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  1. The only controversy over the paper is by "Condom Nazis" who insist it can't be true - much like Fox News insisted Romney would win. Theirs is an opinion that's not based in fact and evidence. The Swiss Statement is based on real-world data. The Swiss Researchers could not find evidence of infection by people who were consistently undetectable, no STDs, etc. That said there were limits to the statement and one of them was that they only researched straight couples. I think it's practically criminal that no one has done a similar study of gay men given that we still bear much of the brunt of HIV/AIDS. If there's no statistically significant chance of infection, then something is "safe". Beyond that you're talking random acts of weirdness. You could get hit by a bus when you cross the street next time. That doesn't make it generally unsafe to cross the street. The point is we've all been told that wearing a condom is the benchmark for what's considered "safe". Being a bareback top nearly reaches the standard set by safe sex bottoms. Being a bareback with a poz bottom who's on meds definitely meets that standard. People encounter risk every day in life and they think nothing of it. The only reason you're freaking out is because you've drunk the KoolAid given to you by puritanical types who want us to see sex as "dirty" rather than natural and instinctual.
  2. I'll just add my two cents... When he answered "yes" to "are you safe" he was telling the truth. You saw the meds - that means he's on meds, and probably undetectable or close to it. Google "Swiss Statement" and you'll see it's pretty much accepted scientific fact that it's nearly impossible for a undetectable person to transmit HIV (with certain caveats). On top of that you were the top. Being a bareback top is nearly as safe as being a safe sex bottom. I've literally fucked hundreds of guys bareback - of all HIV statuses including poz and NOT on meds - I don't have immunity - and I'm still neg. So you were not deceived. The sex you had meets the modern definition of "safe sex". Your over-reaction is just sad... Your fear and knee jerk reaction to criminalize a guy for being poz is just fuckin' scary... Educate yourself...
  3. Looks like I'm considerably outside your target age range, but would love to give you a load.. Due to Dept of Health regulations, NYC's best sex is private - private parties, 1-on-1 hookups, hotel gangbangs, etc. There are a few places that may seem commercial that are actually technically private - and the trick is they can only ask for "donations" - they can't run a proper business. The best place to find sex is BBRT - especially the "party" section. Adam4Adam is pretty good too...
  4. BTW, Meningitis is what Dick Damonson died of. A mutual friend just told me he apparently didn't seek treatment because his meth use had made him paranoid and he wouldn't leave the house. It's just sad on so many levels...
  5. Just use the word 'devil' instead.
  6. True most of the time in the West - but in Eastern Orthodox tradition (which covers Russia, the Slavic countries, etc.) the wedding ring is worn on the right hand. Yes, please post the video (and any others you have) on RaunchyFuckers.com. You can login with the same user name and password you use here.
  7. I've upgraded you to moderator. You can do as much or little as you like. Though be careful with big changes. PM me here or email me at rawtop@breedingzone.com and we can discuss what being a moderator means. You'll see new options show up on the page - most of them are pretty self-explanatory.
  8. No, there's no way to get the posts en masse. If you like cleaning up what others write, care to be a site moderator? Not that I want to make major changes to what people write, but sometimes things like the paragraph breaks need work, etc.
  9. If budget is an issue, check out the AliExpress store Lust Web - Basically you'll be buying direct from the manufacturer. They have a lot of straight stuff (pink, etc.) but I ordered a puppy tail from them - the price was a fraction of what it was here in the States. Unfortunately it seems my local post office has lost it. Tracking says it got to the post office and then it seems to have disappeared. Hopefully it'll be found.
  10. This thread is from the last MAL. I'll lock the thread.
  11. I need A LOT more detail than that. It's working for me.
  12. The problem is that the handles in those apps are not unique - they're more like profile titles - several people can have the same handle. Those apps probably track people based off a hash of the person's phone number or off their email address - nothing that could be used/shown here.
  13. Good point. Though I would hope medical marijuana could be handled differently than other drugs. Here in Manhattan the DA is refusing to prosecute cases of pot possession when the quantities are small - he says it's a waste of his office's resources. But SSI is federal and the feds aren't so reasonable.
  14. Does he have Hep C? If you don't know - ask him... The answer can save you a lot of worrying.
  15. A few months ago I moved from a upper middle class neighborhood where almost no one was on public assistance to the middle of Harlem where "getting your own" / working the system is a way of life for many people. It's opened my eyes to the problem and now I see it more clearly even outside Harlem - for example in a fair number of the guys I hookup with. The Republicans have some valid points when they talk about abuse of the sytem - though I think they'd make a huge mess of things of they had half a chance - comments like Romney's "47%" comment show they see it as a bigger problem than it really is. Still, there is a bit of a problem with abuse of the system and things like drug testing for recipients of significant government assistance (more than medical and food) makes sense to me.
  16. Keep working and make your own money to the extent you can. Too many of the guys I see who appear to be on SSI don't keep themselves busy with work. With all the free time they figure they'll just fuck all day - which leads them to PNP... And before long they're seriously addicted to meth. They sorta just waste away and die at that point (takes years, but too often it's a one way road). It's really sad. All they had to do was keep busy with work. Now, medical benefits, food stamps, etc... That's all good... As is income support for guys who are so sick they can't work. But be careful with handouts that don't require you to work - it's better to be self-sufficient IMHO...
  17. MAL = Mid-Atlantic Leather - see LeatherWeekend.com for more details. Basically it's a mini-IML. When you get 1000+ leathermen in a hotel for a weekend there's A LOT of fucking. The host hotel is basically a big bathhouse. Guys put hankies on their door knob for what they're looking for - dark blue for fucking, red for fisting, etc. Plus sites like BBRT are buzzing that weekend. Lots of sex parties and gangbangs. I'd be happy to include you in some of the gangbangs... Email me at rawtop@breedingzone.com and we'll work out the details. [bTW, I just unlocked my pics for you on A4A - my profile is NYCFucker.]
  18. I'll be there from Thursday to Monday. Going to be whoring out a 24 y.o. skater guy who bottomed at one of my gangbangs 2 years ago and is still testing neg. I'm going to organize a bunch of gangbangs for him. Will be looking for other bottoms to join him.
  19. In a bathhouse - lay on your stomach - head towards the door means you want to give a blowjob first, though head away from the door guys often give blowjobs as well. When you walk around, just wear a jockstrap - dick covered, ass bare signals bottom.
  20. BTW, this is really similar to the thread "How Many Loads In A 24 Hour Period?" Might want to check that out...
  21. Because HTML5 players suck and streaming is pretty much impossible. Simply put, Flash works, and HTML5 isn't nearly as good. That said, if you look at the site on an iOS device it should degrade properly and still work - though that's something I still need to do final testing on...
  22. Just curious what status people put in their profiles when they were poz and not on meds... This only applies to poz guys who stayed off meds for a while...
  23. 8" is pretty thick - some bottoms won't be able to take something that thick - plus it might stretch when you get fucked. So on the one hand, it sounds like some tops might not be able to fit into the small, and on the other some bottoms might have problems getting the medium up their ass. I wonder as a top how different is is to fuck with each of them. I'm maybe slightly above average in thickness - I assume the small will feel like a tight hole and the medium like a loose hole.
  24. There was a time while this case was winding through the courts that just being on meds was sufficient to not disclose. There's a thread in this same section about it.
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