Most apps work about the same for me. Better success lately on Sniffies, A4A, and BBRT but goal is to find a reliable, stable, free/low cost, location based app filled with men who are more interested in a good fuck with an average man than apps that keep you chasing the next hot torso that comes along.
No matter which app or site used, be ready for action if you’re online. If you’re not ready, make it clear in the first chat you’re looking for a later time. It’s is best to quickly cut out the flirtation and be direct. Ask if they want to fuck. Let them know exactly what you want and when you want it. If you ask for a pic, you send first. If they don’t respond favorably, move on. They are not interested.