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topblkmale

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  1. Sadly Covid and the closure of Paddles ended Lidell's parties. I am wondering where many of the black men who attended his events go now. I've been to other parties but its not the same welcoming all-inclusive vibe. Lidell really knows how to have an event where the staff are all friendly with ample refreshments and clean-up supplies. Not to mention he would play that SAME scratched house music CD at every event. I knew the mix by heart. Also Lidell would always personally greet guys with a warm hello and small talk where he remembers everyone's name. I consider him to be an icon of the NYC sex party scene.
  2. The stereotype that gay men are very neat and clean is TOTALLY FALSE!
  3. fraud and identity theft 👍
  4. I didn't find anything non sincere about him having a preference. I love all sodas and as a black man I love grape soda more if given a choice. 👍☑️
  5. Lidell had the best parties that attracted some very fine sexy black men. I've heard Nubian Dukes has parties still.
  6. For me I NEVER fuck in an ABS unless I know the bottom previously and if their hole is clean. There is nothing worse than fucking a dirty whole where there are no facilities to clean your dick.
  7. I have had a few who tried to imitate porn. For some reason they usually imitate the female sucking dick in straight hetero porn with the excessive moaning, (imaginary) hair toss and generally doing way too much.
  8. Ruin't, routed out holes are the best. Especially when the gape makes that hollowed out negative suction noise.
  9. Did you experience this in your 20s as a top, bottom, or verse?
  10. Seems to be a nutrient deficit some cocksuckers have. Kinda like kids eating boogers or dirt. My regular cocksucker I supplement always seems rejuvenated and revitalized after ingesting my semen.
  11. For context, in what part of the US are you located? I'm guessing South Florida.
  12. I agree but I believe its the fact that ABS tend to be mostly oral. Its always a cocksuckers first choice. Most bathhouses, sex parties and sex clubs I frequent guys are into anal primarily. I find myself seeking out the good cocksuckers as I LOVE good oral. I never have a problem finding asses to fuck. Case in point - Slammers Fort Lauderdale. The suck ramps are always half-empty and barely used. However the group fuck room (round bench) and the dark fuck room (regular bench) are always jam packed.
  13. Depends on the country and whether or not your are a permanent resident or naturalized citizen of said country. For me accessibility to affordable health care as well as climate, availability of sexually active men and how the society treats its seniors are my main factors when considering places abroad.
  14. Somewhere outside of the USA where there is less political nonsense, where men are still manly as well as masculine and the cost of living is cheaper. 👍🌎
  15. Get one of those fold out gay 'fun maps' of various large cities. Better yet, go to gaycities.com
  16. How old is BBC dude for context? Sounds as if he's a gig worker using doublelist for clients.
  17. Best bet would be a Motel 6 kind of place off of a major interstate in an OK suburb with direct access to restaurants/shopping center so you get more foot traffic if using a hook-up app.
  18. Faire would be your best bet. WAY more action and more black guys go there - many who are looking for CDs and trans. Also check out Rainbow Playground Club in Queens. Its more accessible from Manhattan with a diverse younger crowd.
  19. 5. Get a divorce. (Pursue choices 2, 3 and 4)
  20. I find it ironic that the SF Bay area is the only metro in the US that has two bathhouses still open. With the exception being South Florida which has three.
  21. 321 Slammer - Ft. Lauderdale, FL The bathhouse scene in the US is over.
  22. I don't think NYC offers this kind of entertainment anymore. If so, I would imagine it would take place in the latin gay bars and clubs of Jackson Heights, Queens on Roosevelt Avenue. Those spots might still be seedy.
  23. I went to CumUnion last night at Rainbow Playground. It was very busy with 84 guys total. The crowd was noticeably VERY different than a normal night. Almost all new faces for sure with many younger Asians, scruffy bearded white guys and what seemed like Euro tourists from Manhattan. I hear naked Tuesday nights get around 150 guys. I just wish they had different promoters on different nights like pre-Covid. You get a better mix that way.
  24. Very true. Many hookups on Grindr live in filthy apartments. I can't deal with roaches, bedbugs and rodents. I've already had two guys bring bugs into my home. I have come to find out that many gays like living in squalor and its part of some kind of pig fetish thing. But I don't judge.
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