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My Issue With Early & Aggressive Treatment Of HIV...
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
The other day I was being a bit nerdy and watching TED Talks on my Roku and I came across this talk... http://www.ted.com/talks/ben_goldacre_battling_bad_science.html Basically, because of a profit driven business model, pharma companies regularly suppress research. In fact sometimes most of the research on some drugs is suppressed and only positive studies are released. As a result, evidence-based medicine is impossible since doctors are not given the information they need to make informed decisions. So when a pharma company pushes early and aggressive treatment of a highly profitable drug (ARVs), when they push the idea that people who aren't sick should take those same drugs (PrEP), and when doctors blindly follow "thought leaders" who are being paid by those drug companies - you have to ask whether it's healthy for you to follow your doctor's advice and agree to aggressive treatment. -
Sorry I haven't taken action on finding writers yet. It's on my list for next week. Don't see any other significant obstacles - so if you've contacted me about it, I'll probably get back to you next week.
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Dick shitting bottoms, love them or hate them?
rawTOP replied to vrsbbltn's topic in General Discussion
I hate dirty holes, but accidents happen. -
If they're someone you'd hookup up anyway, and the money/gifts come without strings - why not take it? The whole image/dignity thing is just in your head. Just change how you look at it and let them do their thing and say thank you with money/gifts. That said, I do know where you're coming from. I escorted for 9 months many years ago when I was in grad school. I needed the money and selling my body was the easiest and least disruptive way for me to get the extra cash I needed. It did fuck with me. Because I needed the money by the end of it I didn't feel like my body belonged to me anymore and I was more detached when I had sex - I felt obligated to perform how they wanted me to perform. That's why I say forget about the money - have sex the way you want to have it. But if, at the end of that, they want to give you money - why not? Now if they think they're buying a boyfriend - that's different... BTW, not all the johns are creepy old men. Quite a few are attractive 40-something businessmen who are just too busy to spend hours online only to have things fall through.
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Yeah, I'll be videotaping at least some of the cum swapping... Will you guys be at MAL?
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Unfortunately NYC doesn't have decent bathhouses. When I'm in a city that does have them I basically hunt for sluts. I'll usually try out a bottom's hole if he's ass up in his room. Lighting-wise, the room should be light enough to show the basics, but generally pretty dim. When walking around, be assertive, but not aggressive. Pause a second at a top's door to give him the chance to say 'no'. Then proceed in and get to work sucking his dick, etc. In public areas of the bathhouse (dark rooms, mazes, etc.) again be assertive but not aggressive. Make it crystal clear you want the guy without being a nuisance.
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I'd guess that men are genetically programmed to have a wandering eye. In an evolutionary sense it helps to have genetic variation. I've even heard someone go as far to say that the normal state for human reproduction is for the woman to take loads from multiple guys and have the sperm compete to impregnate her. That might be a stretch, but don't underestimate biological programming - it's powerful.
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I can never understand why some guys feel the need to be completely naked when they fuck. Sometimes it's completely understandable, but if the room is cold or it's a pump-n-dump, or a gangbang with a line of tops - getting naked just doesn't make sense.
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BiohazardMen Berlin Partydates 2013
rawTOP replied to ExtremeCumHole's topic in German-Speaking Europe
Feel free to add the events to the calendar here on the site... People lie about their status all the time -
Trying to figure this out... If I take out the guys I know who go by other handles, the guys I fucked in dark rooms and bathhouses who didn't know who I was, and I take out Jarod Steel - that makes you either "BareFunBtm" or "CuteJockBoy". Which one are you?
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Anyone Fucked or Been Fucked With An Oxballs Pig Hole?
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I ordered the small Pig Hole a couple days ago. I'm hoping it will help when I have a bottom who's hole doesn't quite rub my dick quite right. If the Pig Hole can rub my dick properly then I can give the bottom a load he wouldn't have gotten otherwise. With any luck this will let me fuck a wider variety of guys... I'll let you know what I think when I start using it. -
I'll be organizing a bunch of gangbangs this year at MAL. One thing I'd like to get started is having the gangbang bottoms share their loads - dumping the loads from one ass to another using a funnel. For example... If there are two bottoms at a gangbang and each gets a dozen loads, then if they dumped their loads from one ass to another then they could each have the loads of two dozen guys in them. Now imagine if a bunch of cumdumps all did the same thing. A bottom hosts a gangbang and gets a bunch of loads, then he dumps some of those loads into another bottom, and when that bottom gets gangbanged he returns the favor - passing the loads in his ass onto another bottom and so on... It's also a great way for guys who may not want to get gangbanged to get loads. If you're interested in being part of the MAL Cum Exchange, post here or send me a PM and let me know...
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Well, as moderator/owner, I have to take it seriously. But yes, that thought did cross my mind - which is one reason why I told him to stop.
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hey rawtop, can you add seattle to the list..
rawTOP replied to kellyanne's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
I've actually added forums for quite a few cities as well as countries in Asia. Enjoy! -
hey rawtop, can you add seattle to the list..
rawTOP replied to kellyanne's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
I'll set it up in a bit. Seattle is the #11 city - so there's enough traffic to make it worthwhile. -
Now I'm wondering who you are... Don't recognize your profile name... Any chance you can get to DC for MAL in January? I could whore you out...
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It's a bit off topic, but if you're in NE PA, then you're near two rather large gay campgrounds - Oneida & Hillside. People come to those campgrounds from all over the region (there were a summer or two where I spent a lot of time at Oneida). Your summers can be totally sex-filled - just spend every weekend at one or the other of the campgrounds. So that's not exactly meeting off Breeding Zone, but that shows how Breeding Zone can help guys find cocks and loads
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Taku's been banned for 3 months. Guys like him are just creepy...
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They would hesitate for one of two reasons. 1) There is no such thing as safe anal sex - only "safer sex". 2) They haven't read up on the literature. Most doctors have not read the critical per-incident risk studies and hence can't intelligently tell you whether a pill can be as effective as a condom. Taku - Do not reply to this thread again. If you do I will ban you (temporarily). You're not really listening to people - you're just being argumentative and pig headed. I realize a lot of that has to do with fear - but it's your unwillingness to face that fear that bothers me. You need go away and just think... Plus - I really don't like you. I sincerely distrust anyone who would consider legal action in the situation you describe. Based on that - you're just not a nice person. So basically be a nicer person or go away.
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From the sounds of it you'd lose your sex drive if you had it on for a month or more at a time. Don't want that to happen and it's not practical to get you a key... Anyone in NYC need a keyholder?
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AFAIK, none of the denialists have shown anywhere near the level of infections to defeat the main point of the Swiss Statement. Saying "well, there's one over here..." doesn't disprove the general concept. Everything in life has risk - the thing you need to get out of the Swiss Statement is that the level of risk of having sex with a poz guy who's on meds is about the same as most other things you don't think twice about. Poz guys really can say "yes" when you ask them "are you safe?" - because they are - probably even more so than a neg guy who hasn't been tested in a while who could have a high viral load. You remind me of the guys who will have safe sex with 500 guys and never ask about the other guy's status (because a condom was used), then they freak out when they have one incident of unprotected sex. Then they get tested, find out they're poz, and blame it on the unprotected sex when those 500 guys they had "safe sex" with were the equivalent of 25 to 50 incidents of unprotected sex. So it's 25 to 50 times more likely that they got pozzed while having safe sex - yet they blame the one incident of unprotected sex for their conversion. And just so you know, I'm a "PhD dropout" in Sociology - did most of the coursework before deciding I wanted to do other things with my life. I've taught stats & research methods on the college level and was rather good at it... I also worked for some rather incredible social scientists. One of which has gone onto be the President of a major university. Bottom line I understand scientific principles and can read stats. But I don't sound like a scientist because I was also taught how to accurately distill stats into words anyone can understand.
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Didn't know chastity had that effect. Now I want to find a bottom to turn into a pussy boy with a useless dick! Was going to offer to be a long-distance keyholder for the OP, but your comments about needing to cum every two weeks means that's impractical.
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The only controversy over the paper is by "Condom Nazis" who insist it can't be true - much like Fox News insisted Romney would win. Theirs is an opinion that's not based in fact and evidence. The Swiss Statement is based on real-world data. The Swiss Researchers could not find evidence of infection by people who were consistently undetectable, no STDs, etc. That said there were limits to the statement and one of them was that they only researched straight couples. I think it's practically criminal that no one has done a similar study of gay men given that we still bear much of the brunt of HIV/AIDS. If there's no statistically significant chance of infection, then something is "safe". Beyond that you're talking random acts of weirdness. You could get hit by a bus when you cross the street next time. That doesn't make it generally unsafe to cross the street. The point is we've all been told that wearing a condom is the benchmark for what's considered "safe". Being a bareback top nearly reaches the standard set by safe sex bottoms. Being a bareback with a poz bottom who's on meds definitely meets that standard. People encounter risk every day in life and they think nothing of it. The only reason you're freaking out is because you've drunk the KoolAid given to you by puritanical types who want us to see sex as "dirty" rather than natural and instinctual.
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I'll just add my two cents... When he answered "yes" to "are you safe" he was telling the truth. You saw the meds - that means he's on meds, and probably undetectable or close to it. Google "Swiss Statement" and you'll see it's pretty much accepted scientific fact that it's nearly impossible for a undetectable person to transmit HIV (with certain caveats). On top of that you were the top. Being a bareback top is nearly as safe as being a safe sex bottom. I've literally fucked hundreds of guys bareback - of all HIV statuses including poz and NOT on meds - I don't have immunity - and I'm still neg. So you were not deceived. The sex you had meets the modern definition of "safe sex". Your over-reaction is just sad... Your fear and knee jerk reaction to criminalize a guy for being poz is just fuckin' scary... Educate yourself...
