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  1. Yeah, I was disappointed in that response. I'd think if he did it enough he would get past the distractions and it would just be the normal course of things.
  2. If you're up for 1-on-1, let me know.
  3. Yes, totally legal. The company who runs the sites has VERY long relationships with all the major bareback producers. And the price can go down as low as $10.47 if you do the $29.95/month streaming plan. If you do 7 purchases in a month that's actually cost effective - even if you don't use any of the streaming minutes. (Sorry for the tardy response).
  4. Sorry for being so late to this discussion (I've been playing hookie from my moderation duties). But a couple of thoughts… Cut EVERYONE out of your life who won't support you and love you. They should be nothing more to you than casual acquaintances who you smile at and then ignore when you don't absolutely have to interact with them. You mentioned your father is trying to bring you into his real estate business. If he doesn't love you and support you as a poz gay man, then that is not a good environment for you. I've gone through this with big parts of my family. It's not easy, but trust me, trying to get people to change is a complete waste of time. Just move on and do what's best for you. You then need to actively work to rebuild your life. It won't be easy, but when you get to the end you'll be one of those people who say "becoming poz was the best thing that ever happened to me". Why? Because it forced you to take control of your life and live a life that's worth living. You can do it, and you'll be better for having done it. But it won't be easy. In the meantime get professional counseling from a gay friendly therapist.
  5. I haven't worn deodorant since I was a kid. Honestly the stuff made me stink. I smell less not using it. But when I get sweaty my pits smell really great, but if my arm's down you don't smell much of anything. I don't get why people use deodorant.
  6. I wouldn't think leaving as soon as you've cum is a problem in a bathhouse setting. Bathhouses are sorta made for pump-n-dumps. I guess I'm not understanding your problem. You could "flag". It's old school and a lot of guys won't get it, but some will. Tops flag left, bottom flag right. So get yourself a leather wristband or armband and put it on your left arm. Being a top is a lot about attitude. If you act confident and assertive it'll help guys see you as a top. [Notice I said assertive, not aggressive - don't be a cocky jerk.] I'd also suggest putting a cock ring on and finding ways to display your hard cock (rather than your ass). So sit places in the bathhouse stroking your cock. Maybe take a Viagra or Cialis before you go - even if you don't really need it. Bottoms are drawn to hard cocks like moths to a flame.
  7. So how many loads can a hot little twink get at the Black Party?
  8. That's my guess too. Though I'm a little surprised Flavaworks didn't test him or talk to him about his HIV status. Then again, just the other day I found out that one of the big studios that shoots a lot in Eastern Europe didn't test regularly and quite a few of their "gay for pay" models were winding up poz. Personally, I don't blame the studios. We're talking about a basic lack of knowledge about HIV - which is a bit shocking. Bottom line, videos like that are why I think this site is important. At least the guys here understand the risks they're taking and how to take care of themselves (via PrEP and watching their viral load and taking meds once poz). He's really cute though. I just wanna fuck him and breed him right there in his hospital bed.
  9. Right. There's a lot of stuff that's legal, but Visa won't touch it, so it never gets sold (or rather, never gets made).
  10. I did #1 even before I was on PrEP. lol Bottom line - do whatever you did when you used condoms. PrEP is about the same as using condoms - probably safer (in terms of HIV).
  11. But isn't the point of what you just described that he'll get over his chasing, settle down with a good guy and be monogamous? That chasing is "just a phase" - not something you aspire to? That's better than how people saw chasers before, but still sorta sees it as undesirable.
  12. Are you logged in? Dark Alley is one of the studios that do not appear on the tour, but do appear after members login. The downloads are DRM-free MP4s. I believe they are (or will) have invisible watermarks that can be used to track the source of piracy. So use as you want personally, but don't be uploading to file sharing sites unless you want a lawsuit. You're preaching to the choir about the whole scene vs. whole DVD thing. I tried and that's what I got… I do keep mentioning it every now and then - maybe one of these days they'll do the work to enable single scene downloads.
  13. If it's thought through with care, then it's not a stupid decision - no matter what he decides.
  14. I think the perception may be because small dicked gay guys tend to bottom. So that means gay tops are above average in dick size as a group. On the other hand there's no sorting mechanism like that among straight guys since all straight guys are "tops" since the women are the "bottoms" - at least in terms of insertion - power dynamics are another matter completely.
  15. Yup, I know (of) Lou Maletta - from his GCN days (back when GCN was on public access).
  16. All the Dark Alley stuff is available for DTO on rawTOP.tv. Ditto for Dick Wadd, and much of TIM (though it comes in spurts with them), and a bunch of other pretty big bareback producers. [There's more than what's shown on the tour – long story.] Just sign up for the free membership and download the DVDs you want - cheap
  17. I totally agree and that was one of my primary objectives when I set up rawTOP.tv - you can join for free and buy/download (DTO) DVDs for $14.95 (or less if you also have a monthly streaming membership plan). I really wanted it to be scene based, but the VOD company that runs the site for me is old school and thinks in terms of DVDs, not scenes. Absolutely not. You only need a powerful computer if you're trying to mine coins. For transactions, services such as Coinbase are pretty much identical to Paypal in terms of general functionality. The only major difference is that you can't link your Coinbase account to a credit card - only a bank account. And that won't change. Bitcoin transactions can't be charged back. So Coinbase (and others) can't have you buying bitcoins with a credit card and then charging back the credit card transaction - because they can't reverse the bitcoin transaction.
  18. Both of you have a rather fundamental misconception - neg guys cannot be meds resistant. It's the HIV, not the person, that's meds resistant. If you don't have HIV, there's no way to be meds resistant. Doctors are used to the relationship poz guys have with ARVs. A neg guy's relationship is very different. We're not controlling a virus. We just need a certain level of it in our system when we get exposed to HIV. The reason why you have to take Truvada for 5 days before you're completely covered is because Truvada has a very long half-life. What that means is that you do not have to take it at the same every day - it takes something like 2 weeks for Truvada to leave your system once you stop taking it. You're filling a bathtub with a slow leak at the bottom and you only need it to be 1/2 full. Relax. You're not poz. Now, if you just went to a sex party and got 10 loads from random, anonymous guys. Yeah, you should be diligent about taking it every day leading up to and for a few weeks after the party. But if you're just having sex here and there and you know most of your fuck buds and they're generally poz and on meds - relax.
  19. Given that everyone who answered thinks Bitcoin only is a deal breaker, this probably won't happen.
  20. He just had his profiles here deleted… Claims it was all fantasy…
  21. Just wondering how much interest there would be in having a downloads section here on Breeding Zone where people could buy scenes for $1 to $5/each? I could offer both professional porn scenes and amateur. The amateur means you guys could become your own porn producers. You set your price and get a cut of the revenue. The one big caveat is that if the store is on this site Visa and Mastercard won't touch it - the payments would have to be in Bitcoin. Even if I set up a separate "clean" site, the upfront cost and overhead of using Visa/Mastercard may be cost prohibitive (I can't use PayPal - they don't process for porn). Anyway, let me know what you think of the idea. If I implemented something it would be a ways down the road...
  22. I'm migrating this site from vBulletin to IP.Board. (That will mean something to those of you who are geeks). I've got a lot of testing and tweeking to do, but one of the questions is what social bookmarking/sharing options do you want? The poll questions are what IPB has as default options (plus I added Tumblr), but I think some of those are rather obsolete. So please vote on the poll and let me know which of them you'd use with a site like this. Thanks.
  23. What do you mean increases risk should I sero convert? You mean of drug resistance? I'm OK with that risk. Actually I'm more vers top these days. Depends on my mood.
  24. I was reading an article that IRMA (the rectal microbicide folks) linked to on their Facebook page. It was an interesting article about the different PrEP adherence rates for different populations and regions. One of the things they said was: So 4 pills a week is 90-96% effective (theoretically). That's identical to condom use which reduces your risks 10-20 fold. Now, I realize the theoretical nature of that research, but I'm only doing it when I'm really not having much sex (sex every few weeks). If my risk goes up, I'll "use more protection".
  25. You're missing the point - I take 4 pills/week during times of low risk. The low risk + the 90% PrEP efficacy is "safe enough". We all make risk calculations in daily life (e.g. is it safe to cross the street against the light?). Sex is no different. IMHO, you're being completely paranoid. It's fine if you wanna live your life that way, but I don't want to.
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