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  1. It just means that what you send and receive from the server can't be viewed while it's in transit. So if you're in a coffee shop, people can't use software to see what you're doing. If you're at work behind a firewall the firewall doesn't know the nature of the pages you're surfing. That's ALL it means. Parts of this site are open to the public and I'm thinking of locking down other parts even more so you have to specially request access to them. But in the meantime logout and view the site and you'll see what's public and what's not. But remember - anyone can join for free with a valid email and see the full contents of the site.
  2. IMHO, the requirement to disclose that you're poz made sense before 1996 but hasn't made sense for over a decade now. It's not the same disease it once was. These days all the information is out there. If you're barebacking and neg it's your job to ask, not the other guy's to disclose. Make it a crime to lie about being poz, but don't require them to wear a scarlet letter. The laws on consensual sex with "almost legal" teens needs to be revisited too. Kids grow up quickly these days and the law should reflect that. I feel like there should always be some special protections for kids under 18, but "absolutely not at 17 years and 364 days" and "go ahead and gangbang him a day later" - makes no sense to me. But in each case the law is the law. They need to be changed, but in the meantime you have to abide by them.
  3. I'm going to move this into the main forum to get more exposure. Personally I sorta hate drugs - I like being in control. If a bottom has had just little I can live with it, provided they don't do more around me. But when they can't lay still or are bouncing off the walls and distracted or they interrupt sex to smoke up - I really HATE that.
  4. I've always heard the best tops have bottomed at some point in the past and the best bottoms have topped at some point in the past. You need to understand both sides to do it properly.
  5. That raises an interesting point... Maybe I should delete the poll and start over (I think I will)... It's one thing if the top becomes a total bottom, and another one if he's still topping as much as he used to...
  6. Your testimonial was too over the top though... Too many references to "the occult" - so that's not going up. Stuff like that needs to stay buried - say in the groups section.
  7. HungLatinDom is traveling in Europe at the moment. Looks like he was missing a few even before he went on his trip. So I went through the list... The following are done... However, the following names are already taken - so I can't take care of these...
  8. Just wonder what you guys think of total tops "converting" and becoming versatile and taking loads? I ask 'cause Seth Chase just filmed the first scene with him getting bred. Up until now it was always his boyfriend Aaron taking loads - now Seth is taking them too. I can see it a few different ways... Bottoms don't want the competition - they want tops to stay tops so they have guys who want to fuck them. On the other hand there's something really hot about a guy who gives and takes loads - he shares what he acquires. What do you guys think?
  9. This is one of a trio of thread... How Bad Was Your Fuck Flu? After You Converted, How Long Did It Take To Get Fuck Flu? If you haven't put your vote in on those polls, please do... And now... How long did your fuck flu last? Of course, this assumes you had fuck flu (about 1/3rd of you didn't have fuck flu). But I'm curious how long the worst part of the symptoms lasted. So if you felt pretty bad for 2 weeks, and then just felt a little run down for a couple more weeks, put 2 weeks, but comment below explaining your experience.
  10. BTW, Paul Morris likes this thread... One of these days I need to meet Paul... For having such a big name, it seems very little is actually known about him.
  11. Some of the nicest guys I know are total cumdump whores. Taking loads from just about anyone demonstrates that you treat everyone equally and always look for the best in everyone you meet. To me, those qualities reflect very well on our community.
  12. In the 'Settings' area (link is in the top right corner), there are options for Avatar & Profile Picture. The two are different. The Avatar will show up next to all your posts and is visible to people who are not logged in. Your profile picture is the picture that shows up in the top left corner of your profile. It is only visible to people who are logged in. If you want the same picture for both - you have to upload it twice. The "curious" label is explained in another thread here. There are preset labels that are based on how much you've participated on the site. Do more posts and you'll get a different label.
  13. This is one of a trio of threads, the others being... How bad was your fuck flu? How long did your fuck flu symptoms last? If you haven't voted/commented on those threads, please do. IF you know when you were infected (I realize a lot of you don't know), AND IF you had fuck flu... How long after the infection did you get fuck flu symptoms? I know it can be something like 2 weeks to 6 months or more - just wondering what the norm is.
  14. Different strokes for different folks. What you think of as "disgusting" sex is perfectly consensual. One of the points of this site is to get people to understand the sexual choices they make. There have been quite a few threads here about the downsides of being poz. Yet it's a risk/reward decision and the people here have decided the risk is worth it for them personally. You need to accept that choice because you can't ask for other people to accept your choices you until you accept other people's choices. IMHO, you lack perspective. Barebacking is probably less dangerous than most "extreme sports" plus more routine things like bungee jumping, skydiving, or race car driving. Yet no one calls those "disgusting". In fact smoking kills something like 5 times more gay men than HIV/AIDS - where's your outrage for those things? Bottom line men are biologically wired to want sex. The VAST majority of long-term gay couples have open relationships. Even straight couples often aren't monogamous after 10+ years.
  15. I found this site which seems to have a pretty complete list of parties... http://adventuresingroupsex.blogspot.com/ Any other places I should check out? Theaters? ABS's?
  16. Which of the NYC parties have the most barebacking going on? My bf is out of town this weekend and I want to go out and have some fun, but not sure which are the best parties. A while back I went to one party that was labeled "raw interracial" and everyone wore condoms. I'd like to avoid that sort of stuff. Given my build I'm looking for parties where a stocky guy like me would mix in well - the twink/jock parties won't work for me.
  17. I think I've found someone off Recon... A thick, muscled guy in his 40s... We'll see how it goes.
  18. People frequently talk about the winter blues. There's actually a reason for it - Vitamin D deficiency - most people in northern climates are not getting enough sun, which means they're low on Vitamin D. Being low on Vitamin D can lead to... Depression Difficulty in sleeping Excessive fatigue Low energy levels Low immunity levels Mood swings Muscle pain Weak bones (which might result in fractures) Weight Loss While you might like that last one, the others aren't so great. I think your particular symptoms are deeper than just a Vitamin D deficiency, but Vitamin D might be exacerbating things. Get your doctor to test you for Vitamin D and make sure you get your levels back in line. In the meantime you can probably safely take some Vitamin D - 1000 mg / day of Vitamin D3 would be a good place to start. If you're going to go higher than that you really should talk to your doctor. BTW, oddly milk isn't all that great of a source of Vitamin D - at least not in the US. Here they fortify milk with a form of vitamin D that can't be easily absorbed by the body. What you want is Vitamin D3. I take one or two 1000 mg tablets every day and it has helped my mood significantly. Come summer make sure you get outdoors and get some sun. Getting (and maintaining) a light tan is actually a good thing since sun exposure gets your body to generate its own Vitamin D.
  19. The funny part is he posted that question on a site run by an NYC-based top.
  20. It's "User Map" in the "Community" submenu above.
  21. I'm locking this thread. You must be 18 to be on this site. I don't want people admitting to breaking the rules...
  22. http://www.machoscalientes.es
  23. The blog is doing fine... There's not much like it in the Spanish speaking universe, so it's getting a fair amount of traffic.
  24. I think the issue is that there's rape and there's statutory rape. For the guys who enjoyed the experience it was only statutory rape. The problem is both are called "rape". In your case age had little to do with it. You could have been 23, not 13, and had the same reaction if you weren't prepared for sex and didn't feel in control of the situation.
  25. If you're having problems with the site - do not contact me. I ignore 95% of the support emails I get. If you need help - post in the Tips, Tricks & Help section or contact HungLatinDom.
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