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I cheated on my boyfriend and he found out
rawTOP replied to forevergreen's topic in General Discussion
Why do you have to move to a new city? There (probably) is a middle ground. Relationships are good, but the whole monogamy thing is a bit of a problem. The ultimate question is which decision will you be happier with in 5 or 10 years. Only you can answer that. -
THANK YOU! I owe you one... That's the answer I needed when I started this thread. Who knew you have to pick ltr for hookups?
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Being a 24/7/365 slave is beyond that... Sure there are moments like what you describe, but it's not so much about the scene as the lifestyle. The ideal slave is one who wants to give up control of his life and let someone else call the shots. At the same time the slave needs to be attentive and reasonably intelligent - a lazy slacker is a bad slave. There's also the potential 'boy' side of things, where there's a bit more independence than a slave would have, but once again that's not about an intense sexual experience - it's about a lifestyle of living with a daddy... I guess what I'm trying to say is you're talking about scene or maybe a weekend. I'm talking about full-time. Either a slave or a boy could work well, but whoever we take has to be into it for the long haul.
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My standard is "don't lie". I don't feel poz guys need to disclose unless asked and even if asked they can evade the question - especially if they're undetectable (and hence there's no significant risk to the other person). Being poz is a personal matter, but whatever you do, don't say you're neg when you're poz. The corollary to that is that neg guys have to be responsible for their own health. They shouldn't be taking loads if they want to stay neg (period). And they shouldn't assume someone is neg. They need to ask pointed questions and assume evasive answers = 'poz'. It's not enough to ask status. They need to be asking when the last test was and how many sexual partners there were since then and the nature of those sexual partners - did the person fucking them take loads from other guys, etc.? Ultimately, staying neg is a the job of the neg guy - he can't reasonably expect every person he has sex with to know he's neg and look out for his best interests.
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Personally, I think PrEP is a really bad idea. I wrote a blog post about all the problems I saw with it a while ago... http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2009-09/prep-is-a-really-horrible-idea
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You're hot boy, but I worry about immigration issues with you, and healthcare is a big concern since you're poz...
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Just thought I'd mention that I sorta put the search for a boy/slave on hold while we were busy with renovations. But they're over and things are getting settled, so if the right boy comes along, my bf and I would consider it... Lots of details to work out and we're going to be sorta picky, 'cause we don't want to ruin what we've got going, but now feels like a good time to find a boy
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Looking at the poll - only a little more than a third of you are undetectable... Wow... That many of you are off meds? Or do your meds on get you below 250? In that case then I'd have to include the next group and it's up to 56% where the viral load is under some sort of control. If you're off meds - when do you plan on going on meds?
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We finally moved into our new place and things are calming down for me. For the past year or so I'd jack off just to deal with the stress - it would calm me and let me focus. Now that that's over I'm going to try something new - and not jack off. If I'm successful it means all my cum will go in guys' asses. [i should start wearing my PA again - it helps by making it difficult to jack off.] Any other tops want to join me in a "all loads go in the ass" pledge?
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OK, I've decided to refine the parameters a bit... The initials of the name need to be R.T. (for obvious reasons). Richard would be a good first name since the nickname would be Dick, but I'm not limiting it to Richard. Here are a few options... Richard Topper Richard Topps Topper and Topps were some of the few surnames that started with 'top' that were somewhat common... But I'm not tied to a last name that starts with 'top'...
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The person who sets up the poll specifies whether it will show user names or not. Sometimes it's useful. The default is to not show user names.
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There are professional reasons why using G+ is important to me (gaining trust with Google helps me get more traffic from Google). And unlike some of their competitors Google goes to court before turning over private information.
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As of this weekend, yes, I now live in Harlem. Working off what you've said I could see something like Richard Upton... But it doesn't feel quite perfect yet...
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I gotta say I totally understand. I HATE it when other guys try to interact with me when I'm fucking. I like to concentrate on the bottom and ignore the other guys - they're just there to dump their loads and make his hole nice and sloppy. Contrary to what others seem to think a gangbang is not an orgy.
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I met my boyfriend in a bathhouse. While we were laying there I just knew there was something special about him. We're still together almost 15 years later. So anonymous fucks can involve at least the beginnings of real love and they can turn into something significant. Don't make the mistake of thinking someone is just a trick - you may be passing by something really great.
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Thanks guys. Most of those are too obvious, a few made me laugh (e.g. "Rawlee Topplemann"), but I need more options... Ones that aren't obvious and you later say "oh, I get it..." are ideal... For example "Harry Boughner". Oh, and I'll have to do a search to make sure it's not being used by someone else (someone notable or a porn star)...
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I've been wanting to use Google's newish Google+ which is a "competitor" to Facebook. Problem is they only allow "real people" to use the service - they say raw TOP is not a sufficient first and last name. I know there are plenty of people on Google+ who have "professional names" and don't get why rawTOP isn't OK, but those are the rules... So, I need you guys to suggest names for me. They should sound completely natural and normal, but also be slightly sexually suggestive... I'll come up with some reward for the winner - I can give you some DVDs or free months on BBRT... We'll figure out something that fits who you are...
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For the moment, it's just sort of the nature of the beast. On my list of things to do is to make it easier to find guys near you...
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I've made a hotel reservation but not 100% sure whether I can go.
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If you're interested in learning more about HIV2, you should look at this article for clinicians... http://www.hivguidelines.org/clinical-guidelines/adults/human-immunodeficiency-virus-type-2-hiv-2/?utm_source=Human+Immunodeficiency+Virus+Type+2+%28HIV-2%29&utm_campaign=HIV-2&utm_medium=email A few important points... HIV2 infection is often misdiagnosed and should be treated differently than (regular) HIV1 infection. HIV2 is more mild than HIV1 and less likely to kill you. HIV2 doesn't respond to ARVs as well as HIV1 and doesn't respond at all to certain classes of ARVs (which is why proper diagnoses is important).
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I'll move it.
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Gangbang Bottoms Needed in Phoenix
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in United States: Other: Southwest
I did write-ups on my blog... First one was a disappointment - http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2012-03/disappointing-gangbang But the second one went well - http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2012-04/good-bottom-enough-tops-good-gangbang -
I can count the number of times I've given oral loads on one hand. If a guy just wants oral or wants me to give him the load in his mouth I refuse. IMHO, loads belong up the ass.
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Close to zero risk. Take a look at these blog posts I did a while back... http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2008-02/update-on-the-swiss-statement-about-undetectable-viral-loads http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2008-01/neg-guys-barebacking-with-poz-guys-safe-sex
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No, Alpha Male has stopped filming bareback. I hung out with Trojan Rock a fair amount last week and while he's OK with bareback personally I don't think he wants it on his site. That said, he just merged with Eurocreme and took over managerial control of the company - and they do film bareback. So he's not filming it himself, but he's managing the production of it. But I think the bareback stuff is being filmed in Eastern Europe, not the UK. And Josh isn't quite the skinny little twink that Eurocreme has in their videos...