Jimmy1212

That's a damn good question. My wife is convinced they're not really like that and that they just do it cause they know it winds me up. And lots of times the comments are made in a joking manner, but they're so frequent I think there is some real racism behind it. The other thing is that they don't know I'm bi, so if we ended our friendship, I'm sure they'd say it was because I was prejudiced towards gays. How's that for irony?

Saturday night I had to attend a function downtown. It ended early, meaning that for once in a blue moon I was downtown at night without the wife. So I took advantage and stopped by a huge ABS before heading home. It was actually really slow at this joint. I suppose a lot of downtowners are doing the bar thing on weekend nights. Anyway I got sucked off in a video booth by a younger Asian dude (who didn't swallow, dammit), then finished the night with a three-way jerk with an older married dude and a native in the main porn theatre. All in all it was pretty disappointing ... actually extremely tame compared with the typical goings-on at my usual (suburban) XXX.

As a white dude, racism is not something I've ever been accused of; I've had friends and sex partners from all races (in fact blacks have been somewhat over-represented in my sample). However, my wife and I only count two gays--a couple--in our circle of friends. One of them is white and the other Asian, but they are both incredibly racist towards blacks, Indians, Arabs, etc. This has always astonished me and there's been many times that my wife has had to restrain me when I've been really offended by the BS they were spewing. Because we only really know these two, i don't know how typical their views are, but it sure amazes me that ANY member of a minority could be so insensitive to other minorities.

I love public sex--especially when others watch me blow a load down some dudes throat or up his ass. if you're just getting into it, maybe u coud find a suck woods in your area ... a semi-private wooded spot either in a park or behind a highway rest stop or similar, where u can get some practice. After you've gotten the hang of it, u might want to seek out even more public (or better lit or just busier) spots, where u can both watch and be watched as you're getting off. Public toilets are also cool (but riskier), and although I generally prefer outdoor sex, in the winter a porn theatre will do nicely. Best of luck; hope u find what you're after!

[i tried to post this to the Public Sex group, but it's 300 characters too long and I'm too lazy to edit!] I've had lots of public experiences, but probably the hottest was in Amsterdam. When I was in my early 20s, me and two straight buddies flew to A'dam for a week of smoking and partying. Late one night I got separated from our little group, but kept on partying in the Red Light district by myself. In the wee hours I staggered out of a bar and ducked into an alley to have a piss, while trying to figure out the way back to my hotel. As I was pissing against the wall, another dude about my age stepped up right beside me and started to piss too. Next thing I knew, he was on his knees and sucking my cock--even before the last of my piss had come out. I was drunk and stoned, but still aware that we were barely off of a busy street, so I got a bit nervous. Sensing that, buddy told me to zip up and follow him. We walked through a maze of streets, eventually emerging in a gravel lot. In the dim light, I saw an old fashioned iron pissoir standing underneath what looked like a highway overpass. We ducked behind the iron screen that shielded the pissoirs door from the adjacent street and carried on. After getting my dick good and wet again, my Dutch buddy dropped his jeans and spread his asscheeks in invitation. Not wanting to pass up some strange tail, I quickly obliged. We fucked and fucked and fucked ... so long, in fact, that I didn't even notice the sun had come up. When I realized it was getting light, I spun my new friend around so I could see what was on the other side of the gravel lot. I friggin near fainted. Just 100 feet away was a huge line of traffic--early morning commuters coming down an off-ramp from the highway. All of them had a perfect view of us two dudes fucking against the wall of the pissoir! Despite my panic, a fresh wave of lust came over me when I realized all these people could see me fucking. Almost immediately I shot my wad up buddy's hole. I quickly thanked him and was still pulling up my jeans as I ran off.

Cool. Thanks for the advice!

Never tried this but would like to. I've got a question tho--whenever I read about it, here or in ads on CL or BBRT, the bottom is usually receiving a string of guests and taking multiple loads. I'm ok with barebacking a poz bottom (never asked, but odds are good I've done it) but only if he doesn't already have another dude's load in him. The reason is partly safety, but also personal ... a hole filled with some other dude's jizz is just a turn off for me. (Just realized a lot of u are prob gonna laugh at me for this one!) So what's the best way to ask a walk-in bottom if he's empty or if I could please be first in line?

Nice story bro. Some of my best experiences have been when I'm traveling away from home for work (alone), staying in a hotel or motel, and can't sleep so go for a late night walk ... Considering that I'm usually in a strange city and don't know where anything is, it's surprising how many times things just work out. I end up getting my nut, then I can get to sleep in that strange bed.

I'm completely indifferent to a bottom's cock size. In fact I don't ever care if they got one (I like to fuck women). But I suppose it could be seen as a waste if a total bottom had a big one.

Don't get the "grand deception" angle.

Thanks for this. You're my favorite kind of bottom--especially since I tend to fuck dudes in places where there's no facilities to clean up after. Stay awesome dude!

As an Ontarian, I recommend you guys get down off your high horses and learn the real story before trashing the Canadian legal system--you know, the one that's based on the exact same common law as yours. Raynard allegedly responded to verbal taunts with physical violence. He was drunk and attacked teenagers with a brick for fucks sake. Also his plea bargain did take into account the harassment he received prior to losing his cool. He received an absolute discharge, meaning that if he stays out of trouble for a year, the whole thing will be expunged from his record. From a more balanced account: "Raynard himself has admitted, 'I may have exceeded some bounds. I’m a little bit in shock that I reacted that way. I’m not a violent person. There was alcohol and flared tempers. I have feelings of massive regret. It’s something that I’m dealing with on a daily basis.'"

I've fed my dick a few times to dudes I wouldn't give a second glance to on most days. Sometimes it's a matter of being incredibly horned up and taking what's available (like the other night at the XXX) but other times I've gotten turned on by the bottom's obvious need ... and their crazy appreciation at scoring a young(er) hot cock. And there was that one time I was getting pestered by a good-looking, but annoying dude whose mind I blew by grabbing the ugliest old troll in the place and feeding my load to him, instead of the asshole. I tend to look at it as karma, like MascMountainMan said ... someday I'll be the sad old dude with a boner needing attention!

I get this. I've been happily married more than a decade and a half and never had the slightest romantic interest in dudes. But I learned as a teen how dead simple it is to get no strings sex from other guys. Pretty much my whole life I've let dudes blow me and even fucked them--in parks, bathrooms, rest stops and XXXs. But only as a 100% top--with no interest in reciprocation of any kind. I can't imagine anything that could entice me into bottoming. This site is the only gay porn site (if you can call it that) that I visit. I discovered it while searching for info on how best to protect myself during my anonymous adventures, but stayed because of my fetish for giving loads to as many people as possible (my Johnny Jizzseed complex). I'm also somewhat of an exhbitionist, i.e. I enjoy being watched while feeding bottoms and anonymous public hookups are the best way to satisfy these urges without the stress and potential consequences of having affairs with women. Not surprisingly, after so many years of injecting my nut juice into total strangers, I've developed a fondness for public cum dumps and their "take all loads" mentality.

Friday night I stopped by the same XXX where I had such a good time the week before. Unfortunately it was a stormy night and there was only five other dudes in the whole place. They were all nondescript married guys ranging from about 45 to 60 and there was no action going on at all. As usual they started following me from theater to theater, and once I got them all corralled into the one that had the best movie playing, I sat back, whipped out my hard cock and waved it around as an invitation. The five of them quickly took turns nursing on it and three of them ended up sharing my load. Not the hottest sex ever, but I went home thinking I'd done my good deed for the week.

Oh yeah, almost forgot: "chuffed"

"Bell end" -- only ever encountered this in UK

A guy's ass is generally hotter, tighter and drier than a chick's pussy, therefor more awesome friction. Even so the turn on for me is mostly mental--asserting my masculinity over another dude, proving his inferior status by making him take my alpha cock up his shithole ... and ultimately owning him by loading it with my jizz (along with any critters that might be living in it).

Early this morning in the wife's pussy, but you guys would probably rather hear about Friday night, when I dropped a couple loads at an XXX on my way home from work. Got off work a bit early Friday and stopped by a local XXX on the way home. This place is kinda old and seedy but I like it cause it gets a lot of married dudes and tradesmen, so I don't feel out of place in my work gear. I parked my truck in the back lot and went in through the side entrance off the alleyway. Once I paid my cover I wandered though the four mini-theatres. The first two were fairly crowded but I didn't see any action going on. The third one (one of the "straight" theaters) only had a half dozen guys, but there was one dude who caught my eye. He was a rugged looking, blond haired guy about my age, dressed like a carpenter and he seemed a bit nervous, making me think it mighta been his first time. I dropped into the seat next to him, whipped my dick out and starting jackin and sure enough, within a minute or two, he reached over and started tuggin on it himself. That was my cue to reach for his head and pull it down into my lap. Damn he was good. If it was his first time at the XXX, it sure as hell wasn't his first time sucking cock. His velvet mouth was soon going all the way up and down my shaft, but every time someone entered the theater he pulled off, sat up straight and pretended to watch the movie. After he did that a couple of times, I figured I outta help get him over his paranoia, so I shifted in my seat and motioned for him to get on his knees in front of me. The next time the door opened, I grabbed him by both sides of his head and held him in place, so he'd keep sucking and ignore his surroundings. By this time a small group was standing around us, most of them either jacking off or groping the dude next to them. I'm cool with that, cause I enjoy having an audience while I'm getting serviced. After a few more minutes of his awesome deep throating, the dude standing next to me held a bottle of poppers under my nose and as the rush hit me I flooded the cocksuckers mouth with my load. Although he took it all like a trooper, I was a bit disappointed when he turned away and spit my load out, before rushing out of the theater. Once I get my nut, I'm usually out of there too, but on this day I still had some time before I was expected at home, so I decided to stick around for a bit and see what developed. After a quick smoke out in the back alley, I went back in and wandered through the four rooms again. There was a decent movie playing in the "bi" room, so I sat down in the second to last seat in the back corner and watched for a while. After about fifteen minutes, a really short Asian dude about 30 or so came in and squeezed past me into the corner seat. I have a real thing for fucking small dudes, so this got my attention off the movie. Within minutes I had my right hand down the back of his elastic-waisted running pants and he was rubbing my newly hard dick through my jeans. But just then an older and really obese dude plunked himself into the seat on the other side of me and seemed determined to interrupt our little party. I tried to whisper some instructions to my Asian boy, but from his response I realized he couldn't speak English, so I just stood up and motioned for him to follow me. We left that room, crossed the corridor and went back into the straight theater where I'd gotten sucked off earlier. Once inside I saw that the same crew that witnessed my first nut was still there. I chuckled cause they seemed surprised to see me ready to go again less than a half hour later. Someone passed the Asian boy some poppers and quick as a flash he had those nylon pants on the ground and was bent over the back of one of the seats. I knew from fingering his ass in the first theater that he was already lubed, so I stepped up and slammed my cock most of the way in with a single thrust. He gave a loud groan and started mumbling something in Chinese, but if he was asking for a condom, I sure as hell didn't understand it. I was extremely turned on by the difference in our sizes. Although I'm under six feet, this little dude was nearly a whole foot shorter than me and very slim to boot. After wailing on his tight ass for a while in that position, I pulled out, turned him around and with one hand under each of his tiny asscheeks, I lifted him up. He understood immediately and wrapped his legs around me as he reached underneath and got my dick back inside his hole. I have fucked smaller dudes in this position before, but never with an audience. It was so hot that while he was bouncing up and down on my cock, I walked around a bit making sure everybody got a good look. Our little show seemed to turn the whole room on and soon everyone who wasn't whacking off while watching was sucking on the dude next to them. Then the Asian boy started squealing like he was gonna come and I freaked out for a second thinking he'd shoot all over my clothes, but when I looked down I realized the considerate little runt had a condom on his own dick! When he did come, his asshole spasmed on my cock and that was all I could take. Load number two got pumped deep into his ass and I collapsed into one of the seats with him still straddling me. As I got up to leave, my little partner in crime handed me a slip of paper with his email address on it and gave me a big grin. I'm not sure how that's gonna work though--unless he can read and write English a lot better than he can speak it. As I drove home Friday evening I wondered whether fucking him again would be as good without an audience (I think I'm becoming a bit of an exhibitionist) and whether it would be worth violating my policy of only hooking up randomly and anonymously. Still thinking on that.

After reading that, I can assure you the feeling is mutual.

Bi married top here ... just wanted to say thanks for swallowing that load. Most of the sex I have with dudes is just getting sucked off in places like the woods where u were or in XXXs. I never warn them when I'm ready to nut, but most of the time the cocksuckers are cool and happy to swallow. I really hate it if they pull off or spit out my jizz. If it make any sense it feels like I haven't had sex .. and then I need to go find someone else to take my load.

I agree. Who the fuck does that in real life (pull out when starting to cum)? I know when I'm busting my nut I want it to be as deep into that hole as possible.

Maybe it's on account of the wedding ring, but no bottoms ever asked me to pull out. Not sure how I'd react if one did, cause for me it ain't sex if I don't nut inside someone. I remember feeling insulted one time when this dude at the XXX spit out my load after I came in his mouth. A couple weeks later same dude wanted to blow me again and I told him "not unless u swallow". He did.

Being married kinda naturally limits the amount of sex I have with dudes, so I assume most of you have more experience than I. Having said that, it has happened a couple of times that I been fucking a dude and he isn't as clean as he might have thought he was. But here's where we differ. Although I'm not into scat, unless the situation is totally disgusting, I'm not about to let a little shit ruin my good time. I'm fuckin a shithole - I'll hold my breath if I have to, long enough to finish the job and drop my nut in that hole. And if the dude's a little on the twisted side and willing to clean me up with his mouth afterwards, so much the better.

Almost all the sex I have with dudes is in some kind of public place. After a while I had to admit to myself that having a potential audience and or the risk of getting caught was a major turn on. I got started with this shit really young too. In fact the one time I got caught was when I was just a young teenager. It was the middle of the night and I was getting sucked off by this 40-something dude in a downtown alleyway when I felt a firm hand on my shoulder. I slipped my cock back into my jeans and zipped up as I turned around and came face to face with a uniformed cop. He never actually saw my dick in the other guys mouth ... and the cocksucker gave some feeble excuse about looking for something that he'd dropped on the ground ... but there was no way the beat cop didn't know what was going on. That was confirmed when he made me assume the position up against the brick wall and gave my still hard dick a little squeeze while he frisked me. Fortunately for me (and especially for the cocksucker since I was underage) he let us go with a stern warning to stay out of alleyways. Of course being young, dumb and way too full of cum, me and the other guy walked down a couple blocks and finished the job in the next available alley. Ahh youth ... stupid, horny youth!