anonCUMtainer
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The real world is what it is. The real world has its pros and cons. The real can be pleasure and sincere pain. I do not want to discourage anyone reading these posts from getting tested regularly if they engage in regular / frequent bareback sex. My personal preference is to get tested regularly so that I have peace of mind that if (because as you point out its UNavoidable) I do get an STI that once I find out, I can make informed choices and help notify previous partners, get treatment quickly, and choose to abstain from sex for the prescribed period and "take one for the team" because yeah it sucks but I don't want anyone else to have to go through this AND I don't want to get it back. The last thing I want is for readers, in general, to walk away thinking that going through the embarrassment and agony of subjecting yourself to the STI testing is just not worth it, cause i "have no symptoms" and just generally brushing off getting tested because "why bother" it sounds unavoidable. Please be good to yourself!! I love you guys.
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Is it complicated? Maybe for some yes. We all tend to get in our own way at some point about something... I also love and appreciate all the previous comments and posts, very thoughtful stuff men, and I love this community for illustrating that IF we fall into the trap of subscribing to labels it becomes super easy to have or find reasons to dismiss our fellow man. My personal struggle is that my "filter" tends to be pretty basic like my brothers who previously commented; If you want to breed me, I want you to!! If you don't want to empty your seed inside me, then I pass. The way I reconcile this, is by choosing to remain focused on compassion. I have read about other members own personal experiences and have had my own experiences where I was genuinely surprised by many of the truly great fucks I have had with men who were "not my type" etc. The disadvantage to these apps is being taken advantage of by people who will exploit your compassion. Sadly, this is part of the world we live in and I try to have empathy for those who have to be assholes or shit bags to their fellow man to get what they need or want.
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Noted. I don't disagree with you. In hindsight, when I posted that I was still emotional from just learning the news and disappointed at the results. I would however say that having "no symptoms" is no reason not to get tested as often as one perhaps should.
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This illustrates perfectly my frustration with the lack of personal responsibility. Today, I got the results of last week's STI testing. I was given chlamydia. It has ruined my day. Why lie? I guess it's easier than taking personal responsibility for ones self and ones decisions. While my day is ruined, my life is not. I know the risks to receiving any man who desires to mount me and while I do NOT like nor enjoy the consequences, I certainly do not fetishize them, nor desire them, nor do I want to share them. I deal with them. In what I hope is an adult and responsible way. For me, bareback is more fun without the bugs and the diseases.
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Where is google analytics when you really need them?? LOL Best times to visit the ABS by horny men should be a thing.
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Have You ever been Caught by Someone’s Wife or GF?
anonCUMtainer replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
Great question. I have a feeling with air tags and other newer tracing devices that catching a cheating spouse may be easier or may confrontational. I met the man of my dreams this past weekend, lol. Kinda sad when he's already married and just fooling around on the side. I may never see him again. -
AMEN. The apps and dating websites only put this front-and-centre. Well said. This is why if I had one WISH for the gay-community it would be for bottoms to top other bottoms. Especially the bottoms that also have average and above size cocks. Please do not cage those - share them!!
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for gay couples: what do you answer about roles?
anonCUMtainer replied to PozTalkAuthor's topic in General Discussion
This happened to me at WORK circa 2010... My colleague basically asked the same question....word for word. Who's the "woman" in the relationship? is the gist of this question. Who "takes it"? AND IT IS OFFENSIVE The amount of bottom shaming baked into modern day society is endless. Poor women. I feel sorry for them. PS It was a woman who asked this question of me. -
What it's like to have Monkeypox
anonCUMtainer replied to JakeTurner's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Went for STI testing today and got a second opinion. In that process, I realized I did use a different lube recently which probably caused an outbreak. I do appreciate the forums and this community for providing very helpful and personal context to some of these shared experiences which are not pleasant and [banned word] to discuss generally. Love you guys and thanks for sharing your experiences. -
What it's like to have Monkeypox
anonCUMtainer replied to JakeTurner's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Thanks for sharing! I had two doses of the MPOX vaccine - yet I am getting pimple spots on my ass and it seems too punctual to be acne... Any update from around the community?? -
In my experience if I get too loose the top may not be able to finish inside me.
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Tops have the pulling power with sex ads.
anonCUMtainer replied to Ozpig's topic in General Discussion
I have always believed this - thanks for confirming. I wish more Tops out there liked to share... -
This topic strikes a little too close to home for me and I have to admit that I am triggered... We actually had a unholy argument about this last night...we were up until 3 am. This issue is - that My partner of 20+ years presents himself to everyone as a top - and yet he has never asked me to douche so that he can fuck me. I have been struggling with this...why wouldn't a top ask his bottom to douche so he can fuck him? So, what is a top? I would like to know. DESIRE is alluded to by some of our versatile brothers - who DESIRE to fuck (aka TOP) one day, or DESIRE to get fucked (aka BOTTOM) another. This to me is the BEST definition. IF you DESIRE to penetrate you are a TOP - if you don't DESIRE penetrating an ass you are NOT. The difficulty with this - is that DESIRE is fickle and nimble, and changes from one second, or one person, to the next. They may desire to TOP this person, but that not person. So, are they a TOP? Sometimes. I give up.
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Best Free Porn Site To Upload My Amateur Vids To?
anonCUMtainer replied to a topic in General Discussion
I need to dredge up this topic, please. Any recent experience or updates anyone could or would share is greatly appreciated. Thanks! -
This is a great question. I am also curious if there is any current advice (wisdom, insight) anyone could provide...? Is there a "good" platform that is easy for content creators? Are they all dying off? Is onlyfans or just for fans the only way? Do you have to perform live? What about just posting recorded videos? Is Twitter the way to go? xHamster? PornHub? I am trying to read through the various threads - can anyone sum it up for us? I want to make some close-up porn featuring your nice hard photogenic cock and balls penetrating my sexy blond hole as a fun back-drop to highlight your amazing equipment doing what it does best...seeding a sexy warm hole balls deep. HMU!
