VersatileBreeder

Today I got my latest lab results from my ID doc. In the past, when he would call me, he would just say undetectable and your numbers all look good. Today, he told me my CD4 count is up to 1400. Two years ago when I was first diagnosed, my CD4 count was 700. So it seems like my numbers doubled. I know 1400 is a healthy number but how good is it? If any guys would like to share their CD4 counts to help give me an idea where I stand, that would be awesome. Thanks!

I feel your pain with BBRT. I have a bit of a love/hate relationship with that site. I love it because in the past three or so years, I have met some pretty awesome fuck buds whom I probably would not have met otherwise. But I hate the site for all the bullshit you have to go through in order to get a real hook up. I live in the NJ suburbs right outside of NYC. No traffic, I can be in the city in 20 minutes. TONS of guys posting for dick and ass in NYC all the time it seems. Truly is the city that never sleeps. What is mindblowing to me is that when I go to the city, I might go on BBRT before I go home to see if there is any good bottom that wants my load or a good top that wants to give me his. With all the guys on the site, so many don't read emails when you send them. Many don't respond to me and I'll get a lot of the runaround like you described. It's not always bad, though. Sometimes it's feast or famine. One Friday night I made plans to meet a top. Went to his place, had fun, he bred me, then as I was leaving, I got hit up by a nearby guy who wanted to give me his load. Got his, then got hit up by a third guy, one who had bred me before. Beefy muscular Latin daddy with a beautiful cock. He then gave me his. And finally, a hung guy in the Bronx that wanted my hole on my way home. Stopped by his place and got a fourth load. That night was awesome, but those nights are few and far between. Most nights it seems to be just a bunch of guys posting for sex and not actually doing anything about it.

There is no way to average how many guys it takes to get gono. It's like how this message was played out in the 90's movie Kids. Ever see it? Basically two girls who are friends decide to go get tested for STDs together. One had been very promiscuous and was very nervous about being tested. The other was not so nervous because she had only been with one guy. Well, it turns out the promiscuous girl tested completely disease free, while the other girl received the bad news that she was HIV+, just from her one encounter. Moral of the story, it only takes one person to do the trick and you never know who or when it might happen. A few summers ago, I tested positive for syphilis. I hadn't been with that many guys in the months before that. But, since I found out I am poz almost two years ago, I have been way more uninhibited and have played with many more guys and always bareback. I haven't gotten a single bug in that time frame (knocking on wood now). So in short, there is no average. It's just ONE guy to do the trick.

I am truly versatile and I advertise as such on BBRT. I'd say the greater majority of guys out there I would flip fuck with. There are some guys though, like guys who are bigger or more hung than me who I would prefer to bottom for and conversely, guys who are smaller than me and maybe not so hung (but have a great hole) that I would prefer to top. But I consider myself to be good at both topping and bottoming. I have pleased both tops and bottoms very much so I know where my talents lie and when to use them. What pisses me off are the guys who advertise that they are versatile but really always only seem to want to bottom. Kind of like the guy I met this past Friday. Claimed to be entirely versatile and told me he wanted to swap loads and have a great time flip fucking with me. Then when I showed up, he went completely into bottom mode. I was happy to top him, he did have a great ass, but he also had a nice dick I was hoping to get a little of too. So I see both sides of it with guys who claim to be vers but always seem to actually only bottom. I think that they believe they'll get everyone's attention if they claim to be vers but the truth comes out when you start talking to them.

Just wondering how many guys out there are into water sports and piss drinking? I absolutely love when a guy pisses in my ass and fills me up, but I also know that it's not the easiest thing for a guy to pull off. Sometimes guys have trouble getting soft enough to piss and then being able to squeeze it out with a tight hole wrapped around their dick. Piss drinking on the other hand is something I have little experience with. I drank a guy's entire piss load once and it just tasted like warm water, not much to it. I thought that experience was pretty hot. Today, I had quite a different experience. A guy who I met who is into water sports wanted me to piss all over him in the shower, which I happily obliged. Then he wanted to do the same to me, but feeling adventurous, I put my mouth around his cock while he was pissing. I wish I hadn't. His piss tasted so rank, I spit it out and gagged, almost threw up. Tasted way different from the first guy whose piss I drank. So just curious as to what experiences other guys have had with this and how much you may like (or dislike) drinking dudes' piss.

Well I think there are two types of jail sex... There's the two guys who've become friends in jail and have sex to get each other off. Kinda like the guys in Oz. But then there's the rape fantasy that I think many guys fantasize about. Yeah it would be hot if some 6 foot 4, 250 lb of muscle thug with a 10 inch cock ordered me to bend over in the shower so he can go to town on my hole... But I doubt that's how it really happens. And it's hard for me to fantasize about things that couldn't really happen in real life anyway. Prison rape is just that... Rape. And rape is an act of violence. It's hardly about the sex. A rapist getting his nut off is just a bonus for him. His true objective is to violently overpower his victim. So if the thought of having a huge muscle thug punching your face in and slamming your head into the concrete floor, leaving you nearly dead when he's done breeding you is your idea of a hot fantasy, then by all means, fantasize about it. Not a hot fantasy for me.

A few years ago, there was a married guy in his 40's that used to stop by my place and breed me. It was always very quick and anonymous. I usually could only host for limited amounts of time and he only had a few minutes to slip away from work, so when we had the chance, I used to wait for him face down ass up and he would come in and pound my hole, dump his load and split. After the first few times, he got a little more comfortable with not having to be anonymous, so when he would finish, I would turn around and we would make small talk while he got dressed. He one time was getting dressed and said he needed to get back to work. I asked him what he did as he started putting his clothes back on and he said "can't you tell?" He was putting on a police uniform. It made me so instantly hard that I wanted to cum right there. I never really had a cop fetish before that l, but now knowing that a cop was stopping by and breeding my hole just felt so hot. So yeah, I do get the fetish.

Couldn't agree with you more there. I don't know why guys don't get it. Drugs or sex, pick one, because together they are a shitty combo.

Yeah it really blows my mind that guys want to get together, do Tina, and then think sex is actually going to be on the agenda. I think there should be a hook up site that is dedicated to guys who PNP. Maybe that will get all of those guys off sites like BBRT and A4A and then those sites can be all about sex for those of us who can actually have it. tallbtm, yeah I've been there done that too. Back when I was a little more naive about what Tina is and what the signs are, I hooked up with a top who had a really nice cock but could only get half hard. His idea of a good time was fucking me in fifty thousand different positions with a half hard cock for about two hours. After being bored with the fuck for a while, I told him it just wasn't gonna work. It was only after that I realized that his profile said he was into partying. That's pretty much what ended up happening. I put him on his back, pushed his legs over my shoulders and held his wrists down on the bed so he couldn't move. This was the only way I could get him to stop moving. I pounded the living hell out of him and blew my load. Then I was done with him.

I have to second NLbear on Amsterdam here, I've always found those to be the best. Rush is pretty good too, they were the first I've used with poppers, but I notice that they lose strength quickly. Jungle Juice always gives me a headache so I steer clear of that brand. Blue Boy never had much effect on me.

seaguy- yep, this much I know. I have been to sex parties where I have seen two partied guys fucking and they are both in the zone together. This guy, however, knew my stance on partying and promised me he wouldn't do it. Then today, he brings the stuff and insists he needs to do it. If he absolutely can't have sex without it, then I would prefer he just tell me that and I will tell him that we aren't sexually compatible.

Just thought I'd share this story with you guys, especially you guys who think that partied up bottoms are a good time. Because in my experience, they never are. Never had a good fuck with a guy who was high on Tina. This is why I don't do it myself. There is this guy I met on BBRT a few months ago who is a complete bottom. And he's hot as hell- 32, short, slim, toned, smooth hairless body and a great little ass that is just made for fucking. The first time I met him, he was hosting an anon motel room pump n dump scene. I was horny as hell so I went over, got hard, fucked him and dropped a load in him and bounced. He contacted me the next day and told me that he thought I was hot and would love to meet for a longer one-on-one session, just us. I was very interested. Before we met the next time, he asked if I was cool with him partying and I told him I don't fuck guys who are partied up. I started to withdraw my interest at that point, but he promised he wouldn't party. He kept that promise- we met, had amazing, hot passionate sex and I've bred him a few times after that. Well, this morning he texted me and asked if I wanted to meet. It had been a while and I was really fucking horny, so we agreed to meet late afternoon at a cheap motel since neither of us could host. When we met, I noticed a little baggy of white powder. I asked him what it was. The answer: Tina. He asked if that's ok. I guess he "forgot" I don't do bottoms that party. I said I preferred he didn't but he insisted he was going to just do "just a little." I was so horny at that point that I wasn't going to leave, so I just said, "well I guess if you have to..." I probably should have just left because the awesome sex we used to have turned into a shit session this time. I was rock hard during foreplay, but when I tried fucking him, he was impossible. Squirming like crazy. When I was on top of him, he kept trying to control my motions by pushing my torso back and almost simultaneously pulling me in. I literally had to exert extra effort to fight back against his resistance to be able to actually fuck him. It was making me start to lose my boner. I was the top, I needed to be in control. All he needed to do was just lay there like a good bottom. Then he starts saying his ass feels very wet and he thinks the water from when he douched was coming out. Over and over again he was saying this. I told him it wasn't and everything was fine. Then he started asking if there was a smell. I said no, and I'll let him know if anything was wrong. But no, he had to keep asking these questions until he finally got off the bed to go check. When he came back I had no hard on anymore. I told him between all the squiminess and his worries about being wet/dirty, I didn't think it was gonna work. He insisted that everything was fine and to please "don't be like that." At this point I just wanted to blow my load that was practically aching in my balls to come out. I put him on his back, forced his legs back and held his hands down against the bed and pounded the shit out of him. Then I shot a huge load inside him and then got off him. But I was still frustrated with him. I know guys who are pro-partying might tell me that a bottom can be squirmish and worrisome sober. That may be true, but my response to that is that every partied bottom I've ever fucked has had these issues. So what bottoms like him need to realize is that while they are in the clouds feeling on top of the world, chances are they are annoying and frustrating their sober top without even realizing it. I'm just so irritated with this guy right now, I wonder if I will ever meet with him again. Fucking him today was not pleasurable, it was just plain frustrating. And he didn't even realize it. Anyone else ever seem to have this problem with partied bottoms? Would love to hear other experiences and opinions on this matter.

Wow. First your ex sets a crazy stalker up on you and then goes and posts your status on a local town message board. The guy sounds like a miserable piece of shit. Sorry you had to deal with him.

It really depends on what kind of situation you are in with how it should be handled. Most of the time, telling a guy "this just isn't working," is the best policy, but if the guy is a real asshole, it can turn confrontational and the result might be bad. So sometimes, your idea of just 'get him off and he'll be gone' is the better way. I had one hookup I can remember where I told a guy it wasn't working. What happened was, I was in a bottom mood and when this guy contacted me, we discussed what we were gonna do. He told me he wanted to fuck and breed me. When he showed up and we started hooking up, it was clear that all he wanted was to get sucked off and that's it. After sucking on his cock for 15 minutes, I started hinting that it was time to get to fucking. He didn't seem to get it. He was just like "keep sucking." And he wasn't even close to cumming. I'm not the kind of bottom that can just suck dick for days. I'll do it for a little while and then I want to get fucked. This guy just didn't seem to get it. After multiple attempts of trying to get him to switch from my mouth to my hole and he was clearly uninterested, I finally said "sorry this just isn't working." And even then, he still didn't get it. In addition to being inconsiderate, he really wasn't very bright either, which didn't help.

It doesn't shock me in the least that this happened to rentb-y.com, even though it seemed to happen out of the clear blue sky. The mechanics of escorting, especially in the way website like rentb-y conduct them, have always been somewhat fascinating to me. These guys aren't posting that they are looking to go out to dinner. There are nude pics and they are advertising all of their physical attributes and sexual do's and don'ts. It's transparently clear that they are advertising for sex. But then there is that loophole statement that gets put in. That what they charge is "compensation for time spent only and that anything else that happens within that time is decided by two consenting adults." And that's apparently what keeps escorts out from behind bars. Because you know, guys will pay $300 to spend an hour at a restaurant with an hot, built, and coincidentally hung guy just to make conversation over dinner, right? Websites like rentb-y and the guys who advertise on them can put whatever disclaimers they want, but let's call a spade a spade here. It's prostitution, whatever way you slice it. And though I think the form of prostitution that they are soliciting is way different and far more victimless than the dark world of prostitution that incorporates drugs, violence, exploitation, human trafficking and all that other horrible shit, it's not exempt in the eyes of the law. And that's why websites like rentb-y need to be careful. It sounds like there was some financial crime taking place here and that has given the Feds an in to raid them and start trying to take down their escorts as well for prostitution, if this goes that far.

This one might be a bit out of left field because he's not a well known cartoon character. But there's a PS4 game that I have called inFamous and I always found the main character, Delsin, to be extremely hot. The CGI is so amazing in that game that he actually looks real. Here are a few pictures... His animation and voice IS based on a real life video game "actor" named Troy Baker, but the animated character looks very different than the real life actor. The similarities are very subtle.

Violence might backfire for the OP if the stalker is stronger, more skilled of a fighter or has a weapon on him. Though in theory it sounds like a good idea to go after the guy and kick his ass, that can go south for the OP if the stalker can overpower him. It's easy to assume the stalker is a spineless piece of shit, but that might not be the case. He might really be a dangerous individual. If the OP does actually give him a good ass beating, this can also backfire if the stalker plays victim and goes to the police. Assault charges are no joke, even if the assault was well deserved. The law won't be on the OP's side. A good example of this is the 18 year old guy in New Mexico who a couple weeks ago was robbed at gunpoint. When the robbers robbed him and ran away, the guy got in his car and found them a few blocks away. He mowed them down with his car and hit them pretty good. Though I can't help but applaud the guy for firing back at the lowlife shitbags that robbed him, I also can't help but know that it was a stupid thing to do. He may now face aggravated assault with motor vehicle or even attempted manslaughter charges and that can land him behind bars for years if convicted. So RWHID, I am curious, what is the status with your stalker?

Dude if I were up in Toronto, I would DEFINITELY come by to load your hot ass... And I sure as hell wouldn't flake. I had a guy flake this morning myself... His excuse: "shit, my car ran out of gas." The excuses just get better and better. Good luck man!

Interesting idea and yes, it can be done. Basically any waste from your body would have to exit through the abdominal wall and into an ostomy bag. I would not recommend this procedure though if it's purely just so that you can have your ass reserved purely for fucking. When people have this procedure done, it is typically only done for medical conditions and diseases, like cancer or injury to the digestive tract. If this really is something you want to pursue, by all means, it is your body and your decision. I think you might have difficulty finding a doctor that will do this procedure on you if you have a normal, healthy functioning digestive system and the only reason you want it is purely so that your hole can be reserved for anal sex. Best of luck, whatever you choose to do. Also, one more thing to consider... Most surgical procedures are VERY expensive and one as invasive as this would be no exception. It is highly unlikely that any medical coverage you have would cover a procedure that's done for "recreational" purposes, so to speak. I don't know exactly what it would cost but I can only imagine it would be in the tens of thousands. So from a financial standpoint, I would say why take out a mortgage on your hole when you can just douche for free?

This guy sounds like a total psychopath. I am shocked that the police say they can't do anything here. This day in age, with all the tracking technology, I find it odd that they can't find where he lives based on his phone number or IP address. Any names he has given you shouldn't matter. He sounds like a dangerous individual. I wouldn't play around with him. You have enough proof based on threatening phone calls, text messages, and his actions when you have seen him in person. Get a restraining order, tell him you aren't fucking around with him anymore, and that if he approaches you or makes contact with you again, his ass is going to jail.

Fuckrogerbb- I am poz and on Stribild. I have very good health insurance and the way my plan works, I am liable to pay a copayment on any prescription drug with a maximum out of pocket amount of $400 per year in copayments. So, early in the year, when I get my 3-month supply of Stribild filled (which is retail price $8,950), the pharmacy asks me for $400, because the copayment is hitting that $400 max. Coincidentally, $400 is exactly what the Gilead copay card will cover you for each month for your meds. So that card settles the $400 maximum and I pay nothing. Then, my insurance covers me for meds for the rest of the year at 100%. So, I'm lucky enough to not have to pay a dime for my meds.

Yep, I've dealt with this scenario before. It seems to be the worst in younger guys, like under 25, but I've seen it in all ages of men. It's ridiculous- they talk a big game of how badly they want to get fucked and they want a million text messages outlining exactly what you will do to them and they want a thousand pics. But when it actually comes time to hook up, something changes... All of a sudden, the timing is no good anymore. Something came up. When I asked a guy for his address once, his response was "dude, my house just exploded... I don't think I'll be able to have anyone over for a while..." Not kidding. I couldn't even dignify that one with a response back. The truth of the matter with these guys is it seems that they are never serious about hooking up from the start. It's mind boggling to me why if a guy hits me up and he is so horny and so into me, and I am offering my body, my cock, my ass, why are we not meeting? I honestly believe it is that these guys don't have the balls to actually meet someone for sex, but rather they get off by jerking off behind their computer screen, knowing that some guy out there actually does want to fuck their brains out. Sounds to me like this is what the deal is with your 22 year old over there. He has multiple bad excuses for not being able to meet at the last minute. I would absolutely just cut him off and not speak to him again.

Thank you for the advice and support guys. Well... I told him earlier tonight. And the result was.... He took it very well! Deep down, I expected he was going to be good about it, but he actually took it even better than I expected. Though you guys suggested I tell him in casual conversation, i just couldn't find a way to tell him like that... So I told him that there was something we needed to talk about and I just told him. His initial reaction was very mild. At first, he was just kind of like "OK...." But as we talked more about it, he told me he respected me a lot for telling him and that he still wants to see me. He said that this really isn't a big issue for him and that he is not all that educated on the ins and outs of HIV so he will probably have questions for me as time goes on, which I told him is fine and totally understandable. He even said he feels closer to me now that I told him this about myself. He stated that he is not judgmental and would never turn his back on me because I told him I am poz. So all is well on this front. We will see how it goes going forward with him but I feel good about it.

Last week, I met a really cool guy on Grindr. We have gone out a couple of times and we connect really well. I definitely see relationship material with him but, here we go, there is just that one issue at hand- I am poz. Last night we were hanging out at my place. He was telling me how much he really likes me. Something in me was telling me to tell him at that point that I am poz but I didn't do it. We haven't done anything physical yet, except kissed. So my question is- when is the best time to tell a guy like this that I am poz? And how should I deliver that news? I know I am making assumptions here, but I am going under the assumption that he is neg. I really have no idea how he will take it and that is the part that scares me. He might be really cool about it or he might freak out and run away. So from your relationship experience, have you found it is better to tell them right in the beginning or wait until you get to know them a little better before dropping that news?

Yep, been there. Most memorably, I met up with a 28 year old Latino dude who had a decent body and a great cock, but his face was tough to look at. However, once the lights went out and we were flip fucking, his big fat uncut cock breeding my hole was amazing and his smooth silky hole wrapped around my cock was equally amazing. Would I do it again? ABSOLUTELY. I'm pretty open minded with different types of guys, but like most everyone else, I have my limits too. Those limits are: - Anyone old enough to be my grandfather, so around 70 is my cut off age. - Dirty, grimey or smelly guys (bad body odor and bad breath are total gross outs for me). - Extremely overweight (obese) to the point where I have to play hide and seek to find his cock and/or hole. - If I'm bottoming, a guy whose cock is so small that he can barely get it in my hole, or not even get it in at all (yes, this has actually once happened). - Guys who are standoffish, seem uninterested, have a bad personality, or are mentally spaced out. Other than that, I'm good to go!