of long term gay couples. There are maybe 2 or 3 couples who I think are more or less monogamous. The rest would probably say that if they stuck with monogamy they'd have broken up. In other words long term monogamous gay relationships are only slightly more common than unicorns. The sooner you embrace that fact the sooner you'll find yourself a long-term relationship. Personally I'm much more interested in getting sluts to form long term relationships with other sluts. Somehow our society has taught sluts that they're not deserving of real love or even companionship. That's wrong.
  4. Sorry, we're too far along to make that change.
  5. Just saw this graphic in an article I was reading… I was a little shocked to see that only 37% of people with HIV have an undetectable viral load. Based on what I see online it just seems a lot higher than that. Or are the guys lying about being undetectable? It's also a little unexpected that only around half of people with HIV have medical care. That also seems really low. Do these numbers ring true for any of you? They seem wrong to me.
  6. I, once again, have no clue what you're talking about. AFAIK there's no Facebook setting on my end that would do what you want to do. If anything you need to control your own privacy settings - so the job is yours, not mine. Unless I'm misunderstanding something.
  7. It's not the pride that's the problem, it's the expression of the pride. It doesn't suit someone who's primary role is service. I'd almost say the same thing of tops. A cocky, arrogant top can be a bad lay too. Self-assured is good, arrogant about it is bad.
  8. Honestly, I have to disagree a bit. I feel like the term "power bottom" has been taken over by pushy, controlling bottoms who think they're more important than the top. That the top is there to serve their needs, not the other way around. IMHO, those folks aren't "power bottoms" - they're bad lays. To me a power bottom is someone who is there to service and can take pretty much anything that's dished out to him for hours on end. He's the bottom other bottoms look at and think "how in the hell can he manage all that for so long?" Power bottoms have a lot of the characteristics that the guy mentioned, but they lack the arrogance. They're quietly self-confident - they don't need to make statements like "They have an extensive amount of self-worth and value" or "power bottoms, indeed, have more power than any other sexual prototype".
  9. otebbtop - This site is what it is. Major changes like that won't be made here. (Plus, I don't quite understand what you're asking for - I think you want me to mine other sites for data on users - but not completely sure). BUT, I'm (slowly) working on BBBH.com - it will be more flexible and have more of the features you're looking for.
  10. otebbtop - take a look at your own profile page. It has all the activity for people you've friended. The only thing that's missing is the concept of a "status update" - because forums are more about longer-length discussion.
  11. That's how the "What's New" page is supposed to feel. But describe what you're looking for exactly - I'm programming BBBH.com from scratch - I can implement something like that there, and try for more of that feel when I migrate this site to other software.
  12. Just took two pics of my cock. Not sure which I should upload to my profiles. (Click the pics to see bigger versions of them). #1 is a vertical. My balls look huge for some reason… #2 is a horizontal pic… Which one makes you think "I wanna get fucked by that"?
  13. I'm not making any changes to the software running this forum. I'm about to replace it with something else. But even then what I can do will be limited and complicated since it's off-the-shelf software so I have to make changes by writing plug-in otherwise it will break every time there's a version upgrade.
  14. I'm not familiar with TapATalk. I'm planning on switching the type of software running the site, so will investigate more after that point (there's no point before that change).
  15. Do not make assumptions about people seroconverting. I've talked to Jett Black who works for Michael. They do test their European models for HIV and serosort. I think the European stuff is still bareback, but I may be wrong. Anyway Jett said it's surprising how many of the new models are poz. He says Lucas tests consistently, but some of the other studios don't.
  16. All blog posts are moderated and don't go live until I've reviewed them. Probably a 1/4 to 1/3 get deleted because they're not appropriate (the most common reason is that they should be thread in the forum, not blog posts). Update: Just looked at your blog post - it's not really appropriate. It's more like something you should put in your profile. Blogs should generally be stories about your sex life.
  17. Read this thread… https://breeding.zone/threads/27374-Is-early-treatment-of-HIV-really-that-much-better Well, he didn't go on them immediately. It's been a year since infection. AND (except for that guy who had a bone marrow transfusion) no one has been cured of HIV and been able to go off their meds. Holding that promise out as a reason to go on meds seems disingenuous.
  18. I'm shutting down discussion on this topic. Tempted to give you an infraction. This is hardly the site to discuss condom sex.
  19. I don't think escorts are as big of a thing in the gay community as they are the straight community. So many gay men are sluts, few gay men need to pay. I mean the average gay man probably has sex with as many guys in a year as the average straight men has sex with in his entire life. I also had a boyfriend at one point who said his mom was only OK with his dad having sex with other women if he paid for it. Not sure how common that is, but the sexual norms in the straight world are very different.
  20. I'm pretty sure they're just "suppliers" not farms they own. So switch suppliers - it's really not complicated.
  21. I've run into more than one guy who has told me he actually fucked the guy. And I've seen the guy's "mainstream" Twitter account. He's got the perfect combination of an incredible body and a real hunger for cum. That said, I suspect the numbers might be inflated. "Loads" might equal the number of guys who fuck him, not the guys who actually blow their loads. In many public sex settings the tops hold back from cumming and you often don't know who came in you and who didn't. And yes, I'm suspicious of zero downtime to treat STDs. But all in all, he is for real, at most his stories are slightly embellished.
  22. And that was sort of my point to the party promoter - of all the decent, completely gay-friendly brands of vodka out there, why in the hell would you choose Stoli? Just the appearance of things is bad.
  23. For me it's not about hating Russians at all. It's about making a stand against what's going on in Russia. Putin is ELECTED. There is something to be said for holding the people accountable for the policies of the people they elect to govern them. How pro-gay is it, if they don't change their supplier? There are plenty of other pro-gay vodka companies. I would be OK with Stoli going out of business, though I don't think that will ever happen - even with a broad-based boycott.
  24. Just had a bit of an argument on Foursquare with a gay party promoter who had Stoli drink specials at his last party. Here are some of the facts… For more see this article… http://globalnews.ca/news/1407839/is-stoli-back-in-lgbt-community-good-graces-after-vodka-boycott/ Pro-Stoli: Stoli isn't made is Russia - it's made across the border in Latvia Stoli is a sponsor of World Pride Anti-Stoli: The grain used to make Stoli comes from Russia The owner of Stoli is Russian (I can forgive that one - it's an accident of birth) Ask 100 gay guys to name a Russian vodka and more than half will probably say Stoli - it's a symbol In my opinion what that adds up to is that Stoli puts on a good marketing face, but they won't go as far as changing grain suppliers to really say they want no connection to the atrocities happening to the gay community in Russia. If you're my age or older - it's the apartheid question all over again - do you divest or do you strategically invest in ways that show how things could be done differently? Personally, I can forgive a bar for stocking Stoli and serving it when requested though I'd prefer they not stock it at all. But a Stoli drink special? IMHO, that's going too far. To me it trivializes the persecution of our gay brothers and sisters in Russia. Stoli is a symbol of Russia to most gay men, and there are connections between Stoli and Russia even if it's not 100% Russian. Thoughts?
  25. Next up are a batch of large(ish) rawTOP t-shirts. The ink color can best be described as slightly metallic and close to a pewter color. Black 1 x Large, Hanes (slightly lighter than a Beefy-T) Navy 1 x Large, Hanes Beefy-T 1 x X-Large Fitted, Next Level Cardinal Red 1 x Large, Hanes Beefy-T Maroon 1 x Large, Hanes Beefy-T
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