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Add HPV to the list of vaccines you should get if you don't already have HPV (many gay men have it). I got Hep B back in the early 90s when I was avidly safe sex. I remember a friend telling me I looked a bit yellow, but I didn't think anything of it. Years later they gave me a Hep B vaccine and I had a reaction to it. The doctor looked more closely and said I had cleared it previously and was now immune.

There's a whole thread here on that one... https://breeding.zone/threads/20410-FYI-The-New-quot-Chaser-quot-Film-Is-NOT-Bug-Chaser-Sympathetic

When that happens try to turn it around on them. "I'm sorry your sex life sucks." or "You only go around once. I plan on making the most of it." And 10,000 other possible retorts. Just straighten your back and be proud of who you are. Sluts have more fun - own it and be proud of it.

Are you in a state that legally requires disclosure? If not, and you're on meds, then just don't disclose unless they bring it up. If you're ever challenged tell them to fuck off - that there isn't one documented case of an undetectable guy infecting someone - you're the safest thing they can have sex with and their ignorance is what's putting them at risk, not your HIV status. Another alternative is to have sex in anonymous venues where status isn't typically discussed - parks, bathhouses, bookstores, etc. I hate to say this, but you may need to restructure your life and move to a bigger city (or metropolitan area) where guys aren't poz-hostile. I know you don't want to hear that, but guys in major cities just don't have these problems.

If you want to quote three people in your response, use Multi-Quote for the first two and Reply With Quote for the last one and you'll get the text of all three in the reply box instead of just one. Multi-Quote works across pages and I believe even across threads.

Then they're not really your friends. Move on and be done with them. So people are hitting you up for sex but you're not having sex? I'm confused. If people are hitting you up for sex - have sex with them - it's a great way to meet gay guys - even if you don't ask their name until after they've cum in your ass It's summer. Get out to cruisy parks. Do outdoor stuff that doesn't trigger your agoraphobia. Go to the gym (one with small or no crowds). Go bike riding through gay neighborhoods. Find a gay beach (I know you're in Missouri - so one on a river or a lake). There are tons of things you can do - especially this time of year. Basically I'm hearing excuses that don't hold water. Get out there and DO SOMETHING! [sorry for the "tough love" - but it sounds like you need it.]

Relationships happen when you least expect them. I met my husband 16+ years ago in a bathhouse - not really a place your mother would tell you to go meet a husband, but people drop their guard when they're having sex and you see the real person. There was just a spark about him that attracted me (it wasn't the sex - we're actually not all that sexually compatible). The important thing is to be "present" in all situations so you recognize when someone special comes along. You really never know when you'll met "the one". I love that statement. You actually sound like a lot of fun. Don't try to change who you are and be someone else. Who knows, that willingness to give of yourself may be what someone really finds attractive. And likewise, don't get with someone who wants to change you or doesn't want you to give of yourself to other people. I forget who it was, but I heard this interview with this really successful person the other day and one of the comments he made was that he's failed more times than he can count. In other words, you have to put yourself out there and try in order to succeed. If you fear failure you'll probably fail. So just keep plugging along - you never know when it'll all work out for you.

OMG! That video is clearly done by condom nazis. It hits on just about every stereotype you can imagine: The top was just "poz", not "poz and not on meds" - implying that all poz guys are dangerous when most aren't dangerous at all. The guy who pozzed him also drugged him and date raped him - as if that's typical of how most guys become poz. The bottom got pozzed the first time he had sex - the likelihood of that is incredibly low, but it perpetuates the "they prey on the weak and vulnerable" stereotype. The guy before him in line also tested poz - implying that getting tested = being told that you're poz, which would make testing seem scary and something people wouldn't want to do. They withdrew an enormous amount of blood with a huge needle - again making testing seem scary when most of the time they just prick your finger and it's not scary at all. There's no discussion of rapid HIV testing or special tests for early detection. In fact there's no counseling that went along with the HIV test. (How long does it take to get the results of an early detection test?) "HIV is not the death sentence it used to be" to a person who's scared out of his mind is completely the wrong thing to say - there are far less scary ways that give the person hope, not fear. People who were just infected and not on meds are never undetectable - that's just factually wrong. In fact it's just the opposite their viral loads are incredibly high. The top's reaction when confronted is just weird. I mean there may be deranged psychos out there, but they're hardly common. All in all that movie was pretty horrible. It perpetuated false stereotypes and fear.

Plenty of bottoms like to put on a blindfold and put their ass up in a bathhouse or take loads in dark rooms where they have no clue who's fucking them and cumming in their ass. No difference really.

Just wondering - to what degree does losing weight result in better sexual performance? I know fit/muscular guys probably get more sex because they're "more desirable", but to what degree does being fit result in better sex? I can imagine that guys who do aerobic activity regularly don't wear out as quickly when they're having sex (especially strenuous sex). I know my favorite position is with the bottom on his belly - which means I'm having to support all my weight suspended in air above him - it's work. If I lost weight, it would mean less to support. If I were more muscular it would be easier to support the weight, etc. Those are all pretty obvious side effects of better health, but does it extend to things like better erections? Do fit guys have better blood flow and hence better erections? What are the not-so-obvious side effects of better fitness? What are your personal experiences? Have you lost a bunch of weight and seen a difference? Have you seen a difference in a fuckbuddy who lost weight? Please don't take this in the direction of "jocks are better at sex than bears" - that's not what I'm looking for. A lot of jocks are so stuck on their appearance (and the appearance of the guys they're having sex with) that they're bad lays. I'm looking more for individual stories than aggregate stereotypes. And if you're wondering, this is prompted by the fact that I've finally gone back to the gym. Started this past weekend. I've had guys tell me "no, stay how you are - I like bears", but I'm happier when I'm not carrying so much weight, and I'm thinking losing weight can help partially counteract some of the age-related sexual issues I've encountered the past few years. And one more thing - just because you're thin doesn't mean you're "in-shape" in the way I'm talking about. You may look good, but if you don't do aerobic exercise and work on muscle strength then you could actually be in pretty bad shape (low stamina, weak, etc.)

I used to live really close to that park. A lot of sex goes on there, but when you live so close you can't make the most of it because your neighbors might see you going in and figure out what you're doing. And I spent a lot of time at the dog run - with my dogs... So know that well too. But the area by the dog run is only sexually active after dark (which is pretty late in the summer). Over by the parkway was better most of the time - at least a few years ago.

Sketchy Sex is one of the sponsors of my sites. In fact it's the hottest site for me right now, sales-wise. I strongly suggest people check it out. (Please follow the links on here so I get credit for any sales). And checkout the scene from Sketchy Sex where a gangbang bottom is reading my blog while guys are fucking him! It's pretty hot. Bascially Sketchy Sex is the site that best captures the #BBBH lifestyle of constant, bareback sex with complete strangers. It's a great site.

Not sure how many of you New Yorkers have been to Folsom Street East. It's not as crazy and sexual as the one in San Francisco, but it's fun. Last year they had to cancel it because of all the construction on the north side of the block. This year, they're having it a block south of where it was previously. FSE will be in three weeks - on Sunday the 22nd. For those of you who like leather/fetish/etc., you should come out and enjoy the festivities. For those of you who really like leather/fetish, think about volunteering. They're currently looking for people to help out. I'm doing one of the morning shifts. Don't really know anyone else who's volunteering, but I figure it's good way to meet some people in the leather/fetish community. I used to be in GMSMA and liked it, but haven't done much of anything for years now. A two hour stint of volunteering seems pretty painless.

Both, but paid clients would come first. I'd set his rate low to increase his popularity. If a boy is going to live with me he's going to earn his keep - through helping me with my sites, or escorting. His only rule on work is that he's only allowed to do jobs that can be done in a jockstrap or less.

Every now and then I come across an image which makes me stop. Like this one… I'd love a fuckboy/slave to have around the house. That way I'd never waste a load - when I'm horny I'd fuck him and he'd take my load. I could whore him out to other tops, take him to sex parties, etc. Anyway, that pic sorta embodies my ideal fuck boy. There's a vacant look in his eyes - like he's been around the block many times to the point that he's lost count of the guys who've used him and bred him - like he's lived the past few years in a brothel. That means he's compliant - I love compliant bottoms. And he looks skinny enough to be "tossable" in bed - so you could get him just like you want him. And his big uncut dick just makes him look like he was made for sex. Too bad you can't see his hole in the pic - I bet it looks like it's seen a lot of use, despite his young age. Anyway, the pic got my imagination flowing. Anyone else think he's particularly hot?

I would never fart with a bottom. Then again, I almost never let bottoms rim me. They have to specifically ask and the vibe has to be right. Then there are "cum farts" when a top manages to push air into the bottom's ass while fucking him and then the bottom farts which often forces some of the cum in his ass out at the same time. Cum farts are often unexpected and can be embarrassing or funny - depending on the situation. But they're normal - so shouldn't gross anyone out.

Yes and no. The pharma industry hasn't been doing enough R&D lately. They don't innovate because they're afraid of failure (it can be incredibly expensive to fail). So they sit around and wait for some startup to show signs of success, then they buy the startup (growth through acquisition). But if they're outbid or too late discovering the startups they're sorta screwed. For example Pfizer is moving their headquarters out of Manhattan - which is a big deal - it's been here for decades. But a number of their most profitable drugs have gone off patent and they don't really have anything as good as those drugs in the pipeline - so they're tightening their belt financially. For that to happen to one of the pharma giants like Pfizer is a big deal. Even when it comes to ARVs - some of them are getting close to going off patent - and they're decent drugs that have proven safety records. Doctors will have the choice of a cheap drug with a solid track record, or an expensive one that might be a bigger risk to the patient and to her/him (in terms of malpractice if things go wrong with the drug). Sure there are patients who have exhausted all the treatment options and will need the newest and latest drug - but people like that are rare (I only know of one guy like that - a friend of a friend). Does anyone know if Gilead got their patent extended for Truvada because of PrEP?

This isn't a hookup site. Hopefully by the end of the year I'll be done with the programming and BBBH.com will be a hookup site - geographic searches will be a primary feature on there.

Contextually, on this site, everyone above is correct. But there are other forms of slamming - for example slam dancing… That form of slamming is pretty dangerous too

If you could find it, it would be incredibly expensive - probably $800+ for a 30 day supply. Any cheaper and you might not be buying the real thing - which, if you're lucky, won't provide any protection, and if you're unlucky will harm you. But bottom line, it requires a doctor's oversight and prescription.

I've always heard that, when it comes to ARVs, if it's working don't fix it. I'm surprised she'd want to change your meds. If there were some problem, I could see the point, but if you're doing well, stay put.

They're not connected to your profile here, but should be on your profile on Raunchy Fuckers. However, we've had some upload problems - it's possible the upload didn't work. If you don't see your video when you login to Raunchy Fuckers, PM WolfJD here on Breeding Zone.

Most people are vitamin D deficient - not just poz guys. I've been taking it for years. It's most critical in the winter months when you're not out in the sun. It can cause depression, etc.

Jayson Park just contacted me. HDK has asked him to produce some videos for them. I think he'll be starring in some of the initial ones, but he may continue on just as a director if things workout well. Anyway, he broached the idea of a DVD entitled "Breeding Zone". If he did a series of scenes with a Breeding Zone theme and then wrapped them up into a DVD, what do you guys think should be the ground rules? Here are my initial thoughts... Show the Breeding Zone user names for each performer Be raunchy/piggy/edgy - no "plain vanilla" sex (e.g. don't have two guys fuck in a hotel room)... Poz guys shouldn't be shy about being poz - wear a biohazard t-shirt, say things like "you want my poz load, BOY?", etc. Mixing amateurs in with professionals would probably be a good idea - BZ is about community, not just the professionals. Cummy holes, felching, pushing out an internal load are all big pluses - the bottom has to get cum IN his ass To me, more than anything - Breeding Zone stands for proud bareback pigs. Yes, vanilla guys are barebacking these days, but the point of Breeding Zone is to really fetishize the idea of giving and taking loads up the ass. And there's no shame, no holding back, no HIV stigma, etc. Have I missed anything? Oh, and if you're in NYC and available in mid-June and interested in fucking Jayson Park in a Breeding Zone branded video - let me or Jayson know. (Posting on this thread is fine, as is a PM). Right now he's just looking for tops, but later he'll probably be looking for bottoms as well - though there will probably be more competition to be a bottom.

Should smokers be given medical treatment for emphysema? Should recreational skiers be given medical treatment for broken bones? Should people who OD and cause permanent harm to their bodies be put on disability? Should people who eat too much be given treatment when they get diabetes II? Should a drunk driver who hurts himself in a car accident be given medical care for his injuries? [And so on…] Are any of those things caused by genetic impulses? (Probably not). But I think sex is clearly a genetic impulse, so if we treat the effects of things that people choose to do completely on their own, why wouldn't we treat the effects of something that's arguably a genetic impulse? Or, put another way, all of those other things should be denied before you deny treatment for STDs (like HIV).