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Back in the day before ARVs (when none of the poz guys were undetectable) it took 100 unprotected fucks on average (with a variety of poz and neg guys) before someone became poz. So it's really not all that surprising. These days most poz guys are undetectable, so the number of guys who are capable of infecting you is pretty low. It's a bit like Russian Roulette - chances are you won't convert, but when you hit the chamber with the bullet you do convert.

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Personally, when I'm not very active I just scale back to taking PrEP 4 times a week - Mon, Wed, Fri, Sun. Studies suggest it's 90% effective at that dosage - which gives you coverage if you happen to have sex when you weren't expecting to. I would discourage you from going off it completely.

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Yes it will hurt. How much it hurts and how long it hurts depends on the circumstances. Just get the top to go slow. He shouldn't start fucking in earnest until your ass has gotten used to his dick. Then it'll probably feel pretty good unless he's so big he's hitting your second sphincter or pushing on your bladder (that's more uncomfortable than painful). If it continues to hurt, try another position. One thing I'd suggest is that you start by sitting on his dick. It's less painful that way and lets you control how vigorous things are. Once it's feeling good, then switch and let him take control.

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Sounds like a great goal. Hope you do that much and more. Maybe it's the start of being a true power bottom - like @gangbangboi on Twitter - his goal for May is to get 500 loads in his ass! And the last few years he's gotten about 2,000 loads a year.

Because guys are being put in prison for not telling. When I hooked up with a fuckbuddy of mine the other day he was saying that there's been a big change in the leadership of ACT/UP in the past year. The new ACT/UP has decriminalization of HIV as one of their main goals. In this day and age no one should be put in jail for not disclosing.

Gilead (the drug manufacturer) will cover the first $200/mo of copay. I think my plan covers 80% and that still leaves me with a $60/mo copay.

There are two questions - first legal - do whatever the law requires in your area. Second is a moral question and I think most of the guys here would agree that you 1) should always answer honestly when asked, 2) never pretend your neg when you're poz. But there would be disagreement when it comes to whether you should pro-actively tell guys you're poz. In an anonymous sex situation I think most everyone would say it's not required, but the opinions will vary when it comes to less-anonymous situations. Personally I have no problem with a poz guy not bringing it up. IMHO, it's the neg guy's responsibility to take care of his own health. Others will say poz guys should disclose, but to those people I'd say why? If the poz guy is undetectable there's no risk of transmission.

I just added a poll to the thread. Just curious what advice people would give to the theoretical black 18 year old who's looking at a 60% chance of becoming poz in the next 12 years. Personally, I sorta wish I were 18 right now. This is a great time to be young and have some incredible sex. My advice would be to do risk reduction when it's convenient, but ultimately put sex first. So if the kid has access to PrEP - he should go on it, but if he can't I'd still tell him to get out there and have a lot of sex.

Saw this in an article I was reading… What's your reaction to that? I had heard previously that nearly 50% of guys at black gay bars here in NYC are poz. So it doesn't surprise me.

In 3-5 years people won't feel that way. Trust me. There's going to be a huge change in people's understanding of URLs. Yes, familiarity is the primary issue. Given the rising importance of mobile, I think a URL that's easier to type may outweigh people's familiarity issues. Personally I think as long as it comes up in Google, and as long as the old URLs work, people will adapt. I mean it's not like anyone will stop using the site because the URL is shorter.

I would say these days "breeding" just means getting/giving cum in your/his ass - doesn't need to be poz. I think "pozzing" would be the current term for getting/giving poz cum in a neg ass. Given that most poz tops are on meds and zero risk to have sex with, that makes that use of "pozzing" weaker than it used to be as well (since it used to mean actual infection). But my take on it is that it's guys acting out the fantasy of infection.

Instead of the 6 hours of cleaning out that Tiger suggests, If you clean out with a long shower attachment like this one… http://www.forttroff.com/32767_gallery?pcat=DOU it takes about 2 hours from start to finish (with lots of breaks in between), and you'll be clean for 12+ hours.

I edited your post. Mr S. is very anti-bareback, so I don't allow links to them and I encourage people NOT to buy from them.

Yeah, HDK is behind that. I signed up just so no one else can use the name rawTOP. IMHO, it can't compete with BBRT, so it's a non-starter. It seems a lot of you are attached to the longer URL - www.breedingzone.com - but no one has really explained why, so I'm not sure how to take the results of the poll.

I was just out in the Pines this past weekend. My best friend bought a place on the ocean last fall - so I should be out there on an off throughout the summer. Yes, it's absurdly expensive. One hint is to bring a lot of cash with you - the cash machines take 2-4%. I stayed in the Boatel 20+ years ago, but my friend was saying they're changing things and creating "barracks" - rooms with 2 bunk beds where for $300/night you stay in a room with 3 complete strangers. That's an absurd $1200/night per room. I'm encouraging my friend to put bunks under his house for a semi-camping sorta of experience. And as far as the quality of construction... Places are either dumps or really beautiful. My friend is going high end, but we went through the house next to him and it was in such bad condition that I found it rather depressing. I can't imagine paying $2,000 for a room there for a week. That said, Fire Island can be a lot of fun. It's definitely a special place.

Yes, that's what it stands for. And agreed you'd want to get it treated quickly. But I think you can get a UTI from ways other than sex, hence it's not necessarily an STD.

I say just go for it. We're socially conditioned to think being a slut is bad, but honestly, sluts have way more fun. So every time you feel inhibited just ask yourself where the inhibitions came from - if it's because someone told you it was bad or undesirable - then put your inhibitions aside and try whatever it is so you can make your own decision about whether you like it or not. And once you decide you like something - do more of it. For me I came out in the middle of the AIDS crisis. My inhibitions may have saved my life. But I'm really jealous of teens these days - they get to act out all the things I was too scared to do - and have tons of fun in the process.

If it happened 2 days later, it could be an STD, but you're right the next day is rather soon. There have been a few times when I thought I had an STD and it was a UTI instead. Go to an STD clinic - they'll be able to tell you.

Recon gave me the idea, but I don't exactly like how they've implemented it - so I'll be doing it a bit differently. They have one site with different focuses. I'll have completely multiple free-standing sites. Adam4Adam is my inspiration for the pricing model - the free versions of the sites will be completely useable, though there will be an inexpensive paid option that will give advanced features.

As you may have noticed in some of the other threads on here, I'm working on developing a hookup site for BBBH.com. I'm going to structure things so there are a series of hookup sites all using a common database. The sites will be: BBBH.com - hardcore bareback breeding CumDumpNetwork.com - a sub-site with BBBH members who want to be listed as public cumdumps [*]OralPigs.com - hardcore oral sex fetish [*]TwistedPigs.com - hardcore fetish (pissing, fisting, BDSM, etc.) [*]WilyWilly.com - vanilla sex The idea is that some of the profile information will be shared between the sites (age, weight, height, HIV status, etc.), other information (like pics) can be shared between the sites - or not, depending on your preferences, but then each site will have it's own unique details, profile text, etc. So once you've signed up for one site, the registration process for the other sites will be streamlined. And once you have a profile name on one site it will be reserved on all other sites, but you'll be allowed to have different profile names on each site. The cool part is that when you login to one site you login to all of them - you just login to the one that best matches your mood at that moment, but if a message comes for you on one of the other sites, you'll see it and can respond quickly. For example, I like being a piss top, but I never bother to login to WaterBoys because it's rare that I get action there. Ditto for things like flogging and logging into Recon. With the way I'm structuring things, I may be looking to fuck, but a piss bottom could swing by and drink my piss while I'm waiting to find a bottom to fuck. Once those are launched I'll probably try my hand at tranny / bi / straight sites - they sort of all go together because they all have a feminine element to them. Anyway, it took a bit of discussion with my boyfriend to figure out whether I should have a separate oral site, or whether oral was really just vanilla sex. In the end the existence of this section on Breeding Zone is what guided me in my decision. Many of you approach oral sex the way barebackers approach fucking - it's not vanilla sex to you. So WilyWilly will be there for the guys who want vanilla sucking and fucking - that may or may not be bareback, and where the bottom may or may not get a load, but OralPigs will be for the dedicated cocksuckers who live to get the load - down their throat, all over their face, etc. I'm guessing most of you who are hardcore cocksuckers will have profiles on OralPigs and WilyWilly, and maybe BBBH for the times when you feel like getting fucked. I'm not really into oral sex - at most it's foreplay for me (OralPigs.com is the one site where I won't have a profile). What do you cocksuckers think of what I'm planning? Do you like the name? Am I on target or am I missing something? Should there be the equivalent of CumDumpNetwork.com for oral cumdumps - or should oral be included on CumDumpNetwork.com? Any other thoughts on how to do a good hookup site for oral sex? In terms of timing - my goal is end of the year, but realistically it may be early next year. Fingers crossed.

Prior to the advent of ARVs theories like that were quite prevalent. But as soon as people stopped dying talk like that gradually died down - it was hard to argue with the results. If the meds could make that big of a difference then clearly the scientists understood the basics of how HIV worked. BTW, Jeff Palmer (the porn star) was one of the more visible proponents of those theories. I'd love to know what happened to him and whether he finally got with the program. His wikipedia page discusses his denialist beliefs in more detail.